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Chaju
July 22nd, 2014, 04:58 PM
Is it OK to watch regular porn? Do I need help?
cjto
July 22nd, 2014, 04:58 PM
you said it yourself regular porn...regular is perfectly normal you're fine
Jaseblader
July 22nd, 2014, 05:00 PM
yeah its okay man
peyton2000
July 22nd, 2014, 05:03 PM
Porn is great
Your Captain
July 22nd, 2014, 05:51 PM
It is OK, don't worry and enjoy
Chaju
July 22nd, 2014, 06:14 PM
Thanks! Let me just sit back and start masturbating.
Urban
July 23rd, 2014, 05:00 AM
Absolutely nothing wrong with it. Some people prefer it, some don't. No one's in the wrong, its just that everyone operates differently!
Aletheiaphile
July 23rd, 2014, 07:25 AM
Porn is perfectly okay as long as the people in it are doing it willingly. You could even watch the most kinky porn out there and it's still be alright given that the people consented to making that porn.
ERB-lade
July 23rd, 2014, 08:08 AM
Porn is love, porn is life.
justarandomteen
July 23rd, 2014, 10:16 AM
Yes, porn is fine, as long as it isn't like child porn. And no, you don't need help, as porn isn't dangerously addictive or a dangerous activity
highschooler
July 23rd, 2014, 02:18 PM
This is a tricky question. The long and short of it is, yes, usually.
1) Most pornography is produced by companies using consenting, paid actors and actresses who have usually chosen this career for themselves. As long as you understand that it is staged, then this is fine.
2) Some pornography is produced by a person themselves (so-called "amateur") who is not a professional pornographic actor or actress, but has willfully decided to film and post themselves engaged in sexual activity. This is also fine.
3) Some pornography is produced by companies using consenting, non-actor/actress amateurs who have willfully agreed to have their sexual activities filmed and posted. This is also fine.
4) Some pornography is willfully produced by your significant other and sent to you for your use only. As long as they are a consenting adult, this is also fine.
Then we get into other areas.
5) Some pornography of the fourth variety is posted by the receiving party without permission from the giving party either as revenge or as a joke. This is not strictly okay, as the person in the video/image did not consent that it be posted. However this is a grey area, as the person did consent to making the pornography in the first place.
6) Some pornography is produced by individuals or companies without the subject's knowledge using secret devices or through a trick. This is not okay.
7) Finally, some pornography is produced by individuals or companies using non-consenting adults (often the victims of human trafficking, sex slavery, rape, or prostitution) or even children. This is absolutely not okay.
Long story short, you have to look at a few things: did the subject consent to the sexual activity? Did the subject consent to being filmed? Did the subject consent to have the video posted? Was the subject of age and not a victim of human trafficking, sex slavery, rape, or prostitution? If the answer to any of these is no, then its probably not okay to watch.
Finally, we get into the moral side of porn. Its possible that something passes all of the above criteria, and then its up to you and your values to determine if it's okay.
For instance, legal pornography depicting pretend rape or sexual assault, legal pornography depicting actors or actresses pretending to be or told to be minors, or legal pornography depicting bestiality (real or fake).
Often, pornographic videos objectify women rampantly. They are solely sex toys. They may depict many men with one woman, women being demeaned during sex acts, or women pretending to be lesbians for a man's pleasure. Let's not forget that most industrial porn is produced for men's consumption and therefore can be questionable. Additionally, real sex is hardly anything like the sex that appears in porn.
I'm not going to tell you what you can and can't or should or shouldn't be into sexually when looking for porn. Just take everything with a grain of salt and make sure that you understand the differences between what's real (or even close to real) and what is being done solely for your entertainment.
jelly3000
July 23rd, 2014, 03:09 PM
Watching porn is actually a little more complicated than watching it or not watching it. Our brains are rewiring at the moment and watching porn can cause some problems. For example, I've heard that some guys can't get it up when they have sex because porn fires all of the impulses in the brain unlike sex....
So to put it simple, watching porn is ok but if you can't cum without porn then you have a problem. Also remember that porn can make our view on sex in real life unrealistic.....
CrazyPerson101
July 23rd, 2014, 03:29 PM
Is it OK to watch regular porn? Do I need help?
This is a tricky question. The long and short of it is, yes, usually.
1) Most pornography is produced by companies using consenting, paid actors and actresses who have usually chosen this career for themselves. As long as you understand that it is staged, then this is fine.
2) Some pornography is produced by a person themselves (so-called "amateur") who is not a professional pornographic actor or actress, but has willfully decided to film and post themselves engaged in sexual activity. This is also fine.
3) Some pornography is produced by companies using consenting, non-actor/actress amateurs who have willfully agreed to have their sexual activities filmed and posted. This is also fine.
