Is it my gut feeling telling me she likes me?

[User-Unknown]

There is this girl I like who I think likes someone else. (Why does there have to be another guy in every relationship I try to enter which I feel likes the girl I like? -rhetorical question, ignore it)

Anyway, when I tell myself she likes someone else (be it the guy I think she likes, or someone else entirely) I feel uneasy/uncomfortable in my stomach and feelings. I get a pain around my stomach region (almost like my stomach it tight) and for some reason it feel odd for me saying she likes someone else. But when I tell my self she likes me, I feel like I have butterflies in my stomach and feel more comfortable.

So, is this my gut feeling telling me she likes me back?

Anyone able to help...

[SillyShyGuy]

Stay positive. Do not change who you are. If she likes someone else then it is her lose because you deserve better since you are a nice guy. Be patient and see if you can build her relationship with her.

[User-Unknown]

Stay positive. Do not change who you are. If she likes someone else then it is her lose because you deserve better since you are a nice guy. Be patient and see if you can build her relationship with her.

Im not changing who I am. I know that when trying to enter a relationship, you need to be yourself. If I wasn't a lonely only child :(, I wouldn't care if a girl rejected me, ill just go she's missing on being with a nice guy, and forget about it.

My question was what is my weird stomach feeling mean? Not Why does there have to be another guy I feel the girl I like likes in all relationships I try to start.

This is what I would like help in
when I tell myself she likes someone else (be it the guy I think she likes, or someone else entirely) I feel uneasy/uncomfortable in my stomach and feelings. I get a pain around my stomach region (almost like my stomach it tight) and for some reason it feel odd for me saying she likes someone else. But when I tell my self she likes me, I feel like I have butterflies in my stomach and feel more comfortable.

So, is this my gut feeling telling me she likes me back?

[Ryuun]

The only way you will find out is if you ask her.
Btw do you hang out with her or talk to her at all? and if so how does the conversation feel like its only one sided? or if she is interested in having a convo with you

[User-Unknown]

The only way you will find out is if you ask her.
Btw do you hang out with her or talk to her at all? and if so how does the conversation feel like its only one sided? or if she is interested in having a convo with you

She's not had a full on conversation to me. I do talk to her and she seems happy to talk to me but she is shy. I over heard her tell her friend she is shy which then made me aware of it.

[Ryuun]

She's not had a full on conversation to me. I do talk to her and she seems happy to talk to me but she is shy. I over heard her tell her friend she is shy which then made me aware of it.

if shes shy you should probably just make her feel comfortable and she will most likely play with her hair or grab her own arm or something like that and if she is confident enough she might start a conversation with you (if she hasnt already)

[User-Unknown]

if shes shy you should probably just make her feel comfortable and she will most likely play with her hair or grab her own arm or something like that and if she is confident enough she might start a conversation with you (if she hasnt already)

Even though she is shy, I feel she has shown signs of interest to me. I put them on a previous thread, but will paste them here.

She hovers around me a lot. Recently, I've noticed her do it a little bit more than usual.

I have noticed her chest/shoulders seem to face me. (Saw this on a few other sites about signs a girl might have interest in you)

When playing a group game with her, I was laughing at what someone was doing. I then looked at this girl and still had a smile on my face (she didn't see what I was laughing at). When I looked at her, I noticed her look down and smile (I saw her smile).

She stands close to me, sometimes really close that she is brushing across me.

She sometimes brushes her hand onto mine (most likely on accident)

When I met up in a group (2 other guys, one in which I think this girl likes). When I saw them and was walking up to them, this girl seemed extremely excited and cheerful when seeing me.

One time, see looked at my shirt reading what it said and asked me what it said. (Don't exactly know what this means, but know it could mean something in her interest to me).

On valentines day, I told her that I had a gift for her. She seemed both surprised and shocked at what I said and kept on saying I don't have to give it to her.

She seems to like a lot of the same things I like, even things I don't expect her to like.

I over heard her say that she is really shy (She hardly speaks to me, only a few times she speaks to me, not much though).

