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JackBet
July 27th, 2014, 11:26 PM
Okay, before you judge me, try to understand this situation...

So I had my friends phone for some reason and he got a snapchat and It was a girl that I had heard of that goes to a different school. My friend said that he knew her from middle school and that they're just friends. So I decided to joke around and I snapchatted back and we just started snapchatting. Then eventually we started snapchatting more on my phone and she's extremely pretty and nice. I have heard loads of people tell me that she's an awesome person and everything(how is she single???). We snapchat all the time and flirt occasionally. So one time I asked for her number and she said "sure!" but then she never gave it lol. Like did she not want to give me her number because she doesn't want to get to know me? Or did she just forget to send it?(seems unlikely) So now we still snapchat and I really want to take her out but if I didn't even successfully get her number then how the hell am I supposed to ask her out on a date?? I mean she still is flirtatious and seems interested to snapchat me; I hope she isn't playing with my head on purpose...

Anyway, I just need help on how to get around to this girl. She seems like gem that I am struggling to pass by. I have to act on this one. It feels weird that I'm asking the public like this. I haven't done this before. Thanks.

I'm a 17 year old male, if that matters at all hahaha

johny1996
July 28th, 2014, 01:40 AM
Well if you can ask her out then I think you need to ask her out. if it is possible for you. and see how she react on that. if she will ready to come out with you then there is no problem about that and if she will reject it then never mind buddy its not your life time rejection, ask her out after sometime when you feel that thing are okay and now its times to ask her out again. So for now prepare yourself for whatever then answer and Be confident and ask her out.

Gumleaf
July 28th, 2014, 03:13 AM
If this girl is as wonderful as you say, then bite the bullet and ask her on a date. Dwelling on whether or not she forgot or didn't give you her phone number on purpose will only mess with your head more. If you ask her out, then one way or another you will know the answer. Good luck!

ChrisTJ
July 28th, 2014, 07:19 AM
I have to admit to not really knowing much about how snapchat works and the mechanics of it but if you can have a conversation with her then deffo ask her out. Just ask her if she's doing anything at the weekend and if she'd like to hang out sometime, something like that. Start really casual and if she agrees to hang out then take it from there :) Good luck :)

Body odah Man
July 29th, 2014, 02:21 PM
Okay, before you judge me, try to understand this situation...

So I had my friends phone for some reason and he got a snapchat and It was a girl that I had heard of that goes to a different school. My friend said that he knew her from middle school and that they're just friends. So I decided to joke around and I snapchatted back and we just started snapchatting. Then eventually we started snapchatting more on my phone and she's extremely pretty and nice. I have heard loads of people tell me that she's an awesome person and everything(how is she single???). We snapchat all the time and flirt occasionally. So one time I asked for her number and she said "sure!" but then she never gave it lol. Like did she not want to give me her number because she doesn't want to get to know me? Or did she just forget to send it?(seems unlikely) So now we still snapchat and I really want to take her out but if I didn't even successfully get her number then how the hell am I supposed to ask her out on a date?? I mean she still is flirtatious and seems interested to snapchat me; I hope she isn't playing with my head on purpose...

Anyway, I just need help on how to get around to this girl. She seems like gem that I am struggling to pass by. I have to act on this one. It feels weird that I'm asking the public like this. I haven't done this before. Thanks.

I'm a 17 year old male, if that matters at all hahaha

Nothing wrong with that man. I myself had my first date with a chick I met on Facebook (a friend of one of my friends). I think that what you should do is talk to the girl and tell her how you feel then ask her out if you can get along well and seem to have a good relationship on Snapchat. U don't need someone's number to date them. Good luck.

Bmble_B
July 31st, 2014, 09:11 AM
If this girl is as wonderful as you say, then bite the bullet and ask her on a date. Dwelling on whether or not she forgot or didn't give you her phone number on purpose will only mess with your head more. If you ask her out, then one way or another you will know the answer. Good luck!

I completely agree, very well said Gummy :D