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Antagonist
July 9th, 2014, 07:30 PM
I think that I'm gender fluid... Meaning that I have a connection to both male and female genders. I feel like if I was a girl, I would be just as happy as I am now as a guy. I like the way that women's clothes look (I think that I'd look fuckin' great in a sun dress tbh), and I just feel like I'm half male and half female. Does this make me gender fluid? ._.

Cognizant
July 9th, 2014, 07:46 PM
I think that is a pretty spot-on description of gender fluidity.

Karkat
July 9th, 2014, 07:57 PM
Well, there are quite a few gender identities that involve feeling you are both male and female, but genderfluid seems pretty accurate given the description.

Antagonist
July 9th, 2014, 08:25 PM
Thanks guys... Although I'm kind of lost on the entire thing... I don't know what to do lol.

mrpieface2
July 9th, 2014, 10:25 PM
Yeah, looking at what you posted, thats a good description of being genderfluid. I can understand you being lost on all this. When you discover something about yourself it could be a little shocking ya know?

Karkat
July 9th, 2014, 10:29 PM
Thanks guys... Although I'm kind of lost on the entire thing... I don't know what to do lol.

Do whatever feels comfortable. :) When I really figured out that I was bigender, I didn't really do much about it. I still don't, as I'm mostly happy with my body, etc. but I occasionally crossdress.

Lovelife090994
July 9th, 2014, 11:30 PM
Do whatever feels comfortable. :) When I really figured out that I was bigender, I didn't really do much about it. I still don't, as I'm mostly happy with my body, etc. but I occasionally crossdress.

I am in the same boat... I'm lost and so, so, so unsure.

Babs
July 10th, 2014, 12:07 AM
That sounds like what I think gender fluid means. Another term for that is bigender and I think there are a few others. I'm not sure though.
Take your time figuring this out, I can't imagine this being easy.

Karkat
July 10th, 2014, 12:11 AM
That sounds like what I think gender fluid means. Another term for that is bigender and I think there are a few others. I'm not sure though.
Take your time figuring this out, I can't imagine this being easy.

Well bigender is a bit different, as are most of the other ones- most of the time, the differences are, well, what make the difference.

With bigender, you usually feel either male, female, somewhere between the two at any given time, but it can switch. It's static, but it can switch, I guess is what I'm getting at.

Genderfluid is more fluid, and not so rigid.

I'm not trying to be contrary, I just thought I'd point that out- when I was trying to figure out "what I was", this was immensely important.

Babs
July 10th, 2014, 12:14 AM
Well bigender is a bit different, as are most of the other ones- most of the time, the differences are, well, what make the difference.

With bigender, you usually feel either male, female, somewhere between the two at any given time, but it can switch. It's static, but it can switch, I guess is what I'm getting at.

Genderfluid is more fluid, and not so rigid.

I'm not trying to be contrary, I just thought I'd point that out- when I was trying to figure out "what I was", this was immensely important.

Ahh, i see.