Not ready for sex

[joshcac]

I'm 16 and still a virgin. I've been dating this girl since last year and EVERYONE (yes, her friends, my friends) keeps making pressure and tell me it is time to have sex. I mean, I really want to but I'm not fully prepared cause I am a late bloomer and I haven't developed too much (in terms of penis size, etc) and i am fat. I want to wait like, 6 months or something so I can lose weight and my body can develop properly. So, what shoud I tell these friends? Because say "I'm in puberty" is a little weird...

PS: My gf understands me and she says she don't think I'm taking so long to have sex but she wants, I want, but my body isnt ready...

[Mynick]

If you're not ready i don't think you should force it.
For starters, ignore your friends and her friends, it may be hard but at the end of the day is your relationship not theirs.
Another thing that may sound hard to believe is that penis size doesn't matter that much, you shouldn't worry a lot with it. As for the being overweight ( i am too so i d understand you) thing, talk with her explain her that you're doing everything you can to lose weight and that does matter to you.
Until you're 100% ready you should keep making out with her, try even 'explore' more, sure it isn't sex (as you say she wants) but keeps her 'busy' and happy.
Best of luck!

[gothy]

Then dont do it if you are not ready

[ChrisTJ]

I agree, if you don't feel you're ready yet then don't let anyone force you. Seems your gf is understanding so it's all good. Don't worry about what your friends and her friends say, it's between you and her and if she understands you need time that's all that matters.

[Cognizant]

Sex is something that should be consensual, and fun. If you're not ready but do it anyways, there's a chance that you're not going to have as much fun "doing it" than you would when you're fully ready.
With that in mind, just wait till you're fully ready and you'll probably enjoy it a lot more than just doing it out of influence or sexual frustration.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I've got pretty much the same problem, except I'm an early bloomer and I'm not mentally ready for sex.

[mrpieface2]

If you're not ready don't do it. What matters is that your girlfriend understands. You don't have to listen to your/her friends.

[thatgothgirluknow]

if ur not ready don't do it don't let peer pressure get the best of u theres nothing wrong with waiting

[Pulp501]

I'm 16 and still a virgin. I've been dating this girl since last year and EVERYONE (yes, her friends, my friends) keeps making pressure and tell me it is time to have sex. I mean, I really want to but I'm not fully prepared cause I am a late bloomer and I haven't developed too much (in terms of penis size, etc) and i am fat. I want to wait like, 6 months or something so I can lose weight and my body can develop properly. So, what shoud I tell these friends? Because say "I'm in puberty" is a little weird...

PS: My gf understands me and she says she don't think I'm taking so long to have sex but she wants, I want, but my body isnt ready...

No one has any right to be telling you when you should be having sex. Personally, I wouldn't recommend anyone under at least 18 be having sex, teenagers just aren't mature enough. It's a big deal and you should be the only one who decides when and how it happens. If you don't want to have sex, don't. And tell everyone that is pressuring you to go fuck themselves.

[Lost in the Echo]

You really just need to not give a fuck what others want you to do. It's your life, not theirs. You only lose your virginity once, and you want it to be a good experience. Take all the time you need.

[Pepito]

The most important thing is how you and you're girlfriend feel about this issue. If she understands, then there is no problem - you'll do it whenever you're ready. Your friends or whoever else, have nothing to say in this matter. You can very politely say to them: F**K OFF.

[Giando]

Don't listen to anyone. When you are ready, You will have sex with the right girl. Everybody must have sex when he want.

[GoGoDiego]

Possibly wait for the right time for you to make love with her.