I have a question

[iadorepie]

If I was a 14 year old about to have intercourse, would it hurt if his "male part" was 7 inches? I'm a pretty small person, about the same height as my 11 year old brother.

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[Aamir3D]

If I was a 14 year old about to have intercourse, would it hurt if his "male part" was 7 inches? I'm a pretty small person, about the same height as my 11 year old brother.


Whoa. 7 inches is alot to take, especially if you're a small person. Just be sure you take it slow because it could possibly get painful.

[iadorepie]

Whoa. 7 inches is alot to take, especially if you're a small person. Just be sure you take it slow because it could possibly get painful.
Yeah, I figured it would be a lot. I made sure he agreed to taking it slow, so hopefully all will go well

[Hideous]

You don't need to take my advice but, I feel like the age of 14 is quite too young to participate in sexual intercourse with a male whose penis is, like you gave as an example, 7 inches. Yes, it will hurt if you're a virgin, but if he is careful enough you can expect the opposite.

[iadorepie]

You don't need to take my advice but, I feel like the age of 14 is quite too young to participate in sexual intercourse with a male whose penis is, like you gave as an example, 7 inches. Yes, it will hurt if you're a virgin, but if he is careful enough you can expect the opposite.
That's actually another thing I'm worried about. I've told him I wasn't sure, and he said I can take as long as I need to think it over. He's the same age as me, but he may have measured wrong since I heard it happens often

[Hideous]

That's actually another thing I'm worried about. I've told him I wasn't sure, and he said I can take as long as I need to think it over. He's the same age as me, but he may have measured wrong since I heard it happens often

That's sweet of him to give you some time to think, and because he already agrees with having sexual intercourse with you, it is only up to you to decide. No rush and make sure he doesn't pressure you into deciding too quickly.

[Emmaaa]

That's a lot on your first time to be honest!
It's really up to you just as long as you stay careful and use protection! Can't have any early accidents x

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah 7 inches is a lot if you are only small. Just make sure you are ready and lots of foreplay, maybe a little extra lube as well. The more lubricated you are the easier it will be.

[TheFSM]

Just take it slow:P

[biancachica]

i am also small and 7 inches would definitely be too much for me. but the length is not a big problem since he can always go less deep. how thick he is will mostly determine if it will hurt the first time. My advice would be to take your time, use lube and communicate.

[nicole97]

It is up to you, and if you are interested in making your relationship sexual then I don't think penis size should be the deciding factor. That being said due to the overall size difference I would definitely suggest being extra cautious by communicating what pace you feel comfortable going at and ensuring complete lubrication.

[Canadian Dream]

It definitely could hurt, but it also depends on the girth. For instance, a penis with a girth of 6" could hurt a lot more than one with 4".

[AnnaThaBabe]

its a big one for sure, but he don't have to put it all in, talk about it before so you both are comfortable.