Girls: What do you find the most annoying or unattractive in a guy?

[User-Unknown]

What is in the title. Just curious on girls opinions. All girls I've liked or asked out have all rejected me and I am now starting to feel that either there is something wrong with me as in really annoying or I look ugly.

So, what do you find annoying or unattractive in a guy? Also, what do you want and find attractive in a guy?

I have daily showers, brush my teeth and try to look reasonably good (good shape, hair cut, shaved face. So, it can't be anything on my odour or look. I find it really confusing.

[Blood]

Qualities I like a guy or girl to have (to name a few):

-The ability to hold a good conversation.
-Confidence.
-Making an effort to talk to me.
-Intelligence.
-Good hygiene.

Qualities I find unattractive or annoying in guys and girls:

-Being too clingy or needy.
-Being obnoxious.
-Making absolutely no effort to get with somone yet continuously complaining that they're being "friend zoned".
-Lacking personal hygiene.

These are just a few. I could go on and on, but basically, everyone likes different things. Just because you've been rejected a few times doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. And if you honestly think there is something wrong with you, take a step back and do a self reflection.

[User-Unknown]

Qualities I like a guy or girl to have (to name a few):

-The ability to hold a good conversation.
-Confidence.
-Making an effort to talk to me.
-Intelligence.
-Good hygiene.

Qualities I find unattractive or annoying in guys and girls:

-Being too clingy or needy.
-Being obnoxious.
-Making absolutely no effort to get with somone yet continuously complaining that they're being "friend zoned".
-Lacking personal hygiene.

These are just a few. I could go on and on, but basically, everyone likes different things. Just because you've been rejected a few times doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. And if you honestly think there is something wrong with you, take a step back and do a self reflection.

I don't think there is anything wrong with me. Im happy how I am, it just seems that all the girls I've liked don't see that Im just myself and they all reject me and not care about me at the end.

About being friend zoned. Im a nice guy and have heard about 'Nice guys finish last'. I have continually tried to tell girl I like them and ask them out but seem its because I'm a nice guy. I've grown up being taught to be nice to others and treating others well and with respect, and I feel this is what is kicking me in the backside. I'm happy being a nice guy, all I can say is the girls I like are all missing out on being with a nice guy who knows how to treat people.

[Blood]

I don't think there is anything wrong with me. Im happy how I am, it just seems that all the girls I've liked don't see that Im just myself and they all reject me and not care about me at the end.

About being friend zoned. Im a nice guy and have heard about 'Nice guys finish last'. I have continually tried to tell girl I like them and ask them out but seem its because I'm a nice guy. I've grown up being taught to be nice to others and treating others well and with respect, and I feel this is what is kicking me in the backside. I'm happy being a nice guy, all I can say is the girls I like are all missing out on being with a nice guy who knows how to treat people.

Well, it's their loss. I mean you can't force somone to go out with you, however nice they are. Move on from them. You'll find a girl who loves you for you sooner or later. You're young, right? Give yourself some time.

[User-Unknown]

Well, it's their loss. I mean you can't force somone to go out with you, however nice they are. Move on from them. You'll find a girl who loves you for you sooner or later. You're young, right? Give yourself some time.

Im 19, and with how things are before I know it I will be 27 and still with no girlfriend. A lot of people go to clubs or will go to clubs and will get girlfriends/boyfriends from there. Those people drink, Im not a drinker, I don't like drinking therefore won't enjoy clubbing. People will say use dating sites, no, id rater find someone who I have known a while not some random some site introduces me to. Its got to be that girls find me unattractive in some way...

[ChrisTJ]

Im 19, and with how things are before I know it I will be 27 and still with no girlfriend. A lot of people go to clubs or will go to clubs and will get girlfriends/boyfriends from there. Those people drink, Im not a drinker, I don't like drinking therefore won't enjoy clubbing. People will say use dating sites, no, id rater find someone who I have known a while not some random some site introduces me to. Its got to be that girls find me unattractive in some way...

Do you have any girls in your frienship group? I mean people meet partners in all sorts of ways and often it's through a friend, so if any of your friends have girls they are friends with try getting to spend time with them. Nights out are a good way of doing that but if it's not your thing then it's not your thing.

As for qualities that would attract me to a boy, I think as has already been said, good hygene, seems interested in me and interested in spending time with me and making me happy and a degree of self confidence. Don't sulk around or complain you're "not good enough" to many girls that's a turn off. For me my major turn off is bad personal hygene and people that think too much of themselves and think the world revolves around them.

[User-Unknown]

Do you have any girls in your frienship group? I mean people meet partners in all sorts of ways and often it's through a friend, so if any of your friends have girls they are friends with try getting to spend time with them. Nights out are a good way of doing that but if it's not your thing then it's not your thing.

As for qualities that would attract me to a boy, I think as has already been said, good hygene, seems interested in me and interested in spending time with me and making me happy and a degree of self confidence. Don't sulk around or complain you're "not good enough" to many girls that's a turn off. For me my major turn off is bad personal hygene and people that think too much of themselves and think the world revolves around them.

The girl who I'm interested in and who I feel is interested in me is in my group event I have. I feel she likes someone else in this group event also cause she seems more outgoing with him. Dusting his pants, talking to him all the time. She gives him full eye contact, actually, she gives everyone full eye contact except me. When talking to her, she looks at me from the side of her eye and responds to me. Her torso faces me, feet face me, hovers around near me, stands close to me (sometimes really close), touches my hand when I pass things to her. When I smile and look at her, she looks down and smiles. One time I put my hand on her waist to get her attention, she looked back to me, looked down and smiled. She does things that make me feel she likes me yet when it comes to eye contact and talking to me she doesn't talk to me much or give me proper eye contact.