Am I supposed to want sex?

[Lottie]

I feel like I'm a bit of a freak.

Basically everyone I know has either had sex already or is desperate too and they are all obsessed with chasing boys.

I like boys and everything and I've kissed a few, but that's it. I don't really like the idea of doing anything else, actually sounds sorta gross to me.

Am I the only one who feels like this?

Do I have to just do stuff and then after I will want more?

[ChrisTJ]

Do or don't do whatever you want. Everyone is different in what they want to do with boys/girls. Don't feel that because your friends all feel a certain way, you must too.

[Lisa R]

Don't let peer pressure push you into doing anything your not comfortable or with or regreting. Possibility later down the road you may feel differently .Untill then you do what you feel comfortable .

[Stumpygoat]

I feel like I'm a bit of a freak.

Basically everyone I know has either had sex already or is desperate too and they are all obsessed with chasing boys.

I like boys and everything and I've kissed a few, but that's it. I don't really like the idea of doing anything else, actually sounds sorta gross to me.

Am I the only one who feels like this?

Do I have to just do stuff and then after I will want more?

Don't do ANYTHING you don't absolutely want to do. If you're not totally enthusiastic about the idea, don't do it.

[evgenia]

Don't do ANYTHING you don't absolutely want to do. If you're not totally enthusiastic about the idea, don't do it.

Couldn't agree more!

[Dannibabi]

Don't let what other people like or do affect you. Don't do anything unless you yourself want to.

[Taryn98]

everyone is different
you shouldn't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do
I'm sure at some point you'll change your mind, but there's no rush

[sallyfunshine]

U r a girl!!! I love haveing lady parts :) cuz it gives us all the power. And when ur ready to do it its ur choice! Always!

[Sarah_Ward]

Hi Lottie... No your NOT a freak! and just because you think that everyone around you is having sex with boys I bet there only just saying it coz they want to feel that they have done something that adults do and it makes them feel good.
I have had sex with my boyfriend a few times now but when we did it the first time i knew that i wanted to do it with him and i never brag about the fact that we have done it.
I guess i felt like you do until i started to want to take it a bit further and we were like going out for 7 and a half months before we had sex.
Do whatever you feel is right and NEVER let peer pressure force you into something you dont want to do... Well, thats my advice anyway, i hope it helps :)

[Gabbykins]

You're not supposed to do anything you don't feel like doing, it is perfectly possible that those desires will come to you later in life; meanwhile, live your life how you want to live it

[PunkVanilla]

Naturally I am a sexual person and CONSTANTLY want my boyfriend, but everyone is different. You're not supposed to be anything or anyone but yourself.

[thatgothgirluknow]

everyone is differnt some people choose not to have sex till their older i feel the same way its normal dont do anything just because others do cause ull regret it

[juanita]

I didn't start to have sexual desire for sex until I was around 16.... your perfectly normal. It would be a mistake to give yourself to someone before your ready.

[ViolinPro]

Definitely not, eveybody is different, and I bet the majority are just attention seekers not really sex beasts yet, that's when you get older ;)

[emily-candace]

Don't do anything that you don't want to do. That's peer pressure, you shouldn't be having sex yet anyway. Im 18 and still virgin because I cant afford to get pregnant. Be happy you aren't having sex, you don't have to worry about getting pregnant, if the boys want sex let them get it somewhere else.

[Laura Crofty]

You'll know when you're ready.

[StacyD]

Just like everyone else has said already, everyone is different and you do what feels right or comfortable to you and who cares what anyone else thinks. :) You're not weird, strange or anything. When the time comes that it feels right and it's something you want, you'll know.

[AnnaThaBabe]

Just do what u wanna do, if u dont wanna then dont :)