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Polo2847
July 21st, 2014, 07:34 PM
When you guys have sex for the first time, or give/receive anything, how do you feel when you expose your parts to the other person? It sounds like a very vulnerable position, where the other person can see everything.
I'm just curious and fancy some of my guy friends, but it seems weird if I were to be 1 on 1 with them in a room..or a girl too.
countryboi9
July 21st, 2014, 07:48 PM
I would have no problem being naked in front of any of my friends
tommy100
July 21st, 2014, 09:39 PM
Yea I have no problem but as long as you have confidence in your body you will be good
snowtrax
July 21st, 2014, 10:16 PM
For the first couple of seconds it feels strange like wow there's nothing they can't see but then it gets really hot
Ricky.h
July 21st, 2014, 10:37 PM
For me it feels exciting and eager because I'm proud of my body and I'm anticipating sex
CrazyPerson101
July 21st, 2014, 11:06 PM
Well Its weird feeling to me, ( nothing wrong with my body ) I just am super modest so Its hard for me to get naked in front of someone else
Brand3
July 21st, 2014, 11:07 PM
little nervous but not to bad
kdapik
July 21st, 2014, 11:10 PM
It felt normal for me, i didn't have any problems with it. Just take it off and have fun :D
Catholic Guy
July 22nd, 2014, 02:30 AM
In the heat of the moment everything changes and it's not a big deal
hockeyfan
July 22nd, 2014, 02:50 AM
It sounds weird to me too. Never done it though
Passenger
July 22nd, 2014, 02:51 AM
when I was 13 I slept with a boy - nothing sexual, just cuddling naked - but it was fine showing him my body because I trusted him. This was before idealised I am genderqueer and asexual but he's the boy who I've felt most attracted to ever but it wasn't much sexual attraction, just a desire to cuddle naked. I didn't and don't want to go much further :)
jessie3
July 22nd, 2014, 02:56 AM
If I got naked with friends it be weird but if I got naked in front of my boyfriend then no it's not weird, we already seen each other naked lots of times.
CuteGuy889
July 22nd, 2014, 07:16 AM
Yeah it was pretty hard...First she wanted my shirt off....she said that my skinny body is "filling out" and wanted to see my little belly.... This made me even more self consious but I relucantly gave in. Then she saw the waistband of my undie and wanted to see my undie....I had to take my jeans half off and show her my briefs...
xTropicDomx
July 23rd, 2014, 07:19 PM
When you guys have sex for the first time, or give/receive anything, how do you feel when you expose your parts to the other person? It sounds like a very vulnerable position, where the other person can see everything.
I'm just curious and fancy some of my guy friends, but it seems weird if I were to be 1 on 1 with them in a room..or a girl too.
I'd probably be a little freaked out about it in my head but I'd play it cool, I don't really have anything to hide. :cool:
ChrisA1998
July 28th, 2014, 10:26 PM
When you guys have sex for the first time, or give/receive anything, how do you feel when you expose your parts to the other person? It sounds like a very vulnerable position, where the other person can see everything.
I'm just curious and fancy some of my guy friends, but it seems weird if I were to be 1 on 1 with them in a room..or a girl too.
First time with my gf, I was like, what the heck am I doing ? ^^
mattjh-
July 29th, 2014, 11:27 AM
It feels weird and embarrassed for the first minute but then horniness takes over everything.
riverboy
July 29th, 2014, 02:54 PM
It feels weird and embarrassed for the first minute but then horniness takes over everything.
I agree with Matt and feel this way too.
president1234
July 30th, 2014, 10:56 PM
Comfortable, trust everyone I have with.
ksdnfkfr
July 31st, 2014, 12:05 AM
Well the one boy I ended up doing anything with, we'd seen each other plenty of times before that. I think if I ever do anything again I would like for that person to see my erection if that's what is being asked.
Erik13
August 2nd, 2014, 12:41 AM
I grew up with four sisters, and we were all naked as kids. It is prolly why I tend to be more attracted to guys because they are more of a mystery to me. I can get hard at just being in the same room with another guy, but am completely limp around girls.
Harrier
August 2nd, 2014, 12:24 PM
I think many girls feel vulnerable naked but I have never heard a guy feel this way and I don't. First if you really like the girl this should go away soon or not have it at all bc you should trust the girl. If you're just hooking up just try to have confidence in your body and have fun and try not to feel like you're being judged cuz really all you're tryin to do is have fun, not being judged.
