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[somanyquestions]

So here is the deal, I have been wandering about my sexuality lately. I get so are ousted thinking about men. But here is the twist, I HATE the company of just about every male except my brother and maybe like two other people max. I find my dad, like other men annoying, and I find it REALLY hard to talk to other males, or I hate them. But girls on the other hand I can flirt it up with, joke around with, and just have a good time with them. When I think about my adult life I imagine a wife at my side . But I find it hard to get aroused by women, I don't get an erection thinking about them nearly as often as when I think about men. When I watch porn I watch straight or solo males, when I watch straight I keep my eyes on the man, and when they have vaginal sex I find nothing hotter than watching the penis slide in an out. But I am turned off my anal(gay). I just don't know where I stand in terms of sexuality, a little words of wisdom would be nice.

Turned on not are ousted *

[Tyler8134]

I feel the same way most of the time, you're probably bi sexual.

[ksdnfkfr]

I just don't know where I stand in terms of sexuality, a little words of wisdom would be nice.

Your like the hundred millionth teen guy who's posted something like that. Most of us are confused as shit about where we stand in terms of sexuality. Don't know how old you are, the the advice most often given is to give it time. You have to wait and see how it plays out once it solidifies.

[bigp0599]

Yeh that's normal but one day it will come to u

[Ricky.h]

So here is the deal, I have been wandering about my sexuality lately. I get so are ousted thinking about men. But here is the twist, I HATE the company of just about every male except my brother and maybe like two other people max. I find my dad, like other men annoying, and I find it REALLY hard to talk to other males, or I hate them. But girls on the other hand I can flirt it up with, joke around with, and just have a good time with them. When I think about my adult life I imagine a wife at my side . But I find it hard to get aroused by women, I don't get an erection thinking about them nearly as often as when I think about men. When I watch porn I watch straight or solo males, when I watch straight I keep my eyes on the man, and when they have vaginal sex I find nothing hotter than watching the penis slide in an out. But I am turned off my anal(gay). I just don't know where I stand in terms of sexuality, a little words of wisdom would be nice.

Turned on not are ousted *


You might be bisexual....but it'll come to you

About the porn thing that's normal because you are a guy so it's normal for you to envision yourself as the guy in the video if that makes sense...that's what all guys do....that's why we jack off to porn because we are simulating the video...and I'm striaght so it's fine

[Luminous]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

No, I don't think he's bisexual, because he's not sexually attracted to women or romantically attracted to men. Sounds to me like heteroromantic homosexual. Heteroromantic means you're a guy romantically attracted to girls. Homosexual means you're a guy sexually attracted to guys. Putting those two together leads to confusion, since you have to make the decision between sex and love, and not having sex with someone you love (romantically) or not loving (romantically) someone you have sex with. Sexualities like this, with conflicting romantic and sexual attractions seem to be way more common in teenagers than adults, so I do believe it could just be your hormones and as you grow older you'll eventually find someone you're attracted to in both ways. Or, you could end up having relationships with people that identify as a gender other than male and female. There's really no way to tell.

[somanyquestions]

Well I appreciate the input lovelyhannah but I don't know if you are suggesting tranny, cause I would never really do that, bisexual is what I maybe. Women still turn me on it's just not as frequent as men do. This phase has been going on for two years now. I would like to know if I could somehow increase my sexual attraction to women. Like when I lose my virginity, I want it to be to a girl. But I am also a late bloomer, so I find it had to Perdue anything with girls relationship wise, my voice is still often mistakes for a girls, and I am 16.5 y.o.

[britishboy69]

This is literally me ... :O

[Luminous]

Well I appreciate the input lovelyhannah but I don't know if you are suggesting tranny, cause I would never really do that, bisexual is what I maybe. Women still turn me on it's just not as frequent as men do. This phase has been going on for two years now. I would like to know if I could somehow increase my sexual attraction to women. Like when I lose my virginity, I want it to be to a girl. But I am also a late bloomer, so I find it had to Perdue anything with girls relationship wise, my voice is still often mistakes for a girls, and I am 16.5 y.o.

I was not suggesting anything at all about your gender, I said nothing about it. By the way, 'tranny' is a highly offensive word, and there are plenty of members here who are trans* or a gender other than male and female, so saying that really isn't appropriate here.

So let me get this straight - you're sexually attracted (even if only on rare occasion) to guys and girls and romantically attracted to girls only? Listen, this is totally normal.

There's no way to increase how often girls turn you on, but it's not bad to not be attracted to every girl you meet! You also will likely find that if you date a girl you're not sexually attracted to in the first place, you could very well become attracted to her in that way over time. That's normal too.

As long as you're not romantically interested in guys (attracted to personality, etc and would want a relationship with them, not just sex), you're not bisexual. Bi is when you're romantically and sexually attracted to guys and girls.

There's nothing wrong with being a late bloomer. Your voice could also naturally just be high. Give it 6 months or a year, and if you still believe that you haven't started or aren't far 'enough' through puberty, see a doctor.

I hope this helped you a bit.

[gallagher_1998]

thats excactly the same way i feel ha

[AceofSpades97]

I think you are confused but don't worry you will get to know soon enough if you are gay or not it will happen when you get older. For me I can't much help other then saying that you will find out what your sexuality is soon.

[Passenger]

So I get so are ousted thinking about men.

But girls on the other hand I can flirt it up with, joke around with, and just have a good time with them.

I imagine a wife at my side .

But I find it hard to get aroused by women,

I find nothing hotter than watching the penis slide in an out.

But I am turned off my anal(gay).

You seem to experience some sting feeling towards men but say you're turned of by the sex with them and don't like their company. It's okay to want a relation with out sexual intercourse, you can just do all the forepaw stuff if you want and you never know, if you get a bf, you might love his company.

You say women don't really turn you on either and that's fine but you imagine a wife and like flirting with girls so it sound to me you mot be bi with preference towards men,p - but that's up to you to decide