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Erik13
July 29th, 2014, 04:08 PM
I am 13 and have a question about masturbation and orgasm.
Is orgasm and cumming the same thing? Can a person do one without the other?
I am currius about how other guys my age are experiencing this.
My penis is 6" and I have no pubes. It has been like this since I was 11. I can jack off, and I do not cum, but the feeling I get keeps getting more and more intense until I have to stop jacking usually after about an hour. I will continue to have a continus spasm feeling for about ten minutes after I stop.
Has anyone else had this kind of feeling.
Hideous
July 29th, 2014, 04:11 PM
Orgasm is the feeling of pleasure you get from cumming, cumming is the action of ejaculating. My only hypothetical answer is that you're edging? Semen amount changes as you age, give it a few years and you'll be able to ejaculate.
Wyatt 13
July 29th, 2014, 04:13 PM
same here man, but after I hit 13 i started to jizz so eventually u will dude.
deregisterme
July 29th, 2014, 04:17 PM
I am 13 and have a question about masturbation and orgasm.
Is orgasm and cumming the same thing? Can a person do one without the other?
I am currius about how other guys my age are experiencing this.
My penis is 6" and I have no pubes. It has been like this since I was 11. I can jack off, and I do not cum, but the feeling I get keeps getting more and more intense until I have to stop jacking usually after about an hour. I will continue to have a continus spasm feeling for about ten minutes after I stop.
Has anyone else had this kind of feeling.
The orgasm is the intense feeling you get. Cumming is the ejaculation of cum. They tend to happen at the same time so are usually linked. It sounds like you are experiencing "dry" orgasms, as you don't have cum yet. That will happen soon enough. Some boys do have dry orgasms, before they start, though once you do start cumming, you tend not to get dry ones. I did cum the first time, so I've never had the joys of dry ones. It's more common to get pubes then cum, though it wasn't until I started reading stuff on this site, I've read of boys that could cum before getting pubes. It will happen.
Your Captain
July 29th, 2014, 04:46 PM
Orgasms and Cummings are linked. Apparently through a method called tantrec (you would of heard of through american pie 2) you can orgasm multiple times without cumming
ComfortableInChaos
July 29th, 2014, 07:35 PM
You cum and orgasm at the same time. Orgasms, like one guy said above, is the feeling of pleasure but I'd have to disagree with him when he said it's the pleasure from cumming. You can have something called a dry orgasm which most boys/teens who masturbate before they can ejaculate/cum (which are the same thing) do. You can do it when you are able to cum, I've done it before a few times here and there, but I don't know how to do it. I will agree with him, though, when he (the guy above) said that amount of semen changes over the years. It does, when you get older, you'll be able to cum more and more. (Production of precum also increases, but that's off topic.)
riverboy
July 29th, 2014, 08:21 PM
The orgasm is the intense feeling you get. Cumming is the ejaculation of cum. They tend to happen at the same time so are usually linked. It sounds like you are experiencing "dry" orgasms, as you don't have cum yet. That will happen soon enough. Some boys do have dry orgasms, before they start, though once you do start cumming, you tend not to get dry ones. I did cum the first time, so I've never had the joys of dry ones. It's more common to get pubes then cum, though it wasn't until I started reading stuff on this site, I've read of boys that could cum before getting pubes. It will happen.
Says it all. I never had a dry organism too.
IndyGuy
July 29th, 2014, 08:35 PM
Yes I know what you are talking about. I would get that same feeling but wouldn't cum either. They are called dry orgasms. Then one day you will do it and cum will shoot out. I've only been able to cum for a few months. I'm also 13 and my penis is only 4" but I do have some pubes. I think you will be able to real soon!
Jtyler
July 29th, 2014, 09:50 PM
Orgasim is pleasure and can happen without cumming.
Second Chance
July 29th, 2014, 11:34 PM
I am 13 and have a question about masturbation and orgasm.
Is orgasm and cumming the same thing? Can a person do one without the other?
I am currius about how other guys my age are experiencing this.
My penis is 6" and I have no pubes. It has been like this since I was 11. I can jack off, and I do not cum, but the feeling I get keeps getting more and more intense until I have to stop jacking usually after about an hour. I will continue to have a continus spasm feeling for about ten minutes after I stop.
Has anyone else had this kind of feeling.
Orgasm and cumming are not the same thing though they can definitely happen at the same time. As the guys above said, an orgasm is the really good feeling you get when you reach the high point of masturbating. In other words, the intense feeling you get and the spasms you have are the orgasm. Semen/cum usually comes out during the intense feelings/spasms, but you do not need to have semen/cum in order to have an orgasm. In your case, you're just having a dry orgasm because you are not developed enough, yet, to make semen. Basically, you're having an orgasm everytime you have the intense feeling/spasms, and all guys who masturbate will get the spasms that you mentioned.
I would not worry about not making semen/cum right now because dry orgasms, like what you're having, is a lot better because there is no clean up, and you can go for a long time masturbating. When you start to have wet orgasms with semen, then masturbating time can be cut down because you ejaculate unlike with dry orgasms where nothing comes out when you have the spasms.
There are a lot of guys who develop large penises but who don't get pubes or body hair until later in puberty. To be honest, hair is a pain, and be glad you don't have it because you only have to look at all the threads on here with guys asking how to shave/trim their pubes. Enjoy the hairlessness for now because you will have less odor and body maintenance issues.
You're fine, and you seem perfectly normal.
ksdnfkfr
July 29th, 2014, 11:40 PM
When I started masturbating I would get really great dry orgasms.
I think cumming can mean either having an orgasm or ejaculating fluid.
There have been a few times where I had a "dud" ejaculation, where I squirted semen but hardly had the orgasm feeling.
