freaking out

[awsome]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.

[Upse]

Hey it's normal for real and first ok thanks called you have a boner and it's your penis it's normal when starting puberty for this to happen it happend to me

[CrazyPerson101]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.


There isn't anything to worry about. You're starting puberty, something all guys have to go through. Its gonna be a good experience, Its got its ups and downs but you'll like the road ahead of you. Just wait and you'll see many things will change for you.

[bigp0599]

It's just a boner but if u yank up and down on it then that's called masturbation and that is great and the girl thung is all normal

[herokidd]

its called a boner dude!! have fun with it :)

[Second Chance]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.

You're just in puberty which means that hormones are entering your body making your sexual feelings come alive, and your body is maturing meaning that your penis is developing the ability to have sex. Most guys around 13 start changing like you are, and there's nothing to worry about. If you're really concerned, then talk to your parents, preferably your Father, or you can talk to a trusted older male relative or responsible adult. Just make sure you're getting your knowledge from someone responsible because there is a lot of information out there that may not be the best.

[Crispybacon]

You're just in puberty which means that hormones are entering your body making your sexual feelings come alive, and your body is maturing meaning that your penis is developing the ability to have sex. Most guys around 13 start changing like you are, and there's nothing to worry about. If you're really concerned, then talk to your parents, preferably your Father, or you can talk to a trusted older male relative or responsible adult. Just make sure you're getting your knowledge from someone responsible because there is a lot of information out there that may not be the best.

Listen to second chance. Every post I've seen him make is very helpful and full of information ;)

[deregisterme]

Welcome to the joys of puberty

[loki2000]

your fine ! normal to get boners now... now you can start masterbating ..that will make the boner go away

[riverboy]

It's all been said here but check out the other posts at VT and you will learn a lot. Plus asks questions too. But don't worry to much and have fun.

[KoolKid96]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.

Nice you're a grown man now be happy ! And it's normal for that thing u're getting to happen it's when u are sexually aroused (;

[Connormann]

It's an erection, that is totally normal. It's a sign that you're growing up. Be happy!! You can google it if you want!

[awsome]

tks guys it helped me a lot. I just have a few questions:
I know this sound stupid but what is a boner? how to deal with it? some guy told me to 'masturbate'. what is it? is it harmful or a sin?

[Second Chance]

tks guys it helped me a lot. I just have a few questions:
I know this sound stupid but what is a boner? how to deal with it? some guy told me to 'masturbate'. what is it? is it harmful or a sin?

There's no such thing as a stupid question; you're only stupid for not asking.

A boner is a reference to a penis in an erect position. In other words, when your dick gets hard, then that is called a boner. The reason why "boner" is used is because your dick becomes as hard as a bone such as what you see in your leg or arm.

Whether or not masturbating is a sin is something you'll need to take up with your spiritual adviser be it your priest, rabbi, or other clergy member. Of course, asking your parents, especially your Father, is the best way to go when it comes to morality because everything depends on how you are raised. What I believe is that masturbating is not wrong because it is a natural part of a person expressing their sexuality. Humans are sexual beings, and they will have sexual feelings. Masturbating is a good way to get rid of boners because once you masturbate you relieve your sexual feelings. Your sexual feelings will never totally go away, but masturbating keeps them under control. The time when masturbating is a problem is if you are spending all of your free time doing it, masturbating interferes with your usual routines, you are masturbating to things that are wrong like child porn, or if you masturbate in inappropriate places like at school or in public. It is a complicated question whether or not masturbating is moral, but what I will say is masturbating keeps a guy's sexuality under control which is a lot better than going through the day with strong sexual urges causing you to do something not good.

You'll be going through a lot of changes, both mental and physical, over the next couple of years which is why you should stay tight with your parents or some responsible older person to talk things out. There's going to be a lot of things that are going to be confusing, and it is best to be honest by saying you don't understand than to pretend you understand or go with a bad crowd of folks who give you bad advice. Puberty can be scary, but if you have a Father or responsible older male in your life, then puberty can be bearable because such a person can give you good advice. You can even get good advice from your Mother or responsible older female, too. Just make sure your information is good and that you are getting it from trustworthy sources.

