I'm embarrassed

[isabelle99]

I know that I'm only 15 so it shouldn't really be a problem but I'm so embarrassed. At school more or less everyone my age has done something or everything sexual and I haven't even kissed a boy yet so when people ask how far I've gone it's so awkward because they expect so much. I just want to know if it's actually normal for me so inexperienced or do I need to do something about it.

[Pepito]

You're ok. I haven't done anything like that either. You don't need to "do anything about it". You'll do it when the time is right. On the other hand, how do you know that the others have really done what they're describing?

[isabelle99]

i don't know for sure but they seem pretty graphic and proud of it and people say they've caught them at parties and stuff so i'm guessing most of what they say is true

[Pepito]

Some might be just showing off, by making it extra graphic or adding "raunchy" details. Don't feel like you have to do what they're doing. You still have lots of time ahead of you, so you won't miss out on anything :)

[isabelle99]

I guess so I just feel abit isolated when people sit and chat about it but thanks for your help:)

[ChrisTJ]

I'm the same age as you and a few of my clas mates haven't done anything with a boy/girl yet. Try not to worry about it, you have plenty of time ahead of you to start experimenting with things. You will get the chance experience sexual stuff when the time comes. :)

[Tivhal]

i think your first experiences should be something special with your boyfriend and its ok not to have a bf with your age. AND many guys like it when a girl isnt 'slutty' or still a virgin, then they know that you really want them and not anyone :)

[blahmmm123]

it's alright.. your time will come. be patient.

[TheFSM]

It's perfectly normal, and I'll bet at least half of the people were lying or greatly over exaggerating. I'm 15 and the most I've done is kiss a girl, that's about it

[understand]

Don't worry. I think it makes a girl more attractive. Some lads want a more experienced girl. Some like innocent. X. When your ready and you find the right person it will all happen for you. X

[CrazyPerson101]

Im 15, I haven't done much but I have done some things but I don't over exaggerate when I do tell people what I've done in the past, its totally normal dude Don't worry. Some people lie or over exaggerate when telling people what they've done so you can't believe everything you see and or hear.

[Your Captain]

I am exactly the same here but don't worry as most people lie about what they have done to feel better about themselves but people like you and me that admit to not even kissing are strong and above the rest

[gothy]

I regret my first kiss. But im still a virgin. Don't worry about it. 15 is really young. Under age of consent actually.

[isabelle99]

Thank you so much, you've all made me feel a little bit better about it :)

[punker_26]

it only matters what you think, if youre not ready, then thats perfect:D

[chiisaiaoiryu]

First off, never fully believe anybody when they say they've done some kind of sexual act, especially when in high school. Apart from touching themselves, most teenagers probably haven't even dared to consider sticking it in yet much less touch each other. For the most part, those who openly say that they had a sexual experience of some kind are most likely trying to make themselves sound cool. Even if they have the tendency to tell the truth about everything, take claims of sexual acts and experience with a grain of salt.

With that said, it's perfectly normal for you to be so inexperienced with sex and everything that comes along with it. I was completely inexperienced with it when I had my first time when I was 19 with my boyfriend. My point there is that sex or having a sexual experience isn't necessarily a part of high school life. Provided that your partner is patient and/or is willing to teach you what they know, sex is something you learn to pick up on along the way. I belive you said you're 15, so you don't have to worry about having sex now or that you have a lack of knowledge in the field. Just don't listen to what others say about having had a sexual experience unless you were there yourself and watched it.

[AlexanderTheGreat]

I know that I'm only 15 so it shouldn't really be a problem but I'm so embarrassed. At school more or less everyone my age has done something or everything sexual and I haven't even kissed a boy yet so when people ask how far I've gone it's so awkward because they expect so much. I just want to know if it's actually normal for me so inexperienced or do I need to do something about it.

Seriously - don't worry about it. I'm 15 (turning 16 in November) and I didn't kiss anyone until earlier this year. I feel like there is way to much pressure from peers to make people start doing sexual acts and the truth is there shouldn't be. It's nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to be worried about.

[Emmaaa]

The right time will come around for you. It's one of these things that you don't wanna rush into and regret it like some girls will at our ages :)

[isabelle99]

Seriously - don't worry about it. I'm 15 (turning 16 in November) and I didn't kiss anyone until earlier this year. I feel like there is way to much pressure from peers to make people start doing sexual acts and the truth is there shouldn't be. It's nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to be worried about.

i know its nothing to be ashamed of it's just embarrassing because everyone expects you to have some sort of experience and a story to tell

[isabelle99]

The right time will come around for you. It's one of these things that you don't wanna rush into and regret it like some girls will at our ages :)


i guess that's true but right now it's seems to be something everybody is doing and i'm in the 10% of people who aren't