Building a relationship with brother??

[KayPoohxoxo]

Well for starters i am the only girl and youngest triplet. I am very close to my second oldest brother Rongo. We fight,joke around,and etc. But my oldest brother Leati and I have a different relationship. He thinks im some annoying little sister. He is always so serious and never let his walls down. I really would like you guys opinions and suggestions on helping me bond with him.


-Sa'Kaya

[Living For Love]

Try to find common interests between you two, show your brother you care about him and would really like if you two could get along better. I guess that's a start. From there onwards, he will start to trust you more. Also, try to act more maturely around him, because the age difference sometimes means your perspectives of life are completely different.

[Wyatt 13]

Tell him that you love him and hug him. Love is the key. He is your bro and he is supposed to protect you and care about you.

[ImCoolBeans]

Have you talked to him about it? I'm a firm believer in an open line of communication -- he's your brother and you should be able to have a talk about that with him. Tell him how it makes you feel that he so reserved with you. Like Tiago said, try to find common interests between the two of you, however I don't think you need to act more mature around him. Be yourself, but tell him what's on your mind.