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Jordan181
July 22nd, 2014, 04:38 PM
Now, we were together for about 3 months and it was kind of a mutual breakup. On my half it was because I didn't think she was really into me that much and I didn't want to waste my time with someone that didn't care. She told me that she wanted to break up because "we just ddn't click very well". A few days later we had a huge argument that very nearly turned violent but we later made up and both decided that we could be friends. However I really regretted breking up with her and I really wanted her back.

Now about 2 months into our relationship we started to explore a more sexual relationship but we never had intercourse. She then told me that she thought things were going too fast and she wanted to do it all at her own pace so I thought fair enough, and I didn't press for anything sexual after that. I found out the other day that she told her best friend, who I'd gotten to be quite close with, that she broke up with me because I stopped touching her. Wtaf

This made me so angry because she never told me anything about that and I started indirecting her on twitter that night (I know it's immature). She then text me asking what she'd done wrong and I completely ignored it, she's called me countless times now and I just ignore every one. It started on Friday.

I'm not sure if this is the right thing to do though? A part of me thinks I should talk to her but I really really don't even want to see her, let alone talk to her. I am absolutely furious with her and want nothing to do with her anymore. I just need a bit of advice as to how to handle this.

Microcosm
July 22nd, 2014, 04:42 PM
If you don't want anything to do with her anymore, then I guess tell her that? Let her know that it's over.

cjto
July 22nd, 2014, 04:44 PM
take the high road and talk to her, i know it seems tough but in the end you'll be happy you did

Jordan181
July 22nd, 2014, 05:08 PM
If I did talk to her I was going to wait at least a couple of weeks

Cognizant
July 22nd, 2014, 11:48 PM
It's easy as just continuing to ignore her. Ignore her texts, ignore her presence, ignore her friends when they talk about your relationship (cause they may very well be covering for her and investigating on her behalf), everything. You don't want to think about her, and you don't want her to find out more information to fuel the fire.

She'll either finally forget about you, or you'll both calm down to the point where you can try to work things out.