She drops the guy who I think she likes (who I said we met up with in a group when she seemed excited when I saw her) home every weekend. This guy always annoys this girl and I can see her get annoyed and angry at the way he treats her. On Facebook, this guy mentioned this girl in a comment to a photo which said "when your crush texts you first", and added "the" and the first letter of my name (looked like… the s). I'm wondering why he did this and what it could mean.

Recently, cause I'm shy, I'm trying to break through the shyness. She was standing infront of me and I wanted to get her attention to tell her something. Instead of placing my hand/tapping her shoulder to get her attention which I would have done if I was just her friend, I placed my hand on her lower back/waist to show that I have feelings for her. She turned her head to see who did it, looked at me and looked down smiling. I'm not sure how she felt by me doing this, or if I'm safe to do it again without her freaking out or thinking I'm a creep. But I just thought I should do it and see what she would do. Just to test if she might be interested in me.

[Ryuun]

Dude i think she likes you ask her how she feels about you and you have to take the chance and ask her out

[User-Unknown]

Dude i think she likes you ask her how she feels about you and you have to take the chance and ask her out

I would have but many people I have asked (friends who I trust who are friends with her) told me to wait until she has finished her final high school exams. Her parents are strict and seem to be accepting me and have a positive view on me and I don't want to lose that.

I touched her lower back/waist and she smiled looking down. Do you think I should do this again? Do you think it will greek her out and she will think of me as a creep?

Do you think I should still wait to tell her how I feel or wait until her final exams are complete?

[Ryuun]

I would have but many people I have asked (friends who I trust who are friends with her) told me to wait until she has finished her final high school exams. Her parents are strict and seem to be accepting me and have a positive view on me and I don't want to lose that.

I touched her lower back/waist and she smiled looking down. Do you think I should do this again? Do you think it will greek her out and she will think of me as a creep?

Do you think I should still wait to tell her how I feel or wait until her final exams are complete?

if she smiled and wasnt freaked out by it i think your in the clear and your allowed to do it again. I remember this girl stopped talking to my mate during exams and she said it was because of exams but even after she didnt talk to him again i think she just used that as an excuse and they got pretty close but its up to you he didnt ask her out btw

[User-Unknown]

if she smiled and wasnt freaked out by it i think your in the clear and your allowed to do it again. I remember this girl stopped talking to my mate during exams and she said it was because of exams but even after she didnt talk to him again i think she just used that as an excuse and they got pretty close but its up to you he didnt ask her out btw

I don't want her parents to lose their already positive view on me after asking her out now and risk her doing badly in her exams.

I was thinking of texting her and wishing her luck in her exams before hand, so she knows i still care for her and want her to do well and possibly add that she might meet up after her exams.

[Ryuun]

I don't want her parents to lose their already positive view on me after asking her out now and risk her doing badly in her exams.

i probably would ask her anyway but thats me maybe just ask her how she feels about you and that might put your mind at ease until exams are over

[User-Unknown]

i probably would ask her anyway but thats me maybe just ask her how she feels about you and that might put your mind at ease until exams are over

my mind is at ease when I'm around her, she looks at me, stands close to me and her shoulders/chest face me all the time.

Her shoulders/chest face me a lot more than anything and it is really weird and i wonder what it means. If its a sign, I'm fine waiting until her exams are finished also she goes to a whole girls school so there is a greater chance she won't have any boyfriend after her exams.

[Ryuun]

my mind is at ease when I'm around her, she looks at me, stands close to me and her shoulders/chest face me all the time.

Her shoulders/chest face me a lot more than anything and it is really weird and i wonder what it means. If its a sign, I'm fine waiting until her exams are finished also she goes to a whole girls school so there is a greater chance she won't have any boyfriend after her exams.

well i think you have got a pretty good chance with her dude sounds like shes into you and i am sure she will go out with you

[User-Unknown]

well i think you have got a pretty good chance with her dude sounds like shes into you and i am sure she will go out with you

also the guy I think she likes is always dropped home by the girl i like. One time when i was in the car also, this guy placed his head on her lap. She seemed a little uncomfortable telling him to move but also seemed to not care. He takes her phone all the time when she is driving (though he does it to all his friends) and takes photos on it spamming her photos. He also takes snapchat photos on her phone sending it to her friends and himself. He also spams her snapchat and she saves a few photos of his. This makes me think that she likes him, although when he takes her phone, she seems uncomfortable and telling him what he is doing. He has also annoyed her a lot sometimes she seems upset by it but now he has stopped it. The sister of the girl I like told this guy that she doesn't like this guy I think she likes.

