Does she like me or just see me as a friend?

[clueless_one]

She talks to me a lot (not asking questions about me). Every weekend after we meet in a group she drops me back home even though I annoy her.

I made fun of her height a while ago and she seemed upset about it but after a while she just didn't care. I used to touch her hair and she used to complain about me touching her hair fixing it saying don't mess up my hair. I stopped touching her hair and making fun of her height was a one off thing. When she is on the way to dropping me home, I used to always ask for her phone taking snapchat photos sending it to myself and her friends and also spam her photos by taking selfies of myself. She seemed hesitant to give it to me at first, but now she always gives it to me and is always restless as to what I'm doing on her phone. Though, I take all my friends phones and take photos/spam their photos.

I have asked her to watch movies in a group and she almost always rejects. Only on occasions she accepts to meet in the group, though very rare. When at a movie I always talk to her during the movie and it seems to annoy her.

I send her snapchats (spam her sometimes) and she screenshots a few of them. I also sometimes Facebook her, call her and SMS her.

I've heard her say she is shy. It also seems she likes another guy, she stands close to him, her chest faces him and she looks at him. One time this guy organised to meet in a group for a movie inviting this girl. Though, I sat in the middle of this guy and this girl.

Her sister told me she likes someone else and not me.

So, does she like me or just see me as a friend?

[elmers_gliu]

You know, it's hard to tell. I'm sure that's not the answer you were looking for though! I think you should either straight up ask her, with keeping the possibility in the back of your mind that she doesn't like you back. Or wait it out and see what happens. Time will tell! Also, spamming with snapchats isn't the best of ideas... Best of luck!! :)

[indoxyl]

You are wasting your damn time. It is so obvious that she has no feelings for you. You have given no examples of how she could possibly be interested in you. You have only given examples how she is obviously attracted to this other guy. So it's pretty clear that she is not interested in you.

[clueless_one]

You are wasting your damn time. It is so obvious that she has no feelings for you. You have given no examples of how she could possibly be interested in you. You have only given examples how she is obviously attracted to this other guy. So it's pretty clear that she is not interested in you.

Thankyou for your advice. This girl is doing final exams, and I know the guy that you said this girl is obviously attracted to, also likes her. I told him to wait until after her final exams this year and then ask her out.

[Meganium]

I don't think that this girl is very interested in you romantically, OP. She hasn't really given any strong hints, and from what you say, she sounds attracted to this other person. A lot of the things you mentioned are just casual little things that a lot of people will do with people just like you, and they mean virtually nothing. I'm sure that if this girl, or any other one was attracted to you more than most others, you'd be able to tell more easily, as those gestures are much more meaningful.

[clueless_one]

I don't think that this girl is very interested in you romantically, OP. She hasn't really given any strong hints, and from what you say, she sounds attracted to this other person. A lot of the things you mentioned are just casual little things that a lot of people will do with people just like you, and they mean virtually nothing. I'm sure that if this girl, or any other one was attracted to you more than most others, you'd be able to tell more easily, as those gestures are much more meaningful.

I thought this could mean something cause they say nice guys finish last. By the way I'm acting, it's not being a nice guy. So I thought it means something.

[Living For Love]

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[Meganium]

I'm a friend of the previous user owner of this account, and I'm not going to stand you all telling me that I'm the original owner of this account. I also don't like the way people are treating my friend. It seems he suffers from a mental illness, not sure he hides things sometimes. He still cries almost everyday and sits on the floor of his shower or in bed in a ball. It's just not right that you treat someone badly not knowing his history or what happens in his life.

I thought this could mean something cause they say nice guys finish last. By the way I'm acting, it's not being a nice guy. So I thought it means something.


You've made this clear. Sorry if I offended you. I won't dwell on it any longer.

Back to the matter at hand, even if you take that saying to heart, it's not helping much. I view it as an excuse to say, "If I become an asshole, I get chicks!" Even though that may not be what you're thinking, that's pretty much the final answer in that scenario.

That aside, in this case, you seem pretty much neutral. What matters here is what this girl is seeking, and judging from her behavior, you're not it. I'm sure that if she were attracted to you in different, more positive way, it'd be easier to pick up.

[clueless_one]

You've made this clear. Sorry if I offended you. I won't dwell on it any longer.

Back to the matter at hand, even if you take that saying to heart, it's not helping much. I view it as an excuse to say, "If I become an asshole, I get chicks!" Even though that may not be what you're thinking, that's pretty much the final answer in that scenario.

That aside, in this case, you seem pretty much neutral. What matters here is what this girl is seeking, and judging from her behavior, you're not it. I'm sure that if she were attracted to you in different, more positive way, it'd be easier to pick up.

I didn't say it properly the first time. I meant, the other guy is a nice guy. They say nice guys finish last, so I thought she might like me instead of this nice guy with how I'm acting.

