Gay/bi guys

[hithere14]

Does the weight of a guy matter to you?

[James Rothwell]

Definitely, I wouldn't want to be going out with someone who was obese

[Giles]

It depends what the situation is, what way I'm interested in the guy.

For example; if I'm looking to date/fuck the guy then his weight is pretty important, as I want to be with someone that I find attractive. However if I'm just chatting or making friends then it's totally irrelevant.

[jessie3]

No it doesn't matter to me

[xTropicDomx]

Does the weight of a guy matter to you?

Definite yes. I'm extremely skinny and I wouldn't go out with anyone who is too much bigger than me. Obesity isn't a disease, you can get rid of fat by taking limiting portions and working out and if you don;t, it just proves how lazy you are. :)

[Giles]

Obesity isn't a disease, you can get rid of fat by taking limiting portions and working out and if you don;t, it just proves how lazy you are. :)

How ignorant can you be? There's any number of reasons why someone might be overweight... not just because they're lazy.

Ignoring all of the diseases and genetic conditions that might cause that; you've got environmental factors, mental health concerns, eating disorders, stress, and a ridiculously wide range of physically limiting factors.

But no. You're totally right. They're obviously all just lazy.

[ComfortableInChaos]

Not 100% but I like guys who are more... slim, I guess or if they're muscular. I don't like chubby guys, but that's just my opinion. Having a little bit of extra weight isn't horrible though.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Reg_]

As long as they cant get stuck in a chair

[hithere14]

How ignorant can you be? There's any number of reasons why someone might be overweight... not just because they're lazy.

Ignoring all of the diseases and genetic conditions that might cause that; you've got environmental factors, mental health concerns, eating disorders, stress, and a ridiculously wide range of physically limiting factors.

But no. You're totally right. They're obviously all just lazy.

What environmental factors make you fat?

[Cook my Sock]

Yeah weight matters for me, I like the thinner guys.

[dame]

It's not a huge factor for me, I wouldn't mind if they were slightly overweight. I'm more into their face. :P

[chiisaiaoiryu]

It does for me. Visually, seeing an overweight guy is a turnoff for me. That and I tend to gravitate being a bottom, so I don't want to be crushed by some extra belly fat.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I definitely like bigger guys I wouldn't consider dating someone less than chubby. Pole skinny guys don't interest me at all, in fact, slim guys are a big turn off.

[CosmicNoodle]

I prefer slim guys, but a bigger guy isnt out of the question so long as I like them,

[Giles]

What environmental factors make you fat?

Your family, friends, upbringing, and any significant change which could lead to the other factors I listed.

[peyton2000]

I like fit or average guys

[Dalcourt]

Well, as long as they won't crush me underneath I'm okay with bigger guys...personality is much more important than looks for me.

[xTropicDomx]

How ignorant can you be? There's any number of reasons why someone might be overweight... not just because they're lazy.

Ignoring all of the diseases and genetic conditions that might cause that; you've got environmental factors, mental health concerns, eating disorders, stress, and a ridiculously wide range of physically limiting factors.

But no. You're totally right. They're obviously all just lazy.

This is not what I meant at all. I do admit that I did not type what I was thinking, I am very sorry. My brother is actually pretty obese and it's because of a medication that he is on and he has no control over it.

I should've said that if you are obese only for the soul reason that you're lazy, you cannot complain about people who do not want to date you because of that, but if you have explained to a person "hey, I know I'm a little overweight and that may not be very appealing to you but it's because of my condition/medicine that I am this weight, not my own free will" then this weight shouldn't matter as much as long as the person is someone that you like and that you're happy with.

I am very sorry if I offended anyone, I should've thought before I typed :)

[clay morrow]

yes i prefer skinny guys

[Hideous]

As much as I prefer fit and toned, weight doesn't really overpower personality (cliche), but I can find you really attractive whether or not you're skinny, average, or big.

[Wyatt 13]

it doesn't matter 2 me

[hithere14]

Your family, friends, upbringing, and any significant change which could lead to the other factors I listed.

Both my parents are fat but I'm not?

[Giles]

Both my parents are fat but I'm not?

Okay... great?

[hithere14]

Okay... great?

I think your kind of just trying to sound like a clever saint

[Aajj333]

Id prefer him to be thin.

[blackpo]

Both my parents are fat but I'm not?
Environmental factors do not necessarily mean obesity will follow it just means that the likelihood will increase. Like for example my environmental factors are a lot more extensive than yours
Type one diabetic on 2 types of insulin
Ethnic minority
Extensive family history of obesity
Family medical history extensive with problems that lead to obesity
Vicinity in which I live a lot cheaper to eat poorly (and yes this is highly important factor)
yet I am not obese
I am unsure if you were mocking the idea or did not see a connection however factors as I said before does not give a definitive result. Then you also have to look at how late the became obese in life, that could become a clue as to when your metabolism will slow down

[Apollo.]

I don't need a guy to be ripped or anything like that but there are limits. Im definitely into slimmer guys. All the "oh its in my genes" is bull shit, eat less and do more and you will lose weight. Saying that some guys suit being a little bit overweight. Anyone like obese though I wouldn't be interested in.

[Wisconsin]

It depends what the situation is, what way I'm interested in the guy.

