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mrpieface2
July 15th, 2014, 08:57 PM
Hey guys....
I just need to vent right now...
Well my grandpa is getting old... and he's not doing so well. He suffered from a stroke 7 years ago and he made a very good recovery..but now he's not doing so well....
I'm so sad.. because I feel like he's going to pass away soon, and I've been trying to be the best grandson ever....
I don't know what I'm going to do when he's gone.. He's the best grandpa ever.. We did so many things that I enjoyed..
Sorry about this post.... I just need to vent right now...

Lost in the Echo
July 15th, 2014, 09:51 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about that. I lost my grandfather 5 years ago, and my dad just a few weeks ago. I was very close with both.
Once you lose a loved one, it's extremely to tough for a very long time. But cherish all the good memories. That will help you move on with your life.

Just be around your grandfather anytime you can, and let him know how much you love him every opportunity you get.
It sounds like he's lived a good life, and has gotten through a lot, but death is an inevitable part of life for us all. Be proud of what your grandfather has been able to go through in his life, and come out of successfully, and appreciate the time you have left with him.

hockeyfan
July 16th, 2014, 12:02 AM
Plz accept my deepest sympathy. No need to apologize, that's wat this is for.

I'm also close to my grandfather and I can't imagine my life without him.

My advice to u is: Don't concentrate on the fact that he won't be around forever. Think of the good times u still can have with him.

Cognizant
July 16th, 2014, 02:36 AM
Death sucks. I've never lost a human family member before, but I imagine it sucks.
My first dog Max suffered his last two years of life in pain and helplessness. He could barely walk, hear, and had no control of his bladder. It was horrible. Whenever he would have an accident he would try to clean it up because he felt bad. He had to be put down the day after christmas 2007. I cried for a solid hour, but it felt a lot better knowing that he was finally free from the pain and suffering he was going through.

But I digress. While it is absolutely horrible seeing him deteriorate that way, it's better to know that he'll be free of pain soon instead of having to live every waking moment in the pain. Just try to make the last days of his life some of the best and most comfortable.

CrazyPerson101
July 16th, 2014, 08:42 AM
Hey guys....
I just need to vent right now...
Well my grandpa is getting old... and he's not doing so well. He suffered from a stroke 7 years ago and he made a very good recovery..but now he's not doing so well....
I'm so sad.. because I feel like he's going to pass away soon, and I've been trying to be the best grandson ever....
I don't know what I'm going to do when he's gone.. He's the best grandpa ever.. We did so many things that I enjoyed..
Sorry about this post.... I just need to vent right now...


Im sorry about your grandpa's health, mine isn't doing to hot either. My grandpa just had a stroke like 2 weeks ago ( drove himself home from the hospital when he was told not to... stubborn old man ) Anyway mine's got CHF and actually died Dec. 19 94 and he was legally dead for a while so he feels like crap alot , mines also got beginners altimers so his memory is iffy at times.. but idk what Ill do when he goes for good either .... But try to look at it on the bright side, they're with us now and when they do go, we had many great times with them & one day you'll be able to do the same with your grandkids :)

beverley
July 21st, 2014, 03:23 AM
ohhhh really i am shocked