Scottydog
August 2nd, 2014, 06:26 PM
As long as there is that element of trust then it isn't as bad!
fast8
August 2nd, 2014, 06:36 PM
I'm comfortable with my body so i wouldn't havr a problem with it you should always feek good about yourself and your partner would like you either way that's why you are there in the first place
Elevated
August 3rd, 2014, 04:59 AM
No problem with it
Bull
August 3rd, 2014, 05:52 AM
My brother and I naked around each other all the time. I am naked with my team mates in the locker room every day we have practice or a game. I have no problem with being naked, in fact I enjoy it. Get comfortable with your body by being naked as much as possible when you are alone, or in your room, sleep naked. The more you experience nakedness the more natural it will become. Then when the opportunity to be naked with a friend presents itself, you will feel only excitement and anticipation. Good luck and enjoy life as it unfolds.
herokidd
August 3rd, 2014, 03:44 PM
i feel like i would be very afraid to get naked bc i instantly get boners like if i see myself in the mirror naked i get a boner so yea
Erik13
August 3rd, 2014, 03:56 PM
i feel like i would be very afraid to get naked bc i instantly get boners like if i see myself in the mirror naked i get a boner so yea
is that a bad thing to get a boner? At school, we all seem to have boners in the shower all the time. and yes, i am always looking. :D
NewZealand
August 3rd, 2014, 04:09 PM
When you guys have sex for the first time, or give/receive anything, how do you feel when you expose your parts to the other person? It sounds like a very vulnerable position, where the other person can see everything.
I'm just curious and fancy some of my guy friends, but it seems weird if I were to be 1 on 1 with them in a room..or a girl too.
i understand where you are coming from, totally wondered about this myself. though now that i am experienced i guess i can try to explain. il start with your friends, i dont know if you are thinking about having sex with them or just sorta playing around, though im guessing the latter. if so, when i played around with my mates we didnt fully undress the first time, kept our cloths on and just flopped out :P though the second time it was dark and we had just gotten into bed, so we just had underwear on, sitting on the bed jerking together we saw each others bits anyway.
as for having sex with a girl for the first time, it wasnt so much like we stood up and showed it all of ahah,the first time you dont really try a lot of positions, just missionary really... and so she wouldnt have really seen my penis. though if in a relationship with a girl, you become very comfortable, and then forth dont really care about her seeing you fully nude, and im guessing this will be the same with as a guy.
hope this kinda helped and if there was anything else just quote me :)
My brother and I naked around each other all the time. I am naked with my team mates in the locker room every day we have practice or a game. I have no problem with being naked, in fact I enjoy it. Get comfortable with your body by being naked as much as possible when you are alone, or in your room, sleep naked. The more you experience nakedness the more natural it will become. Then when the opportunity to be naked with a friend presents itself, you will feel only excitement and anticipation. Good luck and enjoy life as it unfolds.
i feel like i would be very afraid to get naked bc i instantly get boners like if i see myself in the mirror naked i get a boner so yea
you grow out of that :) the awkward boner stage becomes controllable at like 15/17
DJTEEN10
August 3rd, 2014, 09:06 PM
Never have fully, Would be fine with it we got the same stuff,it's nothing none of us haven't seen before
Fireangel
August 3rd, 2014, 09:08 PM
When you guys have sex for the first time, or give/receive anything, how do you feel when you expose your parts to the other person? It sounds like a very vulnerable position, where the other person can see everything.
I'm just curious and fancy some of my guy friends, but it seems weird if I were to be 1 on 1 with them in a room..or a girl too.
Itīs weird.
herokidd
August 3rd, 2014, 09:32 PM
is that a bad thing to get a boner? At school, we all seem to have boners in the shower all the time. and yes, i am always looking. :D
at my school we dont shower so yeah nudity is a very sensitive topic. i say its a bad thing because i dont want to walk out of the locker room or bathroom with a boner and people think im gay and stuff which yea...
you grow out of that :) the awkward boner stage becomes controllable at like 15/17
i am 17 though hahaha
Erik13
August 3rd, 2014, 09:46 PM
at my school we dont shower so yeah nudity is a very sensitive topic. i say its a bad thing because i dont want to walk out of the locker room or bathroom with a boner and people think im gay and stuff which yea...
we get in trouble if we don't shower so i am used to it. also, we tend to walk around the house in various stages of undress since we were babies. i have four sisters so seeing naked girls really does nothing for me. my mom felt that i finally needed some privacy so she allowed me to move out in our little geust cottage out back which works great when i have friends spend the night.
herokidd
August 5th, 2014, 03:14 AM
we get in trouble if we don't shower so i am used to it. also, we tend to walk around the house in various stages of undress since we were babies. i have four sisters so seeing naked girls really does nothing for me. my mom felt that i finally needed some privacy so she allowed me to move out in our little geust cottage out back which works great when i have friends spend the night.
I mean I have two older brothers which I see naked constantly and I've seen my mother naked a lot too but those are taboo to me and don't ignite any pleasure whatsoever but anything else does
call_me
August 5th, 2014, 06:06 PM
when i first got head i was young so it didnt bother me as i didnt know what i was doing and nowwhen i do stuff it doesnt bother me at all if im honest
Jaseblader
August 5th, 2014, 06:22 PM
No problem being naked what's the worst they're gunna do? Laugh?!
Just Sayin
August 5th, 2014, 06:42 PM
I guess i never really thought about it at the time
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