Not physically attracted to this girl, but something is pushing me to her

[User-Unknown]

I'm not overly attracted to this girls looks, but something is pulling me to like her. I have a preference on my girlfriend to look and her personality. But for some reason, my preference has just disappeared and something is pushing me to like her. What do you think it is? I find it really odd.

[xXlolzXX]

I'm the same I don't know either lol

[ChrisTJ]

I think it's normal to like someone for something other than their looks. Yeah often we feel attracted to people becasue of their looks but other things like personality and stuff also come into it.

[Blood]

idk mayne. maybe its luv.

[User-Unknown]

I think it's normal to like someone for something other than their looks. Yeah often we feel attracted to people becasue of their looks but other things like personality and stuff also come into it.

idk mayne. maybe its luv.

She is shy and doesn't talk to me much and doesn't give proper eye contact but gives everyone else proper eye contact. Her sister talks to me a lot and not to any of the other guys this girl talks to.

Do you think the possibility is that cause I have been rejected all the time from girls i've found attractive and liked that now cause this girl likes me my conscience is telling me to go for her cause she likes me and I have a chance to be in a relationship with her. So therefore, she most possibly likes me.

[xlBitterSweetlx]

Well yeah, your need to have a partner may play some part in this situation, but if you like her personality, sometimes that is pretty much enough to be attracted to a person.
So once you're so sure you actually like her for who she is, not because she is 'a chance for you to have a relationship' - go for it, see if she really likes you back.

[conner74]

i think is love, because i love my best friend so much and thats because we know each other so well, so in my mind when you become super close to someone you start to fall for them, well it happens to me at least XD

[Typhlosion]

Dude, we all know it: appearance isn't all, or is barely anything at all. Pursue your instincts, find out if it's worth it!

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: