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BossCubed
August 1st, 2014, 02:59 PM
I've never made out before, and I'm going to meet a girl that I've been talking to on the internet for the first time, we would be in a relationship, but the distance is too far, but we have decided that it's ok for us to do more than what friends would normally do, like making out. So I was wondering if anyone could describe how to make out, or if anyone had any tips, what I should and should not do, where I should have my hands etc. stuff like that, thanks :)

Melodic
August 1st, 2014, 03:45 PM
I think you should just go with it and live in the moment honestly. It's really a matter of mood, not much technique.

melissurr
August 1st, 2014, 04:27 PM
I think you should just go with it and live in the moment honestly. It's really a matter of mood, not much technique.

Literally just this. Go with the flow and what you feel is right.
As for hands though just start with around her waist/in your lap or hold her hands. Just try to be comfortable and enjoy it :)

AlexanderTheGreat
August 1st, 2014, 04:38 PM
Go with it enjoy it!! As for hands make sure you do something with them as the first time I made out with someone I just left them hanging like a piece of string but I soon realized I needed to do something with them. Personally I think running you hand through their hair is good. Also waist and hips are good but DONT go any lower unless she gives signals. Also don't use too much tongue to begin with, bring it in gradually.

Honestly I didn't have a fucking clue what I was doing the first time I made out with someone. She was walking towards me and we knew we were gonna makeout and in my head i was thinking 'what do i do???' but then we started kissing and i just went with it and in the end it was great, i didn't worry about it, i just went with what felt right and boom I had alota fun!!

Good luck!!

Gumleaf
August 1st, 2014, 05:37 PM
I agree with those above me. It's not something you can learn from us posting here, it's all about the moment and what you and her are comfortable with. I didn't know what I was doing the first time either, but then all of a sudden it was like my body was taking over and I think (it was a long time ago so I'm trying to remember) before I knew it we were kissing lots and I had one hand on her hip and the other arm kind of around her with my hand on her back. My only tip would be not to over think it before you start.

rtw1997
August 1st, 2014, 06:59 PM
I agree with what's already been said. I remember how nervous I was and then after it happened it didn't seem like such a big deal after all. It's an intimate moment, and things just kind of naturally fall into place. Good luck!

ChrisTJ
August 2nd, 2014, 08:18 AM
Agrre with what's been siad, just go with the flow and do what comes naturally and you'll be fine. Just try and take it slow and don't just thrust your tongue into her mouth (that's probably the most common rookie mistake). Just slow, soft and gentle is the order of the day, the rest is just up to you, her and the mood at the time. Enjoy :)

TheN3rdyOutcast
August 2nd, 2014, 08:21 AM
just go to town, and remember the protection in case things get taken up a notch.

ImagineRepublicCity
August 2nd, 2014, 08:44 AM
Well, in a nutshell, it's basically slowly stabbing someones mouth with your tongue.
But really, just let it happen. I'm sure you've watched romance movies before, how they kinda just open and close their mouths. Just
1. Don't hesitate ("Oh no I'm not ready") Just go for it.
2. Don't ask ("Do you wanna make out?") No.
3. Don't stare into her soul.
4. Go with it
5. Have fun
P.S. It doesn't really matter where you put your hands, but just remember, if you were standing with someone, making out with them, do you think it looks (we'll just use look) okay if both of you had arms straight down?
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