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Axw_JD
July 21st, 2014, 11:14 PM
I'm tired of it. Nobody likes me or wants me, I'm just the extremely nice guy that everyone can use and abuse and then throw away and forget about. I'm not good looking enough for any guys to even care to reply to a hi most of the time, I'm just tired of trying. Nobody will miss me anyways, nobody ever has...

Blood
July 21st, 2014, 11:44 PM
Then stop being the nice guy and stand up for yourself. Don't let people use you, abuse you, or walk over you.

Don't base your worth on your physical appearance. That's a horrible way to live. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, anyways.

People WILL miss you. Everyone, at some point or another in their life, convinces theirselves that nobody cares about them. But that's not the truth. Everybody has someone who cares. And if you don't think anyone cares, well hey, I just proved you wrong. I care.

Things will get better. Life has it's ups and downs and it always will.

Abyssal Echo
July 22nd, 2014, 12:04 AM
Then being the nice guy and stand up for yourself. Don't let people use you, abuse you, or walk over you.

Don't base your worth on your physical appearance. That's a horrible way to live. Beauty is I the eye of the beholder, anyways.

People WILL miss you. Everyone, at some point or another in their life, convinces theirselves that nobody cares about them. But that's not the truth. Everybody has someone who cares. And if you don't think anyone cares, well hey, I just proved you wrong. I care.

Things will get better. Life has it's ups and downs and it always will.

^ this is really good advice, I doubt that I could say it any better.
I guess I proved you wrong too because I care.

Axw_JD
July 22nd, 2014, 01:20 AM
You don't understand. If I am not the nice guy I have nothing. The moment I stop being the nice guy is the moment I completely give up on life, forever, it is the admittance of defeat.

My inability to take my own life is the only link to life itself I have left. I lack both a reason to live and a way to die.

Blood
July 22nd, 2014, 01:36 AM
You don't understand. If I am not the nice guy I have nothing. The moment I stop being the nice guy is the moment I completely give up on life, forever, it is the admittance of defeat.

My inability to take my own life is the only link to life itself I have left. I lack both a reason to live and a way to die.

Your mindset. That is your issue here. If you keep telling yourself that you HAVE to be the nice guy and that you'll have nothing if you're not, that's what you're always going to believe. And guess what? That's a shitty way to live.

Alright. Listen. If you realize that you lack a reason to live, give your life meaning. Find something(s) you're passionate about and motivate yourself to succeed in that area.

Your life is not going to have a meaning and you're not going to be happy unless you make those things happen. And it starts with your attitude. We get one life in this world. Make it good.