4) Some pornography is willfully produced by your significant other and sent to you for your use only. As long as they are a consenting adult, this is also fine.
Then we get into other areas.
5) Some pornography of the fourth variety is posted by the receiving party without permission from the giving party either as revenge or as a joke. This is not strictly okay, as the person in the video/image did not consent that it be posted. However this is a grey area, as the person did consent to making the pornography in the first place.
6) Some pornography is produced by individuals or companies without the subject's knowledge using secret devices or through a trick. This is not okay.
7) Finally, some pornography is produced by individuals or companies using non-consenting adults (often the victims of human trafficking, sex slavery, rape, or prostitution) or even children. This is absolutely not okay.
Long story short, you have to look at a few things: did the subject consent to the sexual activity? Did the subject consent to being filmed? Did the subject consent to have the video posted? Was the subject of age and not a victim of human trafficking, sex slavery, rape, or prostitution? If the answer to any of these is no, then its probably not okay to watch.
Finally, we get into the moral side of porn. Its possible that something passes all of the above criteria, and then its up to you and your values to determine if it's okay.
For instance, legal pornography depicting pretend rape or sexual assault, legal pornography depicting actors or actresses pretending to be or told to be minors, or legal pornography depicting bestiality (real or fake).
Often, pornographic videos objectify women rampantly. They are solely sex toys. They may depict many men with one woman, women being demeaned during sex acts, or women pretending to be lesbians for a man's pleasure. Let's not forget that most industrial porn is produced for men's consumption and therefore can be questionable. Additionally, real sex is hardly anything like the sex that appears in porn.
I'm not going to tell you what you can and can't or should or shouldn't be into sexually when looking for porn. Just take everything with a grain of salt and make sure that you understand the differences between what's real (or even close to real) and what is being done solely for your entertainment.
Watching porn is actually a little more complicated than watching it or not watching it. Our brains are rewiring at the moment and watching porn can cause some problems. For example, I've heard that some guys can't get it up when they have sex because porn fires all of the impulses in the brain unlike sex....
So to put it simple, watching porn is ok but if you can't cum without porn then you have a problem. Also remember that porn can make our view on sex in real life unrealistic.....
I agree with them both, If you really want to , you can watch it but just keep in mind what these too have said . Good luck
ksdnfkfr
July 23rd, 2014, 07:21 PM
I get really good masturbation and orgasm without it, so I only watch it as a rare treat. I just don't want it to become that I can only get a great orgasm if I watch porn.
Semi_IronMan
August 17th, 2014, 01:55 PM
I usd 2 watch it evyday bt knw only watch it on weekends
football matt
September 12th, 2014, 01:45 PM
yeah watching porn is normal.
MonhunterRagi
September 12th, 2014, 06:43 PM
lol, no you don't
Everybody watches porn.
Aajj333
September 13th, 2014, 01:06 AM
Its ok as long as its not on a wierd site
Ryan2013
September 13th, 2014, 10:55 AM
yes porn is fine i watch it about 2 times a week :)
chris97
September 13th, 2014, 08:50 PM
Its ok
Jaseblader
September 13th, 2014, 10:00 PM
yeah, it just depends on your morals, I personally don't watch it
GoGoDiego
September 15th, 2014, 01:24 AM
Its okay. But do not make it a habit.
Buddy 912
October 6th, 2014, 05:47 AM
It is OK if you are controlling it and it is not controlling you.
Jack_smith1234
October 6th, 2014, 08:49 AM
watching porn regularly dosnt mean there is something wrong with you. just means your horny lol
Zachary G
October 6th, 2014, 10:53 AM
you are normal and its okay to watch porn, regular or otherwise, its whatever turns you on and works for you.
Flying apple
October 6th, 2014, 03:53 PM
No, it's perfectly fine :)
Pitsirikos
October 6th, 2014, 05:01 PM
It's ok. Don't worry.
JustShady
October 8th, 2014, 07:54 AM
Even though there's nothing bad with it, I ended up watching them years ago.
When I got older, I realized that watching them is for younger kids .
Anyway you can keep watching porn if you like, but try not to make it a habit
ImCoolBeans
October 8th, 2014, 08:29 AM
The moral police are not going to arrest you :P watching it is perfectly normal and I think mostly every guy watches it, and a lot of girls. Most people who deny it are likely lying.
Porn is love, porn is life.
xD you're a legend.
jordanhardy
October 8th, 2014, 09:43 AM
Yeah watching porn is perfectt normal. I'd say 99% have watched it at some point or watch it regularly
Firstborn23
October 8th, 2014, 02:42 PM
All good, watching porn just means you're horny.
built chris
October 11th, 2014, 12:01 PM
Your good man porn is perfectly normal.
samii
November 7th, 2014, 08:09 PM
Yeah its OK
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