[hockeyfan]

The medical term is erection and it is normal. Ur penis must b erect for sexual activity. Other slang but common terms include boner, stuffy, hard, ect.

This is nothing to b concerned about.

[awsome]

i'm wondering
what is a 'boner' or 'erection'? what is happening in my body when i have it? why do i have it? what is masturbation? how to do it? how often should i do it?

[Second Chance]

i'm wondering
what is a 'boner' or 'erection'? what is happening in my body when i have it? why do i have it? what is masturbation? how to do it? how often should i do it?

A boner is when your penis gets hard. The reason why you have a boner is when something you look at gets your attention and you find that thing attractive, then blood flows to your penis making it hard. As mentioned above, when your body is ready to masturbate or have sex, then your penis needs to get hard in order for it to perform something sexual.

Masturbation is basically playing with one's dick (or vagina if one is a girl) for sexual pleasure. Masturbation is totally optional, and there is not set amount of times you should do it. For a lot of folks they do not masturbate at all until their body is mature enough to do so. Whether or not you masturbate is a personal choice and depends on what your family's morality is. Usually, most guys in puberty masturbate a couple times a week.

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[Hermes]

What you describe is the awakening of the sex drive which happens at puberty due to your balls starting to produce testosterone. Essentially when you see a girl, particularly if her body shape and/or pheremones suggest she may be fertile, your instinct is to have sex with her and your body automatically prepares for that by making your penis stiff (i.e. a boner, aka an erection) ready for it to go into her.

Having sex at 13 is generally not seen as a good idea but surpressing your sex drive, i.e. just trying to ignore it, is notoriously hard. It is much easier to direct it into something harmless and masturbation is just such an outlet. Essentially it is using your hand to give your penis sensations that are close enough to having sex to provoke the same reaction, i.e. an orgasm and, if you are developed enough to, ejaculation. Afterwards you tend to find you think or girls and sex less or a while and don't get erect quite so easily.

Due to privacy and other things you need to do you won't be able to masturbate every single time you get a boner but doing it regularly will definitely help.

Inappropriate website link removed. ~Tiago

[deregisterme]

i'm wondering
what is a 'boner' or 'erection'? what is happening in my body when i have it? why do i have it? what is masturbation? how to do it? how often should i do it?

a boner or erection is when Ur penis grows big and hard. It happens usually when you get sexual thoughts, and sometimes outwith your control. Masturbation (without too much detail here) is stimulation of ur penis for pleasure. Answering how here is not allowed unfortunately (check with google). Once U start, how frequently U do it, is mainly up to U

[xTropicDomx]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.

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A boner, my friend..



You have so much to learn.

[Semi_IronMan]

okay. First relax

its normal u're strtin a phase in life calld puberty, evrythn's fine no need 2 worry very persn must go thru it..

U could also try tawkn 2 yor dad or older male family members(probably ones u r close 2)


oh, nd tht thn happn 2 yor penis, yea thts calld a boner; bettr get use 2 it thers a lot of thm commn

[football matt]

don't worry man ur normal.

[Ciel09x]

Dont worry too much, if you need anything, the forum is here. Many will help.

[fast8]

You can do it as much as you want any time u get a boner it's all normal

[Blank999]

You had your first erection aka boner is normal

[Jaseblader]

lol welcome to puberty my friend hold on, strap in and enjoy the ride

[Gray]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.
It's called a boner and it's perfectly normal to have it and it'll happen constantly in your life now. Be it u being sexually aroused by men or women there's not much u can do about it if u want it to stop getting bigger or harder try distracting yourself on other things.

[samii]

its natural everbody does

[boytoynamedtroy]

hi guys i'm 13 and i have a problem.
i recently think about girls more than i used to, and when i do, i have this weird thing down my penis. it become stiff, longer, bigger and red. what happened? what should i do then? i'm freaking out pls help me.

It's odd, since I learned about sex way younger than 13. Anyway, what you're experiencing is called an erection, or a stiffy. Most guys solve that problem by masturbating. To learn the procedure, look it up online.

[Zachary G]

welcome to the world of puberty, you have just achieved your first hormonal induced erection. its perfectly normal and is going to happen more often from this point on. congratulations

[DavidNorton]

You have just started puberty. It is normal