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Redrocket
August 2nd, 2014, 07:25 PM
It's been like two weeks and I lost a goo friend of mine! One day I was on Facebook and I was searching for her name and it wasn't there. I was thinking "what the hell" then she texts me on her boyfriends phone saying "hi I think we should move on." Then I start to flip and I said
"What ever you are always gonna be a village bicycle you f**king tramp

Then she says

This is what i mean...you be all nice to me and then you turn around and do this or run away from me...im just done with it. I can't handle it anymore. You do it alot, like i understand that i talk about bad things in the past but a true friend would listen and help out not just run away no matter how sick of hearing my problems are. Im just done, i don't wanna try being friends because you will probably just run away from me again.

Then I ask her to meet me somewhere so we can talk this out but she wouldn't

I even created another Facebook to talk to her but she just ignores it I really want her back an tell her in sorry but how can I do that when I can't text

Th

ChrisTJ
August 3rd, 2014, 12:51 PM
I think you need to let the dust settle. If she's blocked you on Facebook then she clearly doesn't want you to be contacting her. The best thing you can do right now is just to let her be. Maybe in a few weeks or months try and contact her through a mutual friend or something telling her that you are sorry and that you realise that you said some nasty things. No guarantees she'll accept your apology but it's the only thing you can do.

Gumleaf
August 5th, 2014, 02:12 AM
I have to say, if you have a trend of speaking to her like that, then I understand completely why she is reacting like she is. Like the person before me said, if you really are sorry for being like that then wait a while before trying to speak to her again and see if she wants to talk to you again. Being a friend means being there during the good and bad times and I hope you are figuring stuff out about yourself through this so it doesn't happen again.