Feeling Left Out

[crazyBoyjJ]

Hey have anyone felt left out by their friends or feel like everyone has a best friend except for you.

I'm feeling that way, I feel like I have no real friends cause their either leaving me out of the conversations, not inviting me to parties or when they hangout. I also feel like I have no best friend ( I have one but she's a girl) what I'm trying to say I feel like I have no male best friend who has stuff in common with me or that I can really trust anymore. I just don't know what to do.
Cause I don't wanna go back to school and talk to those friends who act like their ur friends

[Bmble_B]

I know exactly how you feel, to be honest 99 percent of my friends are girls and I barely have any male friends to relate to...

[Wyatt 13]

Dude do more stuff I mean go to clubs or volunteering in church helps a lot to find friends maybe not the BBF but eventually you will find that guy to hang out with. I dont have like real close friends but I found some in my soccer team and in church. Hope this helps.

[refrigeratorx]

definitely agree with what wyatt said, get involved with things you meet people so much through that, but i was told once when i was in your position, patience is a virtue. a lot happen in these years, and all it takes is one day and one person to change that

[Croconaw]

I feel left out by all but one friend.

[Snydergate]

I continuously get forgotten by my friends. The only time I ever see them is when I call to hang with them. Very rarely do they call me. I asked my mom about this and she says I'm probably "off their radar." I can agree with that, but I wish I wouldn't have to be the one to reach out to them, if they would just txt me once in a while asking me to hang out, that would be great

[Charleigh]

Well I'm sorry to point out the obvious but go and make some friends for real not over the internet....

[Hideous]

I'm always forgotten when it comes to friends. A few months ago I was struggling with depression because of school with my grades and work, anxiety, problems with socializing, too sensitive, insecurities...etc and I just abandoned everything. I stayed home all day, I wasn't motivated to do anything. I can say it was my fault I'm not with my friends anymore, I was too selfish and I didn't look at the positives in life but at the same time, friends are supposed to support you and be there for you; unfortunately, my friends weren't.

[Cognizant]

I'm forgotten by most of my friends once summer vacation starts. The friend I consider myself closest to was away in Africa all month, I've been having issues with my other best friend, and the only time the rest of my friends really talk to me nowadays is if they want a ride somewhere or they need a favor from me.

It really fucking sucks, but it's honestly my fault for not getting out and trying to talk more to them. I just am worried that I'll make a fool of myself because I don't know how to talk to people, I guess.

[AnnaThaBabe]

It's kinda hard to "force" getting a best friend, but i think if you hang out at some other places than you usually do you will meet new people. Becoming someones best friend isn't done over night, I think most are someone you've known since you were little, but it doesn't have 2 be.

[GoGoDiego]

People find me friendly to be with, but I have no bestfriend because I am a bit introvert.

[earl_hun]

Well... I don't feel that I have a best friend, or even real friends. Does a real friend plan another thing in the last minute with anybody else, instead of what we planned about a week before? Does a real friend leave you alone when you're in serious shit?
NO and NO. Well, in my cases-the answers are yes and yes... :(

[Gumleaf]

You're not alone dude, and I understand. Since I'm in the same situation I don't really have much advice. But what I will say is that if you don't do this already, try and help yourself by talking to people and putting yourself out there. Moping won't help. All the best.