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Jasmine123
July 17th, 2014, 08:27 PM
There's this guy at school and I'm not real sure if hes striaght or gay? He never talks to girls, he doesn't stare at girls, never had a girl friend, and never assiocates with girls ever! Is he gay?

kryptonite
July 17th, 2014, 08:36 PM
Not being interested does not mean gay. The best way to find out is to ask him. Do you have a crush on him? Ask him if you want to hang out some time and see where it goes from there.

Wyatt 13
July 18th, 2014, 06:05 AM
Start to talk with him I have some str8 friends that are 2 shy to get closed to chicks.

ChrisTJ
July 18th, 2014, 01:44 PM
You say he doesn't seem interested in chicks, does he seem interested more in guys? I would say simply not checking out the girls doesn't really mean that someone is likely to be gay. Some boys are just shy about chicks. Plus, quite a few of the gay and bisexual guys at my school actually do hang out with girls as friends, especially as the girls see the gay guys as 'safe' and they are not going to turn round and say "I'm so in love with you", you get what it says on the tin...a friend!

plebble
July 18th, 2014, 04:37 PM
That's not enough information to go by, really. He could be as straight as possible. I've never shown feelings so anyone at school, doesn't make me gay.

peyton2000
July 18th, 2014, 06:11 PM
Why does it matter

CharlieHorse
July 18th, 2014, 08:30 PM
There's no correlation between gender interaction and sexual orientation. Even if there was, everyone is different.
A poll on this Teen-Help Site isn't going to tell you his orientation. He, however, might tell you if you ask. Who knows, you might hear the answer you want to hear.

dame
July 18th, 2014, 09:09 PM
There's no correlation between gender interaction and sexual orientation. Even if there was, everyone is different.
A poll on this Teen-Help Site isn't going to tell you his orientation. He, however, might tell you if you ask. Who knows, you might hear the answer you want to hear.

Couldn't have said it better.

Microcosm
July 18th, 2014, 09:39 PM
I agree with Charlie, but I really don't see why this matters. It's none of your business unless you know him. Given that you refer to him as "this guy at my school" I assume that you don't.

CrazyPerson101
July 18th, 2014, 11:02 PM
I don't think he's gay, its hard to tell his sexuality from such little info, why do you wanna know exactly ?

Abyssal Echo
July 19th, 2014, 12:07 AM
There's no correlation between gender interaction and sexual orientation. Even if there was, everyone is different.
A poll on this Teen-Help Site isn't going to tell you his orientation. He, however, might tell you if you ask. Who knows, you might hear the answer you want to hear.

You really didn't give us much information about this guy so its hard to say if he's gay or not. I have to agree with Charlie if you really want to know ask him.

FairPlay137
July 19th, 2014, 12:40 AM
Can't tell. Not enough information.

Green Arrow
July 19th, 2014, 08:05 PM
As good as my gaydar is, no one can really predict if someone's gay or not just by who they hang around. Get to know them and maybe they'll open up to you?

Jasmine123
July 19th, 2014, 09:43 PM
I know him guys just never asked him idk how he would take it! But I saw him on Social Media site and it looked like he was in leggings

indoxyl
July 20th, 2014, 09:21 PM
I know him guys just never asked him idk how he would take it! But I saw him on Social Media site and it looked like he was in leggings

the types of clothing people wear doesnt determine their sexuality