Can some offer a little advice or gudiance?. I need some help.

[jaybayy]

So I've been noticing that lately I've been noticing girls more than guys. Girls have been standing out more than guys. And I don't know why. I used to always be attracted to guys & guys only. I have a boyfriend. And I am crazy in love with him. But whenever we do have sex or just fool around it doesn't feel the same as it used to. Like I don't get as aroused as I used to. Like even his pictures or pictures of other guys don't get me as turned on anymore. And it just really getting to me. Because it's been kind of a all of sudden thing. I've talked to him about how I've been feeling and he said he doesn't want us to break up. Because we both love eachother. We agreed to not do anything really sexual until i figure out whats going on. But it's like when I see a pretty girl and feel like a sexual attraction to her. I feel bad. I couldn't see my self ever being with a girl. Because i don't honestly find them that intresting. I don't think I could have a realtionship with one. I don't even like hanging out with them. Ive played volleyball fot 3 years. And i never had a sexual attra tion to ant girls. But now i fell uncomfortable playing. I need advice on what to do or what's going on.

[Blood]

As we get older our sexual desires and attractions will develop and change. It's a normal part of puberty. There's nothing wrong with the fact that you're noticing girls, and your boyfriend seems to be handling it very well. My advice is that you just give yourself time to figure out where your attractions really lie, however long that may take.

[Wyatt 13]

As we get older our sexual desires and attractions will develop and change. It's a normal part of puberty. There's nothing wrong with the fact that you're noticing girls, and your boyfriend seems to be handling it very well. My advice is that you just give yourself time to figure out where your attractions really lie, however long that may take.

Agree with Jess, part of puberty stuff but to me you sound str8.

[From Chris]

So I've been noticing that lately I've been noticing girls more than guys. Girls have been standing out more than guys. And I don't know why. I used to always be attracted to guys & guys only. I have a boyfriend. And I am crazy in love with him. But whenever we do have sex or just fool around it doesn't feel the same as it used to. Like I don't get as aroused as I used to. Like even his pictures or pictures of other guys don't get me as turned on anymore. And it just really getting to me. Because it's been kind of a all of sudden thing. I've talked to him about how I've been feeling and he said he doesn't want us to break up. Because we both love eachother. We agreed to not do anything really sexual until i figure out whats going on. But it's like when I see a pretty girl and feel like a sexual attraction to her. I feel bad. I couldn't see my self ever being with a girl. Because i don't honestly find them that intresting. I don't think I could have a realtionship with one. I don't even like hanging out with them. Ive played volleyball fot 3 years. And i never had a sexual attra tion to ant girls. But now i fell uncomfortable playing. I need advice on what to do or what's going on.

Perhaps you're not as gay as you thought you are? It's not un-normal to experience what you're experiencing. Just as some people may come out as gay later in life even though they may have a family, wife or girlfriend but are suddenly attracted to males it's not abnormal. Perhaps you are just starting to be attracted to women? What's your age? Maybe you could even be bi. :)

-Chris