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[Techno Monster]

This may sound weird but sometimes when i am trying to go to sleep at night these memories that i didn`t know existed come back they are fimaliar but i feel like i have to write them down. When i was little up until i was about 7 my dad used to trow dishes at me, my mom, brother, and on the floor. there has always been a picture in my mind of a small girl crying and telling dad to stop throwing things that girl was me i also remember when we went on a trip once i spilled something in the car he hit me and picked me up and slammed my arm in the car door. it didn`t break anything though but it hurt alot I cried which made him mad and then he started yelling at me i think these things are what made me such an physiological wreak i am today he did much more things than this all these things just make me hate him remembering these things always makes me cry...

[Mzor203]

Does he still do these things to you? Have you tried talking to your mom or someone close to you about it? If not, I would suggest you do, and if he doesn't do anything like this anymore, well, then I'm sure everything is fine. It could be that he had a lot of stress back in those times, financial or otherwise. Still, it was not right of him to do things like that to you, and if he's still mean or aggresive, I'd suggest you get help.

[Techno Monster]

No, he does not do these things anymore but thank you for your concern.

[japanman]

im sry but your dad is messed up there is no way thats acceptable but im happy you survived and that i hope your dad stops and i hope you are ok.

[Techno Monster]

Lol. I know he is messed up but im fine.

[japanman]

whew ok good its just that ppl that hurt others i think are messed iup its gotta bea good reason to hurt someone like for example if you had to choice between shooting your parents killer or getting accepted i would choos the kill the killer but eh still im glad your ok stuff like this makes you know that there are ppl in the world who are going thourgh horrible times. o and i forgot since you had the courage to tell us about this you deserv a woot and a wave:woot::wave:

[Techno Monster]

Hahaha thank you:D

[japanman]

no problem. got anything else you need to talk about

[Axellance]

my dad used to throw dishes as well but since your dad has stopped i would say it is best to let it go. If it happens agin i would be really concerned but he probably feels bad about doing it! I would definitly sat thats abuce though!!

[japanman]

my dad used to throw dishes as well but scence your dad has stopped u would say it is best to let it go. If it happens agin i would be really concerned but he probably feels bad about doing it! I wouls definitly sat thats abuce though!!
I agree i actually have a similar problem and thats whats happing.

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

Things can scar you, so long as you're okay now, its good. But at least you know what happened, and remember, rather than a possible future occurance of it and not knowing what it is or why its happening.
But, yeah, stress can bring back unwanted memories as said above, they're best just to accept and know they're not happening anymore, kind off prolonged closure on the situation, you know?