View Full Version : Do I have a chance at finding anyone?
DairyFarmer
July 13th, 2014, 08:19 PM
Hey guys, I'm new to the forum, so bear with me! I broke up with my now Ex-Girlfriend back a few months ago, because she was starting to get very very clingy, and I felt the relationship was taking a bad turn. Now, to give a little info about what I like and who I am, I am a dedicated man of Christ, I'm mennonite, I am one of 6 virgins left in my class of 40, I don't smoke, chew, drink, or take drugs. I usually keep to myself, and spend 90% of my time outdoors either farming, hunting, shooting, or just taking in life by the second. I want to know from anyone if I have a chance at any decent girl again. Ever since the breakup, it seems girls are starting to turn me down more often, and I'm starting to get discouraged. Tell me what Ya'll think. Cheers! :D
kylem1229
July 13th, 2014, 08:43 PM
Don't worry, you will have plenty of chances in the future. One of the main reasons is since you are dedicated/mennonite and behave more properly and dont smoke, drink etc, you may be looked upon differently. However, don't change anything about yourself. People are being raised differently and culture is changing. You will definitely have chances in the future. High school/College is a different animal than adult hood. Once you get out of school, that time period of life is over, and that main "school culture" will end. Then you will definitely have more chances and opportunities.
You also may want to start looking outside of the school section of girls. If you go to church alot, check around there. That would be a great place. School isnt the best place to get girls, as school is basically a bunch of drama unless you find the right group.
CharlieHorse
July 13th, 2014, 10:04 PM
The only practical situation in which you have no chance at finding a girl is that in which there are no girls present.
So basically no. There's always a chance of finding someone.
indoxyl
July 14th, 2014, 04:41 PM
Considering most girls are super shallow and only look for guys who are super attractive you should have no problem trying to find someone to date.
Meganium
July 14th, 2014, 08:16 PM
Billions of fish, and your attitude and looks are great bait for the good ones. Keep being who you are, don't ever fall, and you'll be fine. You'll meet decent women as time passes, rest assured.
DairyFarmer
July 15th, 2014, 12:09 PM
Thanks guys. But to add to my issue, I only date certain girls. They have to be christians, and virgins, which is VERY hard to find nowadays
indoxyl
July 15th, 2014, 02:12 PM
Thanks guys. But to add to my issue, I only date certain girls. They have to be christians, and virgins, which is VERY hard to find nowadays
you could join christian mingle
DairyFarmer
July 15th, 2014, 05:15 PM
you could join christian mingle
I was a member, but I stopped getting on, then they did a website wipe so I lost everything I had done up to that point
mrpieface2
July 15th, 2014, 05:48 PM
Man, EVERYONE has a chance at finding someone. Some people may not like you, but other people will. Everyone's different. You just have to find the right girl that accepts who you are! :) Hope this helps!
jessie3
July 15th, 2014, 06:18 PM
You just have to be a little patient and eventually you'll find Ms. Right. You could try social gathering or church.
DairyFarmer
July 16th, 2014, 12:08 PM
Yeah, I know what you guys are saying about my church, but I've already tried my church. Every girl is dating someone, or just is not interested in me.
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