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WowUmmm123456
July 23rd, 2014, 08:00 PM
This is about to get reeaall TMI.. forewarning!
Whenever I have masturbated, I've almost always done so externally. I can stick a finger fairly far enough up into my vaginal opening. Two fingers, eh, not so far, pretty much just barely there. And I have also gotten my period. But here's the thing, I've looked at diagrams online and compared them after looking at my own vagina; and my vaginal opening seems to be in the wrong place??? My hymen isn't septate or anything, I don't think/pretty sure it isn't, but pretty much that whole internal area inside of me where the penis goes, is covered by my hymen (I think it's what it is). The very small vaginal opening (where I can insert my finger) is closest to my butthole, and not to my clitoris...
I have also been able to insert a tampon, but taking it out was pretty bad.. It burnt sooo much and it was full so it hurt pulling it out.
The reason I am posting this, is because I have wanted to use a menstrual cup for soo long, have finally gotten one, and cannot insert it! Given, it is a month until my next period. But, I have tried the 7 fold, the triangle fold, the origami and the diamond and everything.. I can get the point up there past a little bit, but the extra folded part I cannot get to fit. I don't know what else I can do-- I've tried lubricate, force, every position; squatting, sitting, you name it. I reaallllyyy want this to work out! But what can I do to get this thing in there?? I am 15, so I don't think it would be advisable to visit a gyno, plus my mom was totally against me getting a menstrual cup so she will probably be mortified if I ask for an appointment, so is there any way I could maybe dilate my vagina or stretch or break or something without going to the doctor, or having to invest a lot of money or any at all??? I hope I don't need surgery.. I plan on being a virgin until I'm married, but I do want to be prepared, that is, by stretching breaking whatever it is that I have to.
I think that's about it. Ask any questions, please reply too! Thanks if you've read all this!!

ChrisTJ
July 24th, 2014, 04:48 AM
Hey :)

I hope I have understood what you were trying to say correctly in that your hymen isn't split and actually covers your entire vaginal opening? If that's the case you might have to go see the gyno for her to cut it open. As you seem to know, most girls' hymens are already slightly broken and it gets stretched when using tampons or general masturbation. If your hymen isn't broken at all then you need to go see the gyno as it will need to be cut open. Hope that helps :)

sallyfunshine
July 24th, 2014, 06:38 AM
u should talk 2 a doc. just tell ur mom she'll understand when she realizes the vaginia u were born with is not ur fault...my question is how was this not discovered by ur docter? isnt that y they look at our kitty's? to make sure they are ok?