I don't know who to choose. Help?

[silverfox9001]

okay so there's two guys I like, both who like me back and it's been adding on a little stress lately.

Should I go for Boy A, the online friend who I've known for a few years, I trust and really like a lot but I don't really want to be with, he's always there for me but he fight a lot, he hurts me often and have different interests.

orr...

Boy B, the guy in my town who has the exact same interests and me and just really gets me, only thing is that we're both quite socially awkward so when we meet up it's a little awkward.

[jessie3]

I'd say boy B because the both of ya have some chemistry together and as to being awkward when ya meet, it will eventually fade away when ya start going out on like dates and stuff like that

[xlBitterSweetlx]

Well, after reading the "but I don't really want to be with" part, probably not boy A.
But I think you should take your time with boy B, don't rush things. See if the awkwardness goes away, if you get on well.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Boy A sounds like a d*****bag.

I'd go with Boy B, definitely.

[indoxyl]

okay so there's two guys I like, both who like me back and it's been adding on a little stress lately.

Should I go for Boy A, the online friend who I've known for a few years, I trust and really like a lot but I don't really want to be with, he's always there for me but he fight a lot, he hurts me often and have different interests.

orr...

Boy B, the guy in my town who has the exact same interests and me and just really gets me, only thing is that we're both quite socially awkward so when we meet up it's a little awkward.

It's pretty obvious that you should go for boy B

[gothy]

its kind of a leading question.....

boy B

[Microcosm]

Boy B. Online relationships never work. Also, you don't want to be with Boy A anyways.

[The Flash]

I'd choose boy B.
You can actually meet him and talk to him in person. Plus you know that he's not cat-fishing you.

[Rallo]

I wouldn't rush into anything in a situation like that. You don't want to end up with B then have all the things that hurt you with A solved and feel as if you'd prefer him.

Right now the way you explain it B would be better, though if you can solve things with A that hurt you, things could end up quite smooth with him.


All the above replies look at the now and ignore the future.
Think things like 'what if everything that hurts me with A gets solved, would things go smoother if I chose him then?'
What I'm trying to say, don't rush into things with B simply because it seems as it's the easier option, give things time, talk to A a bit and see where things end up. Try to solve all these things A does which hurt you.

[CrazyPerson101]

Had this problem yesterday ... Go with boy B & hope that ya'll can be together

[sixguy6]

You said you kinda don't want to be with boy A So you practically answered your own question lol

[GoGoDiego]

If I were you, I would choose the latter. This happened to my friend who had a gf from Singapore, they always talk via skype, and their relationship did not last long.

[ChrisTJ]

I think definitely boy B, I mean you even say boy A hurts you a lot, that's not a healthy foundation for a relationship!

If that's not enough, listen to Johnny Depp on this one :)
"if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second" - - Johnny Depp