Experimented with him long time ago but...

[kdapik]

Hi,

This is my first thread here I really enjoyed being here with you guys :cool:

Long time ago (6-7 years ago) I had a really close friend we hanged out together since early childhood. We experimented with each other once we didn't do much it was just hand job and a bit of blow job. we did enjoy it very much. Unfortunately, he moved to another state and we never talked since then.
So today my mom told me that they may visit us in a few days. I really like to do stuff with him again. but I am not sure if he still like to do these things or not.
Please advise me :)


Thanks in advance!

[peyton2000]

Just be yourself with him and see how he acts

[Zzz--]

You never know but you could always bring that story up in a joking way and if he laughs ask him I've done stuff like that minus the blowjob

[kdapik]

Just be yourself with him and see how he acts

Thanks that's helpful

You never know but you could always bring that story up in a joking way and if he laughs ask him I've done stuff like that minus the blowjob

I think it will be wierd but will see

[allan_cris]

try to give him some hints but not too obvious. if he wants to do stuff it will come naturally just dont rush anything or you might end up ruining the relationship

[jessie3]

Try little things first like changing in front of him, masturbating at night while he still awake or something and if he likes what he see's then he might join in

[xTropicDomx]

Hi,

This is my first thread here I really enjoyed being here with you guys :cool:

Long time ago (6-7 years ago) I had a really close friend we hanged out together since early childhood. We experimented with each other once we didn't do much it was just hand job and a bit of blow job. we did enjoy it very much. Unfortunately, he moved to another state and we never talked since then.
So today my mom told me that they may visit us in a few days. I really like to do stuff with him again. but I am not sure if he still like to do these things or not.
Please advise me :)


Thanks in advance!

I'd bring it up in a memory sort of way and take it from there.
"Remember when.." You get the idea.

[Urban]

Bring it up as a recap-type thing, as if you're reminiscing about the past and then change the topic to how things are now "... So how are things now? Would you ever do that stuff again?" and if the answer is a no and he asks why, you could always go "just curious, that's all!" no harm done here :)

[Catholic Guy]

Well there's nothing you can do until you speak to him and find out how he feels about it

[Wyatt 13]

Be yourself and remember that was long time ago. I guess you guys are in your 20's?

[brybry5]

Oooo! Yea this is pretty awkward! First of all, don't dive right in because, you know, people change and so he might not be comfortable anymore with that kind of stuff! But he will definitely remember but he won't be sure whether to mention it or not. This is when you go out on a limb and "summon the memories" by asking him about your guy's experience and then see what he thinks! :) glad I can help!
P.s be free to ask me questions on my page cuz imma be on this more often!

[Reg_]

Maybe he'll bring it up

(Maybe he has an account on this site and is having the same question O.o)

[bigp0599]

Just casually bring it up

[Pulp501]

I would just bring it up when you talk about old times and stuff, maybe he will mention something about wanting or not wanting to do that.

[Your Captain]

See how the situation is and bring up a convo about when you two fdid experiment. Or ask him to do stuff anyway, if he thinks your weird it won't matter because he will go back to where he us from and it won't be awkward

[kdapik]

Thanks guys that's helped me a lot

[chiisaiaoiryu]

If you want to try stuff with him again, then the best bet is to really casually bring up what you guys did all those years ago. Seven years is a long time; its best that you bring up some obviously good stuff to remember before talking about a grey area topic. Being that it's a psychological thing when you start with a few obviously good things first; he'll be more receptive at listening and talking about a grey area topic even if he doesn't want to do it. That's the best way I can suggest bringing it up to him.

[GoGoDiego]

When you are privately together, talk about it. Make him reminisce the fun things you two did in the past.

[Jeonard]

I think most people have nailed it; be casual and bring it up in a 'do you remember way'

[deregisterme]

Mainly said already. Just bring it up, and let us know how you get on!

[ThatRandomGabby]

I was in the same position as you when my cousin was at my place for a few weeks. We used to do stuff together like jack off in the same room, talk about our likes and dislikes regarding puberty, and did some binge-watching of porn (:lol:). When he came to our place, it was a bit awkward for us both knowing we still remember those memories. My advice to you is to bring up little bits and pieces just enough for him to notice. Don't pressure him to do it if he chooses to forget it because that might ruin whatever respect/relationship you both have.

Good luck!

[joel-d]

Everyone else has pretty much already said it. You should pretty much approach it the same was you would with any current friend who you're not sure would be open-minded about doing sexual things with another guy. Some guys are only curious at the beginning of puberty and then move on to girls, and some guys stay curious or open-minded even as they get older. It sounds like you've stayed curious, but there's no way to know if he also has until you just have some casual conversations and see if it comes up naturally. If he's still curious, the conversations probably will naturally flow that way from normal topics, such as whether he has a girlfriend, whether he's had sex, how much he masturbates, etc.

[Linkb12]

I had the exact same thing happen... I went to visit him and we both blew each other so I would just bring it up and ask if you two should do it again.

[snowtrax]

I would go for it. I experimented with my friend a long time ago and I still fantasize about it and wish it would happen again.

[NewZealand]

i vote just be wee bit more open with him then you would with most guys e.g getting changed in front of him or walking round in your underwear, or even nude(in your room)... perhaps talk about sex, all of that stuf (: just dont rush

[Erik13]

Im kinda going through that now. I had something yesterday, and I don't know where to take it now. I don't want to press, but I also don't want it to end.

[gig-guy]

Thanks guys that's helped me a lot

So did he come? What happened?

[Collins1]

See what he does, and maybe bring it up like a joke or something up and see reacts and then go from there!

[Scottydog]

Just act normal, catch up and if anything is meant to happen then it will :)

[hockeyfan]

Mention wat u did last time. His reaction will tell u wat he wants.

[Goatzbro]

I have personally had a similar situation, and I did not handle it carefully. I came on too strong and he never talked to me again. So make sure that you approach it lightly, but approach it nonetheless.

[nascar_alex]

I guess it's up to you, if you still feel comfortable doing it then ask him if not let him ask you. You really can't tell till he's there and your talking and you get a vibe from him after years. People change