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JustAnotherTeen
July 23rd, 2014, 12:19 PM
So, for the last half a year there has been a boy in my year at school and he is the kindest and cutest guy I had ever met even though we only talked in class if we had to. Anyway, I had a crush on him for all of this time and I realised a few weeks ago that someone referred to him as that gay kid. My being as nosey as I am, I look into it further and his best friend and my friend told me he was infact straight.

Skip on a few weeks and he draws this cute little anime-styled picture of me and to the side of it I wrote my twitter, youtube and skype account because... (Don't say yolo) Yolo (fuck). Anyway, when I get home I go on skype and realise he has added me. After a few days of talking he randomly said "Marry me?" I'm assuming as a joke and I replied with "Of course bae <3". From there we joked joked about how we was going to move to New Zealand and adopt a boy and call him Jhakey and get 2 chow chow puppies. A few days later I ask him if he was genuinely gay or just playing and he replied with "Most probably, yes ;)". He then said " I assume you are gay?" and I told him I was. Blah blah blah.

Skip another few days and he admits he actually loves me (ikr, couldn't have gone any better!) and I told him the same back, this resulted in us become a thing and becoming bfs :D.

The whole point of this is to ask if we took this to fast, only 8 days before we didn't even talk and now we're going out. I don't see a problem as we both love eachother and there's not really anything that's gonna make us argue so I wanted your guys' opinions.

-J.A.T

Mynick
July 23rd, 2014, 12:38 PM
I guess it's ok, just don't play with his feelings.

Harley Quinn
July 24th, 2014, 10:35 AM
When it comes to love, it's a complicated thing, especially when you're at the age when you're quite young. However, it's your feelings and your emotions, if you think it's the right thing, asking us whether we think it's too fast or not, won't actually make a difference. I do suggest taking it slow and truly thinking about where it could go or whatever. Like, trust me, don't rush anything and just live in the moment ya dig?

Urban
July 25th, 2014, 10:22 AM
Too fast? Absolutely not! Your relationship took its path and honestly, its about what happened during that time not how long it took for it to happen! On top of that, no one here will be able to give you a proposition that'll be insightful enough to fully answer your question - as you're the one experiencing it for yourself. However, I personally don't see a problem with it all happening too fast, but if you have any doubts about the process due to the time it took, you might want to have a good talk with your boyfriend and let off some air! But remember, there are a huge number of couples out there that exist because of one special moment e.g. met at a cafe or on the streets, so it'll be quite unfair to judge the quality of a relationship based on how long it took for the two to get together :)

CosmicNoodle
July 25th, 2014, 10:35 AM
I guess it's ok, just don't play with his feelings.

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Its crule to mess people around.