Losing Hope

[Sorry_Girl]

This last year I started self-harming and I kept it a secret for several months when I realized sumer was coming and people would ask question,specifically my family I tried to stop I've been clean for almost four months but I can't take it. I can't tell anyone but I'm losing hope all together. So I decided to join this forum to help me because I'm getting the feeling to cut again, I hope this helps...

[gothy]

You came this far. You can do it. Try to find distractions. Like music or art.

[Sorry_Girl]

Yeah I like music but sometimes I just need an actual person to talk to and I don't want my family to know so I'm on my own

[gothy]

You can talk to me and lots of people on here.

[Sorry_Girl]

Thank you for the advice its the most I've gotten so far.

[gothy]

No ones on at this time usually. But maybe tomorrow more will reply.

[Sorry_Girl]

Yeah I prefer to do things at night so that explains why I decides to join thirty minutes ago

[gothy]

Yeah I prefer to do things at night so that explains why I decides to join thirty minutes ago

I just have insomnia lol.

Anyways. When i try not to cut i write songs. It really helps me. Listening to music also works well . depends what you listen too i guess.

[Sorry_Girl]

Yeah music helps I usually stay up extremely late listening to music

[Charleigh]

You say you've lost hope? Well then find it again.
Hope is that sparkle in your eye, you have hope, and you have the strength. It takes a lot to stop self-harming believe me, but hope isn't far away. You're doing amazing, brilliant in fact. You have come a long way to even consider stopping, even if you do make a few mistakes it's not the end of the world, you can try again.

Chin up.

[Bmble_B]

Stay Strong! As gothy said try to find something that you enjoy but at the same time distracts you from the cutting. Drawing, music, gaming, etc.
There's limitless possibilities