Girls are weird.

[Usernamenotfound]

Hey everyone.
So, ah, where do I start.
There is this girl in my year, really nice, my best friend is her boy friend.
So, I like to talk to her and stuff, she's fun to talk to.
So yesterday, I got along really well with her, and today, she just totally stopped all communication with me, it's so confusing and annoying.
It seems she reels you in, you start liking her, and then she just totally ignores you. It is extremely annoying.
I talk to people about it, and they say I care too much. I think I do.
I think to myself, I want to stop caring about her, it would be so much better for me, but I can't do this. It's hard.
What can I do?

[Bmble_B]

In this situation communication is key, I know you say you want to just stop caring but that sounds a little rash in my opinion. Why don't you try talking with her first explaining how you feel? If that doesn't work out, then leaving her alone sounds like the best choice.

[Usernamenotfound]

In this situation communication is key, I know you say you want to just stop caring but that sounds a little rash in my opinion. Why don't you try talking with her first explaining how you feel? If that doesn't work out, then leaving her alone sounds like the best choice.

I appreciate your reply.
The problem is, as she is going out with my best friend, he tends to get jealous very easily when other boys even talk to her.
So, if I do much with her, I am risking my friendship with my best friend.
So as you say, leave her alone. That is hard.
I've done that before, and she walks up and asks what's wrong as if nothing has happened. She just sucks you in, and leaves you stranded. It's quite stupid.

[Bmble_B]

Hmm, this does sound like a very tricky situation. Although it does some quite ridiculous I think this is the safe way to go: ask your friend if it's okay to discuss this with his girlfriend. It seems rather silly if you need to ask your friend for permission just to talk to her, but it seems like the only way to go without agitating him or ruining your friendship as you said.

[Usernamenotfound]

Hmm, this does sound like a very tricky situation. Although it does some quite ridiculous I think this is the safe way to go: ask your friend if it's okay to discuss this with his girlfriend. It seems rather silly if you need to ask your friend for permission just to talk to her, but it seems like the only way to go without agitating him or ruining your friendship as you said.

That sounds so simple. He already dislikes another male, for flirting with her and so forth.
I think I will just leave her alone, but it is so very hard for me. I always (this sounds like I'm in love with her, but I don't think I am) have a longing to talk to her, I have even made plans to walk down town with her tomorrow. I think I just want all of this to stop. I just don't know how. :(

[Bmble_B]

You said that you made plans to take a walk with her, this sounds perfect. I hope everything works out for you! :D

[Usernamenotfound]

You said that you made plans to take a walk with her, this sounds perfect. I hope everything works out for you! :D

But deep down, i want all of this to stop. It takes up so much of my time, thinking about her, so forth. It gradually even makes me unhappy.
This is not healthy for me.
When I said I made plans to go down town, I just hoped she was going, aha. You see what is happening to me?!
How can I stop worrying about it all?

[Bmble_B]

I'm going to be 100% honest with you, I really don't know >.<
Maybe overtime you'll eventually get over her.

[Usernamenotfound]

I'm going to be 100% honest with you, I really don't know >.<
Maybe overtime you'll eventually get over her.

If I stop talking to her, will that help?

[Bmble_B]

If I stop talking to her, will that help?

That would help a lot actually, yes I recommend it.

[Charleigh]

In the end everyone will hurt you, you've just got to see who is worth the pain.
And she isn't

[Usernamenotfound]

That would help a lot actually, yes I recommend it.

Alright, thanks a lot for your help.
I shall try this, and see if it helps me.
Thanks for taking your time to talk.

[Bmble_B]

Alright, thanks a lot for your help.
I shall try this, and see if it helps me.
Thanks for taking your time to talk.

Haha no problem ;)

[Wyatt 13]

Haha no problem ;)

I like the way you really try to help people dude. :yes:

[Elysium]

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