Hi There!

[Flummeny]

Hi, I'm Ryan. I am 13 year old boy, From my perspective, I am bisexual, bi, whatever, and I'm just needing some... emotional help, as well as some physical tips.

I'll list my physical weaknesses.

1) I believe I am the smallest kid in my grade (going into 8th grade) at 82 pounds, standing 5'2. Weight gaining would be nice. Rather not have a feather outweigh you, hmm?

2) Aside from my head, I am completely hairless. No armpit, arm, leg, anywhere, except for my blond hair on my head. Any way to develop some, I get teased a lot for being a "shaving girl"...

3) I'm too white... I nee some sort of inexpensive way to get some sort of a tan, I'm waaayyy too pale..

I know I know those may sound like simple fixes, but they matter a lot to me, and its just not worth it, all the humiliation.. any help is appreciated.


Girls: Is being smooth good or bad? Should I even consider trying to get arm hair & everything? Do girls at 13 like boys smoother or hairy?

[Abyssal Echo]

Hi Ryan, Welcome to VT!

[johny1996]

Hey Ryan, Welcome to VT...!! See you around. :)

[Gamma Male]

Heeeyy!! Welcome!

There's really not much you can do other than eat healthily, exercise often, and just wait things out. Personally, I like short hairless guys, but I don't know how most girls feel.

[deregisterme]

Hi Ryan, welcome to VT.
I ended up at the other end of the scale (puberty early), and was very hairy, very young, and I hated it! Being bi, I like smooth boys! In terms of girls if you ever did a poll for example on preference to a smooth or hairy chest, you will get a mix of responses. In terms of what will happen to you when you're older, it runs in the family. My grandfather (mum's side) was very hairy overall (so I'm told), so I am now.

[Flummeny]

Hey all, sorry for the late response, haha. Thanks for the support, feels good after all the classic middle school teasing, you all should know how that goes .-.

If anyone wants to chat, we'll work something out, not exactly the most technologically advanced guy out there. Skype, Yahoo, whatever, I'm always willing to chat and actually need to, I've been diagnosed as bipolar, mainly suffering depression. Talking usually helps me, so anyone willing to talk would be awesome!

[Typho]

Welcome to VT ! :)

[AllTimeLoser]

hi :)

[Ethan]

Hi Ryan. Welcome! :-)

[Harryboh]

welcome to VT

[riverboy]

Hi Ryan and welcome to VT. You will find out most people here are ready to chat.

[Wyatt 13]

Welcome 2 VT Do you like any sports? thats the answer man. I was like you...well still in some way like you but soccer was the solution man.