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July 14th, 2014, 07:18 PM
Hi everyone, I’m here to ask a question about dealing with situation that not many of you have heard about. Long story short, my mom was divorced about 8 years ago, and she has been dating women ever since, I support her because I love her for who she is. She’s 36 years old, and I’m 15, currently in high school. We live in New York City.
Last month, my mom and I moved in with another single mother who she has been dating for over a year, she’s the same age as my mom, and her son is 14 years old. We live in this large studio, basically one large room with no walls. Plus a kitchen, a bathroom, and a balcony.
Because of the fact that we’re sleeping in the same room, there has been a privacy issue for my mother and her partner. I know they are very careful to not let us see any sexual aspect of their relationship, and there is a divider between their bed and the other part of the room. But almost every night, I can hear them kissing in bed. Even though the room is dark, I can hear them kiss very clearly. They’ve never done anything beyond that, since they try to keep quiet as much as possible. I’m old enough to know and understand what they’re doing, and I never disturb them, I just try to pretend that I’m sleeping. However, I am worried that my mom and her partner might be kissing too much, there were nights when they would literally kiss all night long, until the morning. Most other nights they would kiss for at least an hour or two.
Should I tell her that I'm worried about her? Or should I respect them and give them personal space and not let them know. Please let me know what you think about this. Thank you.
We will be moving into a bigger place on Sep 1st, so I guess the problem will solve itself by then.
Last month, my mom and I moved in with another single mother who she has been dating for over a year, she’s the same age as my mom, and her son is 14 years old. We live in this large studio, basically one large room with no walls. Plus a kitchen, a bathroom, and a balcony.
Because of the fact that we’re sleeping in the same room, there has been a privacy issue for my mother and her partner. I know they are very careful to not let us see any sexual aspect of their relationship, and there is a divider between their bed and the other part of the room. But almost every night, I can hear them kissing in bed. Even though the room is dark, I can hear them kiss very clearly. They’ve never done anything beyond that, since they try to keep quiet as much as possible. I’m old enough to know and understand what they’re doing, and I never disturb them, I just try to pretend that I’m sleeping. However, I am worried that my mom and her partner might be kissing too much, there were nights when they would literally kiss all night long, until the morning. Most other nights they would kiss for at least an hour or two.
Should I tell her that I'm worried about her? Or should I respect them and give them personal space and not let them know. Please let me know what you think about this. Thank you.
We will be moving into a bigger place on Sep 1st, so I guess the problem will solve itself by then.