What do YOU want?

[oohlala]

Hey, so, quick question: If you're depressed, or self-harm or just feel all alone, what would you want a person to do? Would you be opposed to some group sessions or therapy or counselling? Or do you just need help finding the right people to hang out with or just talk to? Do you want attention?

And if you are answering the question above, could you also state why you feel depressed, have attempted suicide and so on?

Thanks!

If all goes well, I will be able to make a difference

[CosmicNoodle]

Right:
I am depressed and have attempted suicide twice, because I was about as insane as you can get, to the pont I was laughing manically and screaming as invisible spector's. And I'm depressed because life a bitch.

I just want people to treat me nornaly, I don't Luke therapy or special sessions, I just want to find so e half decent people to gang with for a while.

[Living For Love]

Just having someone to be there for you is good, someone who can listen and understand without judging.

[oohlala]

So, basically, you guys think that maybe having a friend will help?

[Living For Love]

So, basically, you guys think that maybe having a friend will help?

It will definitely help, but make sure it is someone trustful and a good listener.

[Karkat]

Eh, I know I need to be in therapy, and most likely on anti-depressants. I need friends, but it's hard to maintain relationships when you're in the state I'm in.

I self harm partially out of masochism, partly to punish myself, partially to get away from the pain or solidify it. I have strange reasons.

I am depressed because I'm bipolar. It's just a large, looming part of me that's always been there. The fact that I have no life and that I'm physically ill worsens it.

I'm suicidal because I have a chronic illness that will put me at war with myself for most of the rest of my life. If I'm lucky. Sometimes it's hard to live for the good moments when you know most of your life will be bad ones.

Ultimately, what I want is the help I need to stabilize myself and get my life back on track, but in order to do that, I have to jump through so many friggin hoops.

[Gottaloveaginger14]

I know I just want someone (preferably a guy) who will just hold me white a feel like shit or just be there and watch movies or something so I don't feel as lonely

[thatgothgirluknow]

[QUOTE=oohlala;2871054]Hey, so, quick question:
If you're depressed, or self-harm or just feel all alone, what would you want a person to do? just be there for me talk to me and not treat me like im a burden but at the same time not feel sorry for me just support me

Would you be opposed to some group sessions or therapy or counselling? no except family i hate mine so i refuse to talk to them i dont think i would do good in a group because i like to keep things private and i hate other to see me cry but id try it i guess

do you need help finding the right people to hang out with or just talk to? no not really just dont trust anyone

Do you want attention ? nope hate it when i talk to people cause i feel bad about it latter

attempted suicide because of severe anxiety and flashbacks along with feeling worthless depressed because of allot of things

[gothy]

If you're depressed, or self-harm or just feel all alone, what would you want a person to do? Depends on the situation. Sometime being alone is best.

Would you be opposed to some group sessions or therapy or counselling? Nope
Or do you just need help finding the right people to hang out with or just talk to? Do you want attention? Not attention. Sometimes i just get upset thhat no one cares about me at the end of the day. The use me then fuck me over. I want someone who cares. Not couldn't care less.

And if you are answering the question above, could you also state why you feel depressed, have attempted suicide and so on?

I did .
I attempted suicide because i feel my life is useless. Its as if i don't exist the same as my peers. Im just a tool to use and throw away. If i died i don't think anyone would notice or care.

Thanks!

If all goes well, I will be able to make a difference[/QUOTE]

[oohlala]

Thanks for answering, guys. Another question: do you feel like you need help, like you have acknowledged any problems you think you might have? If someone came up to you or you saw some advertisement or something saying that they could help you, would you be willing to check it out or follow that person or would you need some convincing?

[Mynick]

A friend really. Someone who will listen to you and won't mind if you call him/her at 2 AM, someone who will support you, someone that will be there for you. Great music taste and being funny are always a plus tho.