Fear of new situations

[Lovelife090994]

Whenever I am faced with new situations I get nervous. No issue there right? But that's not all. The day before I am normally in a scared depressive mood and if at home I don't want to leave my bed. Once I get thrown into new situations I never like them, even after a year, but I always go through it in a daze. Even now I feel as if I am in a daze. I am about to start college. I am incredibly scared and worried beyong words. Normally I feel terribly tired. Lately I've felt a little out of my mind as the clock ticks.

[1_21Guns]

If I'm somewhere I've never been before I can easily start freaking out. In fact I only moved rooms in my boyfriends house and had a really bad reaction just to moving rooms. If I'm somewhere new I'm constantly looking around trying to take everything in as fast as I can for at least a week, but most of the time it settles down.
I think most people get nervous over new situations, but once it starts seriously affecting your life it might be worth looking into getting help? Or even just some research online, there's plenty of self help methods that you can look into that could help with this :) good luck :hug3:

[Melodic]

I seriously hate change and fear it with a passion. So I'd say they scare me a majority of the time.

[Zbenton27]

I understand your worries. I'm moving within the next week and to be perfectly honest i'm terrified. New school, new home, new neighbors. All of it just freaks me out. you may be talking about a different situation but let me know.

[Dalcourt]

I hate New situations the longer I think about them the more they scare me...I'm really on the verge of freaking out cuz I start at a new school.

[backjruton]

I don't think I've felt anything too bad, surprisingly, yet in a new place and unknown situation. But back when my brother first started his apprenticeship, he kept being sick and had to stay home because of the stresses of starting somewhere new.

I surpress the panic somehow, but that's only because I have very silly ways of getting people to like me. I've fallen behind again, because dressing up as Cartman (half) is how I made some of those awesome college friends in the first place - they liked my messed up personality and I guess the fact I would do such a thing :lol:

I understand the fears, it's horrible starting somewhere new and having to meet all those new people. That's why I'm so reluctant to try and apply for another college course elsewhere, I'll have to start over and make more good friends again. If I had my own way I could just sit inside and play games all day, I'm too grumpy and miserable right now to start over again after being knocked back so many times...