Polo2847
July 21st, 2014, 12:54 AM
Hi yall. My friend says like she can't move on from her boyfriend that she broke up with A YEAR AGO. He broke up with her. I'm not sure of the details to why he broke up, but she said he never told her about why...he just broke up one day. They've been dating for 4 years.
It's been a year since she broke up, and she said she had sex 4 times already since then. I'm not sure if it's 4 different guys or not. The last person she slept with, she dated him for a week and said that it was not the same with him, as with her ex. She says she's trying to move on, but she can't, when her ex has already moved on. She also saw a therapist, and the therapist also says that she has to move on. She doesn't really have support from her parents as they've made her almost kill herself in the past. Also, she keeps asking me "Am I pretty?" as if she's trying to figure out why her ex broke up with her. I'm a photographer so she wanted me to take boudoir photography of her, and asked me to "make her pretty." Even my friends say she's hot af, but she sees herself differently. Okay, so yea, she doesn't have features that guys would stereotypically love such as big boobs and big butt, but she's responsible, has a job, going to college, is active, and strong as she did sports and teaches swimming. Before a "hang out" with her friends she put on a push up bra and kept asking me if they looked fake or big enough. To me they look fine, I dont really care how big they are. SHE'S ONLY 19. She says she's obsessed with marriage because her mom had her at 17.
She said after she broke up with him, she isolated herself from her other friends. That's when she started drinking too. She's doing all these negative indulgences such as drinking, and casual sex, trying to replace that empty hole in her heart, and it seems to stress her out a lot. I've never been in a relationship, so I don't know what this feeling is like. Can anyone help me help my friend please?? :whoops::(:(
It's been a year since she broke up, and she said she had sex 4 times already since then. I'm not sure if it's 4 different guys or not. The last person she slept with, she dated him for a week and said that it was not the same with him, as with her ex. She says she's trying to move on, but she can't, when her ex has already moved on. She also saw a therapist, and the therapist also says that she has to move on. She doesn't really have support from her parents as they've made her almost kill herself in the past. Also, she keeps asking me "Am I pretty?" as if she's trying to figure out why her ex broke up with her. I'm a photographer so she wanted me to take boudoir photography of her, and asked me to "make her pretty." Even my friends say she's hot af, but she sees herself differently. Okay, so yea, she doesn't have features that guys would stereotypically love such as big boobs and big butt, but she's responsible, has a job, going to college, is active, and strong as she did sports and teaches swimming. Before a "hang out" with her friends she put on a push up bra and kept asking me if they looked fake or big enough. To me they look fine, I dont really care how big they are. SHE'S ONLY 19. She says she's obsessed with marriage because her mom had her at 17.
She said after she broke up with him, she isolated herself from her other friends. That's when she started drinking too. She's doing all these negative indulgences such as drinking, and casual sex, trying to replace that empty hole in her heart, and it seems to stress her out a lot. I've never been in a relationship, so I don't know what this feeling is like. Can anyone help me help my friend please?? :whoops::(:(