kissing

[ryanP2010]

ive had a girlfriend before but its noting like the girl im dating now she always wants to kiss and im afraid im a bad kisser i stheir anything i can do

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Just go ahead and kiss her. Until you're sure of what she likes, always err on the side of caution, don't go crazy with the tongue or anything. And of course, you could always ask her. After you've just been kissing would be a good time to ask, since it'll be relevant then. Just tell her you wanna be sure you're doing the right thing, and ask if there's anything she'd rather you do that you're not doing, or that you are doing and she'd rather you stop. Communication is key. Take her advice into consideration, and then unless she makes a point of telling you to do/not do something, don't worry about it anymore. She'll probably be glad that you're listening to what she wants, but she'll get annoyed if you bug her about it every time you kiss her.

[ryanP2010]

thanks for the advice

[Serenity]

General Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Besides, if she always wants to kiss I think it's safe to say she enjoys it :daisy: So no worries. And like Jessi said, if you really think there is reason to worry, just ask her.

[Falk 'Ace' Flyer]

Close your eyes and just hold her. Then you'll figure it out.

[Malcolm Tucker]

As said above, there is no need to worry, just relax. And for future reference there is a good stickie on this :

Your First French Kiss & Kissing Discussion (http://virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=13855)

[Techno Monster]

Relax and JUST DO IT

[japanman]

I second that! And just so you know, quite a lot of peoplpe worry about this, but you will find that it should come naturally. it does whew lol i havent kissed yet and i have liked this girl and was gonna ask this for reference but since i read thiis i guess not thank you. :D