What is considered cheating and how to get over a heartbreak?

[AnswerMe]

My problem is: I have recently met a guy I liked. I asked him out and he said yes. However, we didn't get the chance to go out because I was leaving for this 15-day summer camp in another country the next day. So we said we'd meet after the camp. But at the camp I met another guy. He was really nice and we clicked. At first, we were just talking but then it turned into something more. We kissed, I even gave him a hand job and he fingered me. I am now wondering whether that would be considered cheating? Because, technically, I didn't even go out with the guy back home, so he's not really my boyfriend. I'm also a little bit afraid of what I would say to him if he asks me something about my previous experience with guys. I don't want to lie, especially if the friendship with the guy back home works out and we stay thogether for a longer time - then, I would've want him to know, maybe just not all the details. I'm also a bit confused because I like both boys very much. At first, I just liked the boy back home and I started fooling around with the foreign guy so time would pass by more quickly. But then I developed some feelings for him and now I feel really bad about him leaving and us probably never seeing each other again (because he literally lives on the other side of the world). And I know it's not the best idea to start dating so soon after this experience but, as I've said, I really like the guy back home, too. This is my first real heartbreak. Any tips on how to deal with this?

[Pensive]

This may seem harsh, but the truth often is.

Grow up. And stop being a ( PC correction to avoid moderator's having a fit - 'what most would consider' slutty behaviour ).

You clearly aren't mature enough to be dating anyone, nor do you understand love and its complexities. There's no rush for these things, just relax and enjoy being young!

[Waleedbt]

I hope for the sake of the guy that you asked out back home doesnt go out with you.
I will feel sorry for him if you actually do.

[Gumleaf]

Well I'm going to be less critical then those above me. To me you can't cheat if you're not in a relationship. Asking someone out and not having even had the date yet doesn't really constitute being in a position to cheat. That being said though, the guy at home might be turned off by what you did with the guy at camp. So it's important that you tell the guy at home what happened at camp because you had asked him on a date first and then did stuff with someone else. Leave it up to him to decide if he still wants to go out with you.