Everytime things go right...

[JusticeBoy]

Every time things go right, I just know something bad is gonna happen. It is like me being happy is too good to be true. I always look at the positives in my life, but then I start to realize my life hardly has any. I just don't get my purpose in life. I'm too nice and too quiet that I just cannot stick up for myself.

[Aamir3D]

Every time things go right, I just know something bad is gonna happen. It is like me being happy is too good to be true. I always look at the positives in my life, but then I start to realize my life hardly has any. I just don't get my purpose in life. I'm too nice and too quiet that I just cannot stick up for myself.


I feel the exact same way. Everything can't always go great. If our lives were 'perfect', it'd pretty much be boring! :-) Everyone has a purpose, even if they don't know it.

[Microcosm]

Welcome to VT, first of all. :)
I have felt the same way so many times. It'll work itself out. =]

[Dalcourt]

Every time things go right, I just know something bad is gonna happen. It is like me being happy is too good to be true. I always look at the positives in my life, but then I start to realize my life hardly has any. I just don't get my purpose in life. I'm too nice and too quiet that I just cannot stick up for myself.

Hi and welcome first of all.

I totally know what you mean. I feel the same. I guess that's how life goes, dunno.

[JusticeBoy]

I feel the exact same way. Everything can't always go great. If our lives were 'perfect', it'd pretty much be boring! :-) Everyone has a purpose, even if they don't know it.

Thanks for the friend request. I know it can't be perfect, that sometimes helps me too. For some reason.

[Aamir3D]

Thanks for the friend request. I know it can't be perfect, that sometimes helps me too. For some reason.


No problem!

[xXoblivionXx]

Hey Joaquin

I know how you feel. But the thing is sometimes in life all we want to do is be happy, we search for happiness. And part of that is true, search for the thing that you enjoy doing an that you want to do. Really like something but aren't good at it? You can learn. Don't let doubt get in the way. You see sometimes we can be find happiness by looking at life a different way, being thankful for the small things and enjoying them. You deserve happiness, we all do :)

[1_21Guns]

Welcome!
Unfortunately if there were no low points, we wouldn't notice the high ones. I know how you feel, I really do. Everyone has good days and bad days and sometimes the bad ones are more frequent than the good ones and sometimes it doesn't feel like it's worth it but it is. It's hard to see it when you're down in the dumps but it's always worth holding on, and your purpose in life will show itself in time, as Yasmeen said, everyone deserves to be happy :)
And I know it's hard to stand up for yourself, especially if you'd just prefer to keep your mouth shut and hope it goes away because standing up for yourself isn't overly in your nature, I'm the same way but standing up for yourself doesn't mean you have to go out all guns blazing, it just means (and you have every right in the world to do so) if someone is doing something you don't like, tell them that's not okay, because it isn't okay. If they carry on, they aren't worth your pain, tears, anger or anything else. People can be cruel, many of them are. I know it's easier to keep your head down but if you want to stand up for yourself then you should. Bottling things up puts a dreadful haze on how you see life which is when everything starts to go dark. Stay strong :hug3:

[JusticeBoy]

Welcome!
Unfortunately if there were no low points, we wouldn't notice the high ones. I know how you feel, I really do. Everyone has good days and bad days and sometimes the bad ones are more frequent than the good ones and sometimes it doesn't feel like it's worth it but it is. It's hard to see it when you're down in the dumps but it's always worth holding on, and your purpose in life will show itself in time, as Yasmeen said, everyone deserves to be happy :)
And I know it's hard to stand up for yourself, especially if you'd just prefer to keep your mouth shut and hope it goes away because standing up for yourself isn't overly in your nature, I'm the same way but standing up for yourself doesn't mean you have to go out all guns blazing, it just means (and you have every right in the world to do so) if someone is doing something you don't like, tell them that's not okay, because it isn't okay. If they carry on, they aren't worth your pain, tears, anger or anything else. People can be cruel, many of them are. I know it's easier to keep your head down but if you want to stand up for yourself then you should. Bottling things up puts a dreadful haze on how you see life which is when everything starts to go dark. Stay strong :hug3:

Hey Joaquin

I know how you feel. But the thing is sometimes in life all we want to do is be happy, we search for happiness. And part of that is true, search for the thing that you enjoy doing an that you want to do. Really like something but aren't good at it? You can learn. Don't let doubt get in the way. You see sometimes we can be find happiness by looking at life a different way, being thankful for the small things and enjoying them. You deserve happiness, we all do :)

Wow guys thanks for the advice :o. I should start doing things that I want to do. I'm usually too worried of what others are going to say.

[1_21Guns]

Wow guys thanks for the advice :o. I should start doing things that I want to do. I'm usually too worried of what others are going to say.

Truth is, in reality what others say doesn't matter. If you're happy they're probably only passing judgement because they're jealous or they know they don't have that much courage. People are always going to talk, that doesn't mean you have to listen and let it get you down :)

[GoGoDiego]

Try to aim for more positivity.

[Pulp501]

Same here, sometimes it's hard to think positive.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

It's not always easy to see the glass half full. For every negative situation you may find yourself in, remember that the glass is more full. If every positive has a negative, every negative must have a positive. You might have to dig a bit to find them, but they do exist.

If you spend your life tying to please everyone else, you'll live a miserable life. Do what makes you happy.. it's worth it. Don't worry what other people think, because you're great in your own way.

My PM box is always open if you need someone to talk to. x