For example; if I'm looking to date/fuck the guy then his weight is pretty important, as I want to be with someone that I find attractive. However if I'm just chatting or making friends then it's totally irrelevant.

Yeah Giles, im 100% with you on this :)

[Giles]

I think your kind of just trying to sound like a clever saint

What do you want me to say?

Okay, you're not the same as your parents. Some people are, some people aren't. With weight there are so many reasons and factors that can influence it there's basically no point in guessing.

[Cognizant]

As long as he's not obese, I don't really care (there's more important parts that interest me more, anyway :p). Though I do tend to check out the thinner, more built guys more often than I do with heavier guys.

[Philleeep]

I have to be sexually interested in a guy if I wanna date him too. I have to like the whole package including his body otherwise there's always something I'm holding back. Most of the time that's skinnier guys like myself.

[Canadian.Teen]

Yes, I wouldnt want to be going out with someone who is overweight. Thats just me though.

[BlizzardBurn]

Ugh I'm such a hypocrite, but as of now, yeah, it does. I don't hear anyone screaming they want an obese or skinny as a stick mate, but an over weight guy (like me) wants a toned guy or girl :D

[backjruton]

Well... obviously there's too high a limit in anyone but compared to a lot of people; with my big problems with stress, anxiety and a possible eating disorder (I hate to think of it like that but in terms of the amount of comfort eating at the start of high school and the anxiety that caused me... :x) I weigh somewhere between 19-20 stone and in a way I think I've started to become better attracted to those a bit more like me. I don't necessarily look like I weigh that much according to some people, so I guess the best way to say this would just be the overall same kind of shape... I think me feeling like this is part of the reason I don't want to lose weight, I admit I could lose a "little" (meh... maybe 3 stone or so :metal:) but this is how I feel. And regarding the problems with stress and other things, I definitely can't be one to judge going by what I've mentally ended up going through due to things I don't even know how to explain that to the average person wouldn't be 'that bad'; a long term friend recently said something about people with special needs and I don't even know if she intended to be bad by it but 3 weeks later it's still spiralling through my mind and I can't talk to her because of it... :yes: Everyone's different... and I think I'm starting to respect that.


EDIT: I agree with Giles. a lot. :yeah:

[xXEverReadyXx]

Ahh, this makes me sound bad, but yeah it does somewhat matter because I do have to have a physical attraction alongside the emotional attraction, but personality can never be trumped.

[Giles]

Ahh, this makes me sound bad, but yeah it does somewhat matter

Don't worry about it, most people are the same as far as I'm aware - sure, the person themselves matters and it's all about their personality when it comes to a relationship, but if you're not physically attracted to them then you're not off to a great start.

[Svan]

I don't want to seem shallow, because I'm not. But the weight does matter to me. I had an eating disorder, and at one time my weight was all that mattered to me, so naturally other peoples' weights matter to me too. Please don't take this as me being shallow. I'm not a shallow person.

[Ben_Frost]

Of course it does, if I'm dieting my ass off because I want to be healthy, my partner should do the same too. I don't want to end up widowed because my partner died of a heart attack and weighing 200 pounds.

[centropede]

Yes, on all 100%

[Semi_IronMan]

yea it matters

[TurboDieselBandit]

It may sound mean but I only like less than chubby guys and girls. I like guys with very very little body hair, slim but not necessarily a muscular body and no facial hair. I highly value physical attraction, I don't want to resent and dislike the looks of my partner. However, personally is still very important because looks can't makeup for a bad personality.

[ktwtimms]

I like really fit guys only problem is I'm ugly

[DoodleSnap]

If wanted to date a guy, then my preference would be for him to be quite slim - not super muscular or overweight. When it comes to just making friends, then I have no cares about weight.

[Abhorrence]

Since I'm not really romantically attracted to males I don't think I'd do anything with a dude who was like fat fat. If I was in a relationship and they got fat I guess it wouldn't matter. I don't really know tbh.

[Zachary G]

If I like a person, I like them for who they are which means that I like them as they are. Yes, I have my preferences when it comes to picking a partner, but I am not strict on it. Like I said, if I like you, then I like you for who you are, total package.

[Jackrabbit7]

Im a chubby heterosexual but my gay friend is always hitting on me. He's like supper skinny and fit. I think it just depends on the person and if their attracted to you.

[JacobIN]

IT sounds REALLY shallow, but yes, it does. But I also like guys who are a bit shorter than me in general.

[matt_tgr]

Oh yes. If he's obese then no way. I wouldn't mind if he was supper skinny though

[Thaliacea]

Weight yes , but shape no.

[ImHotBeans]

I never want to be judgmental
but I do find that overweight people [at least In my opinion] are unattractive.

[SethfromMI]

to an extent yea. I mean I do want to be physically attracted to the guy or girl I am dating.

[Danny_boi 16]

Kinda. I prefer someone that I can work out with. But I don't mind guys a little chubby, but I do mind when someone is obese.

[Snydergate]

I wouldn't base it all off of weight, but I would not want to be with a obese person, but if they are slightly overweight thats fine

[Vermilion]

I wouldn't go for someone that's fat but there are other factors

[tret123]

I'm a pretty athletic guy who always works out so i'll somewhere who can keep up with me