Erik13
July 30th, 2014, 02:04 AM
When I started masturbating I would get really great dry orgasms.
I am not sure if I am actually having an orgasm tho. All I know is that the more I jack, the more intense this feeling becomes, and I just spasm continuously for about five minutes even after I quit stroking.
I've jacked with a couple of my friends and they will quickly shoot and they are through. For me, my dick gets really hard and will jerk back and forth for ten minutes without me touching it. I can hardly do anything until it stops.
My friends think it is very weird and I am starting to think so to.
When I start to cum, will it be even more intense than it is right now?
deregisterme
July 30th, 2014, 02:08 AM
I am not sure if I am actually having an orgasm tho. All I know is that the more I jack, the more intense this feeling becomes, and I just spasm continuously for about five minutes even after I quit stroking.
I've jacked with a couple of my friends and they will quickly shoot and they are through. For me, my dick gets really hard and will jerk back and forth for ten minutes without me touching it. I can hardly do anything until it stops.
My friends think it is very weird and I am starting to think so to.
When I start to cum, will it be even more intense than it is right now?
It will be as intense, though the feeling of cum is amazing. I hope it happens soon for you
ksdnfkfr
July 30th, 2014, 02:26 AM
I am not sure if I am actually having an orgasm tho. All I know is that the more I jack, the more intense this feeling becomes, and I just spasm continuously for about five minutes even after I quit stroking.
I've jacked with a couple of my friends and they will quickly shoot and they are through. For me, my dick gets really hard and will jerk back and forth for ten minutes without me touching it. I can hardly do anything until it stops.
My friends think it is very weird and I am starting to think so to.
When I start to cum, will it be even more intense than it is right now?
That's exactly what my dry orgasms were like. But when I started cumming I now end up holding onto my dick during orgasm with my skin pulled all the way back.
It's hard to say which was more intense. Having my dick bobbing like that while the rest of me was kinda paralyzed was wild. But now when I cum my whole body kinda convulses and I sort of curl up. I think there is a more of a feeling of satisfaction too, because when they were dry, it was like my dick was trying really hard to pump something out but couldn't.
And when I started getting wet orgasms it was just clear slippery stuff that oozed/pumped out. But that was me. You might have thicker stuff shoot out. But you've seen your friends shoot so what you saw with them you can pretty much expect for yourself.
IndyGuy
July 30th, 2014, 05:23 AM
I don't think it's that weird, it sounds like you are still having an orgasm. I was the same way, my dick would spasm for like 5 minutes. It felt good but nothing would come out. Since I started having wet orgasms, it's over way faster but I think it feels just as good. And like other guys have said, mine is mostly clear and watery but it will get thicker as you start to make more sperm. Since you are having spasms like that I would think you will start having wet ones really soon.
Second Chance
July 30th, 2014, 10:48 AM
I am not sure if I am actually having an orgasm tho. All I know is that the more I jack, the more intense this feeling becomes, and I just spasm continuously for about five minutes even after I quit stroking.
I've jacked with a couple of my friends and they will quickly shoot and they are through. For me, my dick gets really hard and will jerk back and forth for ten minutes without me touching it. I can hardly do anything until it stops.
My friends think it is very weird and I am starting to think so to.
When I start to cum, will it be even more intense than it is right now?
I agree with the others that you're having an orgasm because the spasms are what happens during an orgasm. The jerking back and forth is what happens when the orgasm occurs.
When you start cumming your orgasms will probably be very similar to what you have now though they will be less in length because once the semen comes out, then your dick will calm down pretty quickly.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, and all of us who had dry orgasms like you were the same way until we started to make semen. You are a lot more normal than you think, and you are just a late bloomer when it comes to semen production. All because your friends can cum does not mean there is anything wrong with you.
mychalo
August 3rd, 2014, 11:25 AM
Mine are still dry and lately very intense like you describe. Sometimes they do feel too intense and my penis stays very hard and sensitive for several minutes.
ethana512
August 3rd, 2014, 11:34 AM
I think officially orgasm is the feeling and cumming is squirting sperm, but I know guys call it cumming sometimes even when they can't squirt. If you can make the felling last for 10 min you are lucky. Mine usually just last like 10 sec and then its really sensitive after.
Fireangel
August 3rd, 2014, 02:41 PM
I am not sure if I am actually having an orgasm tho. All I know is that the more I jack, the more intense this feeling becomes, and I just spasm continuously for about five minutes even after I quit stroking.
I've jacked with a couple of my friends and they will quickly shoot and they are through. For me, my dick gets really hard and will jerk back and forth for ten minutes without me touching it. I can hardly do anything until it stops.
My friends think it is very weird and I am starting to think so to.
When I start to cum, will it be even more intense than it is right now?
Don't worry my dear friend, It's because you aren't hit puberty yet. You still a child but I guess in few more years you will get pubes and be able to produce sperm.
Fireangel
August 3rd, 2014, 02:45 PM
Mine are still dry and lately very intense like you describe. Sometimes they do feel too intense and my penis stays very hard and sensitive for several minutes.
Don't worry Mychalo, It's pretty normal, I think you no start puberty yet but in a few more months you will be able to produce sperm.
Erik13
August 3rd, 2014, 03:23 PM
Don't worry my dear friend, It's because you aren't hit puberty yet. You still a child but I guess in few more years you will get pubes and be able to produce sperm.
I have been able to cum when fooling around physically with my friend. The passed 2 times we've been exploring. Meybe it is something I had been not doing rite b4 but I did shoot twice now. We are going to do some more later on tonight.
herokidd
August 3rd, 2014, 03:31 PM
you can orgasm without cumming which is normal at your age :D
nascar_alex
August 5th, 2014, 02:42 PM
I am 14 and have only started to cum like for a couple months but I had orgasms before I could ejaculate
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