Extremely low self-esteem due to extreme insecurities

[LolWall]

I hardly have anything to be proud of about myself.
My ex-girlfriend called me ugly...
A little girl said I look like a monkey.

I just feel really awful... :(

The problem is comments like that really bring me down, and I hardly have anything to be proud of...

Anyone know where to get lots of self-confidence? Don't include learning how to be good at dancing or singing; it's kinda embarrassing for me.

VT isn't a "rate me" website, so I deleted your pictures. Hope you understand. ~Tiago

[thatgothgirluknow]

u just have to learn how to embrace urself I don't think u look bad at all but looks aren't all that matters don't care what other think about u the only thing that matters is what u think of urself find something u can do look at what ur good at and not what ur not everyone is good at something maybe u just haven't found it

[LolWall]

u just have to learn how to embrace urself I don't think u look bad at all but looks aren't all that matters don't care what other think about u the only thing that matters is what u think of urself find something u can do look at what ur good at and not what ur not everyone is good at something maybe u just haven't found it


Thanks, but I don't think I'm good at anything.

I feel as if trying will just make me feel worse.

I mean I've seen so many of my classmates getting heaps of compliments like "you rock", "hottie!", "you're so cool", etc from other people. But not me, I do not get words of encouragement. Although a girl called me cute, but I think she's just saying that out of pity.

[Hideous]

I see you have a passion for...soccer? I suggest you put your mind into that and not worry about what other people think of you. You don't look like a monkey, you're a good looking guy. Because your girlfriend said you're ugly, I just think you deserve better than that.

[LolWall]

I see you have a passion for...soccer? I suggest you put your mind into that and not worry about what other people think of you. You don't look like a monkey, you're a good looking guy. Because your girlfriend said you're ugly, I just think you deserve better than that.

Well, soccer is certainly one thing that I enjoy, but I'm not an expert at it. As for the stuff you said about my looks and my ex-girlfriend, I know you're probably just trying to cheer me up. Nevertheless, thanks for the support.

[thatgothgirluknow]

Thanks, but I don't think I'm good at anything.

I feel as if trying will just make me feel worse.

I mean I've seen so many of my classmates getting heaps of compliments like "you rock", "hottie!", "you're so cool", etc from other people. But not me, I do not get words of encouragement. Although a girl called me cute, but I think she's just saying that out of pity.

everyone is good at something trust me dnt worry ull find it u just have to try new things it could be anything

[Zbenton27]

My ex said so many more things about me including that and we were together for 3 months. I was crushed and still am... it's been 8 months since it happened and i cant get over it... help please...

[Hudor]

I hardly have anything to be proud of about myself.
My ex-girlfriend called me ugly...
A little girl said I look like a monkey.

I just feel really awful... :(

The problem is comments like that really bring me down, and I hardly have anything to be proud of...

Anyone know where to get lots of self-confidence? Don't include learning how to be good at dancing or singing; it's kinda embarrassing for me.


Thanks, but I don't think I'm good at anything.

I feel as if trying will just make me feel worse.

I mean I've seen so many of my classmates getting heaps of compliments like "you rock", "hottie!", "you're so cool", etc from other people. But not me, I do not get words of encouragement. Although a girl called me cute, but I think she's just saying that out of pity.

Well, soccer is certainly one thing that I enjoy, but I'm not an expert at it. As for the stuff you said about my looks and my ex-girlfriend, I know you're probably just trying to cheer me up. Nevertheless, thanks for the support.

Look I understand what you're saying but there should be sense of distinction between what others think of you and what you think of yourselves.

Attraction is purely based on perspective. It isn't necessary everyone may find you attractive but that doesn't mean no one any ever find you attractive or that you are unattractive. Besides good looks can definitely garner attention but it would be shallow.

I know I'll probably sound like a dick for saying this but your looks don't matter . A relation based purely on physical attraction can never last long. If your girl-friend thought you looked ugly for how you look she didn't try to know and understand you and therefore she didn't deserve you.

Try new things. Experiment with your looks and your hobbies. Try new hairstyles. Wear clothes you feel happy in. Try different sports, recreational activities. Try to discover things you feel happy doing and try to hone the talents you know of.