[Meganium]

I didn't say it properly the first time. I meant, the other guy is a nice guy. They say nice guys finish last, so I thought she might like me instead of this nice guy with how I'm acting.

Then that saying doesn't apply here. It simply means that this girl has different interests. Your behavior doesn't matter so much. It's her desire to seek and match it that does. If she wants a person seems nicer than you, then she'll go for that person. Pseudo Vice versa.

[clueless_one]

Then that saying doesn't apply here. It simply means that this girl has different interests. Your behavior doesn't matter so much. It's her desire to seek and match it that does. If she wants a person seems nicer than you, then she'll go for that person. Pseudo Vice versa.

So in other words your saying she is attracted to people who treat her nicely, and that's the other guy...

This other guy told me he likes her and cause she is doing her final exams, I told him to ak her out after her exams.

[Meganium]

Not necessarily nicely, but apparently MORE nicely than you are. Evidently, he just meets her standards easier than you do. Not a bad thing, that's just what she's looking for. In other words, in her eyes, those two just "click" better.

[clueless_one]

Not necessarily nicely, but apparently MORE nicely than you are. Evidently, he just meets her standards easier than you do. Not a bad thing, that's just what she's looking for. In other words, in her eyes, those two just "click" better.

Was it right for me to tell him to ask her out after she finishes her final exams after he told me he liked her.

[Meganium]

Yeah, so long as it was done out of concern. Exams is a busy time, and you looked out to make sure there wasn't any unnecessary stress or distraction. No problem with that.

[clueless_one]

Anyone else able to help.

[indoxyl]

Anyone else able to help.

There's really no other advice we can give you.
The girl does not like you. She likes the other guy. The other guy is going to ask her out after her exams. There's nothing else to do. Just move on from this.

[clueless_one]

This other guy asked me why I think her chest always faces him a lot (shoulders square to him). I told him I don't know. But would like to know what you think it means so I can tell him what it could most possibly mean? Just so I can help him out.

This other guy asked me why I think her chest always faces him a lot (shoulders square to him). I told him I don't know. But would like to know what you think it means so I can tell him what it could most possibly mean? Just so I can help him out.

I don't mean her chest faces him. Her torso faces him. What do you think this means so I can tell this other guy what/why she possibly does it to him?

You are wasting your damn time. It is so obvious that she has no feelings for you. You have given no examples of how she could possibly be interested in you. You have only given examples how she is obviously attracted to this other guy. So it's pretty clear that she is not interested in you.

I don't think that this girl is very interested in you romantically, OP. She hasn't really given any strong hints, and from what you say, she sounds attracted to this other person. A lot of the things you mentioned are just casual little things that a lot of people will do with people just like you, and they mean virtually nothing. I'm sure that if this girl, or any other one was attracted to you more than most others, you'd be able to tell more easily, as those gestures are much more meaningful.

This guy told me that he told another guy about liking this girl and that he said that the signs she is showing him means nothing or really little and that she might not like him in that way and to be careful cause it might mean nothing. I didnt know what to say in reply, but feel I should help him. He is actually a nice guy and I will be happy if he gets her. He also told me that when he asks her out he will be expecting her to say no, and even this guy told him to expect a no.

[Ben_Frost]

She talks to me a lot (not asking questions about me). Every weekend after we meet in a group she drops me back home even though I annoy her.

I made fun of her height a while ago and she seemed upset about it but after a while she just didn't care. I used to touch her hair and she used to complain about me touching her hair fixing it saying don't mess up my hair. I stopped touching her hair and making fun of her height was a one off thing. When she is on the way to dropping me home, I used to always ask for her phone taking snapchat photos sending it to myself and her friends and also spam her photos by taking selfies of myself. She seemed hesitant to give it to me at first, but now she always gives it to me and is always restless as to what I'm doing on her phone. Though, I take all my friends phones and take photos/spam their photos.

I have asked her to watch movies in a group and she almost always rejects. Only on occasions she accepts to meet in the group, though very rare. When at a movie I always talk to her during the movie and it seems to annoy her.

I send her snapchats (spam her sometimes) and she screenshots a few of them. I also sometimes Facebook her, call her and SMS her.

I've heard her say she is shy. It also seems she likes another guy, she stands close to him, her chest faces him and she looks at him. One time this guy organised to meet in a group for a movie inviting this girl. Though, I sat in the middle of this guy and this girl.

Her sister told me she likes someone else and not me.

So, does she like me or just see me as a friend?

To me it seems she really doesn't want you, and that she'd hardly want you to be her friend. Spam is annoying, talking while someone is paying attention to a movie is annoying too, you're not doing anything helpful if you want the relationship to work. Also I think it's quite an obvious hint that she DOESN'T want you if HER sister told YOU she likes someone else.