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ThePageantQueen
July 23rd, 2014, 09:46 PM
Sorry it's so long just really need help and you guys should know the entire story. Please read!

Okay... I really like this guy that I met a while ago. We've known each other about a month or so now. Him and two of his friends were at this amusement park along with my friends and I. One of my friends went to go get a drink and when she came back said that she was sorry it took so long, but she she started talking to this really cute guy names "Zack." So another friend and I go over to get "Zack's" number for her and I see him... Matt.

I got butterflies in my stomach and I couldn't think straight. He was really cute and I'd never really done that type of thing before. Anyway, my friends and I ended up spending the rest of the day with them. We all traded numbers when we were saying goodbye and then Matt and I texted almost all night. It was perfect... but then he drops the bomb that he is "talking" with this girl right now so we probably shouldn't like each other. (Who does that?!?)

I was surprised and really upset. After then I couldn't seem to stop thinking about him. So... about a week ago he messages me out of nowhere and I instantly get nervous again, even though I know nothing was going to happen because he was talking to this other girl. Well, we talk for a while and he tells me that he isn't talking to this other girl anymore. My first though... "Yes!" My second thought... "Why is he telling me this? Does he like me or something?" Anyway... we started talking more often and it became easier each time. Unfortunately, I had started dating this really great guy in the time he stopped dissed me for this other girl. :cry: The more Matt and I talked, the more he insisted I break up with my boyfriend. He kept sending me mixed signals and I couldn't tell why! I finally broke up with my boyfriend, hoping it would lead somewhere with Matt. But now he started talking to ANOTHER girl! :mad: I don't get it!! He keeps sending me mixed signals! He full core flirts with me, but then brings up this other girl. He keeps trying to hang out with me. He We text and he FaceTimes me ALL the time. Does he like me or not? How can I get this other girl out of the picture? How do I make him like me more? If you need more information, just ask questions! Again... thank you for taking the time to read this LONG cry for help!

Pulp501
July 23rd, 2014, 10:53 PM
I think he does like you, and I think the whole situation got a little messed up with both of you, because he was already talking to someone, so you started dating someone, then he wanted you, but you were dating someone, but by the time you broke up with your boyfriend, he had already moved on. If he's flirting with you all the time while he is talking to other girls, that could get confusing. That could mean he is just the flirty type and doesn't necessarily like you. Have you tried just asking him straight up?

CharlieHorse
July 23rd, 2014, 11:10 PM
There's a few possibilities:
He sounds like a man-whore.
And it sounds like he's trying to get your attention and drive you crazy by giving mixed signals and telling you about his other girlfriends. He could be playing with you.

Or what Pulp said ^

Here's what I suggest
Sit down face to face in real life and talk about it with him. Ask him about his feelings for you. Sometimes sincerity can solve all this annoying who-likes-who play.

ThePageantQueen
July 24th, 2014, 01:56 PM
Thank you guys so much! It helps, but is a little disappointing. :-(