Girls what is the catch?

[crazyBoyjJ]

Girls why do u guys go with these men or cool guys or the popular guys and they just end up hurting u or getting u pregnant while mayve a not so popular guy or a smart guy wont do that. I dont understand?

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[Emmaaa]

Well I've never been in that situation so I can't really tell you why. Sometimes though some girls are a bit silly and just go with these guys to "look the part" if you get me?

I wouldn't go with someone if they had a history of getting girls pregnant or became violent

Hope that helps x

[Taryn98]

You're making a broad generalization that only applies to certain girls (likely the girl that you're interested in). And realistically, everyone gets hurt many times in their life, it's not just by the "cool guys."
But the real reason comes down to confidence. We like confident guys. They tend to be more outgoing, athletic, intelligent and as such they are popular. Girls tend to not be attracted to shy guys, or guys that aren't out there doing something active that grabs attention.
When I see all these guys here that are worried about penis size and ask a million questions about it, the tells me they're not confident and it's an instant turn off. I want a guy who's comfortable with who he is mentally, physically, and emotionally and doesn't makes excuses about it for better or worse.

[crazyBoyjJ]

Well I've never been in that situation so I can't really tell you why. Sometimes though some girls are a bit silly and just go with these guys to "look the part" if you get me?

I wouldn't go with someone if they had a history of getting girls pregnant or became violent

Hope that helps x

Thx a lot

[Luminous]

Puberty 101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[chrisawesome]

Taryn said it! Oh shit I'm not a girl sorry! LOL but yeah that is how it seems to be. Gotta be confident. That's why they say to be yourself when not on a date.

[Amy123]

Some girls just go for the popular boys so that can be popular like them. Also I don't see why they do u should like them for there personality. Same thing happens in my school all the boys go for they popular girls when there are lots of pretty nice other girls.