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AlexanderTheGreat
July 26th, 2014, 05:35 PM
Hi,

So there is this girl I am just totally crushing on. I want to be with her so bad!!
Recently over the past few months there has been a lot of kissing, making out, hand holding, flirting and similar stuff. I want to talk to her to define the relationship but I don't know what to say. I just don't want to talk about where we are going and force her into a relationship. If she wants to stay best friends who just do an unusual amount of making out im cool with that if she wants something more im even more cool! I just want an answer and find out what's going on between me and her. :confused:
xlBitterSweetlx
July 27th, 2014, 04:32 AM
Well, if you want some answers, you should talk to her.
Not like interrogation-style-annoying-lamp-in-your-face-are-we-in-a-serious-relationship thing, just while you are talking mention that, say that you are fine with whatever she wants & her answer wouldn't change anything between you. :)
aly_meow
July 27th, 2014, 05:06 AM
I've had a relationship like that before & what I did was just ask him.
We were hanging out at his house one night after watching a movie & I said to him
"hey ____ , can i ask you something?" & he said sure so I went ahead & asked him, "What are we? like our relationship."
hope I helped ! c:
Wyatt 13
July 27th, 2014, 08:32 AM
My dad used to say If its not broken do not touch it. I think man just keep the things cool the way they are. I'm not into chicks tho and maybe I'm wrong.
AlexanderTheGreat
July 27th, 2014, 08:33 AM
Well, if you want some answers, you should talk to her.
Not like interrogation-style-annoying-lamp-in-your-face-are-we-in-a-serious-relationship thing, just while you are talking mention that, say that you are fine with whatever she wants & her answer wouldn't change anything between you. :)

I've had a relationship like that before & what I did was just ask him.
We were hanging out at his house one night after watching a movie & I said to him
"hey ____ , can i ask you something?" & he said sure so I went ahead & asked him, "What are we? like our relationship."
hope I helped ! c:

Okay, thanks :) I've got a few weeks till she's back from holiday so I've got some time.