This is all making me confused as to who she possibly likes. What do you think.

[Ryuun]

also the guy I think she likes is always dropped home by the girl i like. One time when i was in the car also, this guy placed his head on her lap. She seemed a little uncomfortable telling him to move but also seemed to not care. He takes her phone all the time when she is driving (though he does it to all his friends) and takes photos on it spamming her photos. He also takes snapchat photos on her phone sending it to her friends and himself. He also spams her snapchat and she saves a few photos of his. This makes me think that she likes him, although when he takes her phone, she seems uncomfortable and telling him what he is doing. He has also annoyed her a lot sometimes she seems upset by it but now he has stopped it. The sister of the girl I like told this guy that she doesn't like this guy I think she likes.

This is all making me confused as to who she possibly likes. What do you think.

it sounds like you have a better chance and that he could be just a friend it or she might be confused on who she might like and it could be stressful for her so maybe coming forward and telling her might be a good idea you know to do it before he does

[User-Unknown]

it sounds like you have a better chance and that he could be just a friend it or she might be confused on who she might like and it could be stressful for her so maybe coming forward and telling her might be a good idea you know to do it before he does

He knows I like her. He told me at first to just tell her I like her, but I wasn't ready but when I was, he told me to wait until after she finishes her exams. If he knew I like her and he told me to wait until after her exams and he liked her, by now something would have happened and they will be showing more obvious signs of liking each other (which is not happening). Also a sister of the girl I like told this guy that the girl I like doesn't like him.

I have also spoken about the previous girl I liked to her not asking for hints from her but just talking to her about the previous girl I liked. Do you think it wrong for me to do this and she might move away from me if I do this? The last time I spoke to her about the other girl I liked her chest/shoulders were still facing me and she stood close to me. But she seemed to either ignore me or couldn't hear me when I was calling her name, I was in a restaurant in a group of people, it could have been noisy and she couldn't hear me. But do you think it is wrong for me to bring up another girl I liked to her?

[diddykong53]

Im not changing who I am. I know that when trying to enter a relationship, you need to be yourself. If I wasn't a lonely only child :(, I wouldn't care if a girl rejected me, ill just go she's missing on being with a nice guy, and forget about it.

My question was what is my weird stomach feeling mean? Not Why does there have to be another guy I feel the girl I like likes in all relationships I try to start.

This is what I would like help in

Dude I know how you feel with being an only child. It sucks. You're always alone, and I think it makes it harder to talk to your friends in real life. But as far as your stomach. Maybe its guilt? When I feel guilty my stomach and chest get sore. Maybe you feel guilty for liking a girl who likes someone else?. Hope this helps. :)

[User-Unknown]

Dude I know how you feel with being an only child. It sucks. You're always alone, and I think it makes it harder to talk to your friends in real life. But as far as your stomach. Maybe its guilt? When I feel guilty my stomach and chest get sore. Maybe you feel guilty for liking a girl who likes someone else?. Hope this helps. :)

Its indeed not guilt. I have felt guilt before in trying to enter a relationship. Waited too long, found out a guy who really annoyed me entered the relationship with the girl I liked. Later found out she broke up with that guy to go for me. Felt guilty that I broke their relationship and her heart when I ended up telling her friend I liked her.

Its indeed not guilt at all. Guilt to me is a few steps under the feeling of depression. Like why did I do this or didn't do this. With my hands on my head.

[xzachx]

There is this girl I like who I think likes someone else. (Why does there have to be another guy in every relationship I try to enter which I feel likes the girl I like? -rhetorical question, ignore it)

Anyway, when I tell myself she likes someone else (be it the guy I think she likes, or someone else entirely) I feel uneasy/uncomfortable in my stomach and feelings. I get a pain around my stomach region (almost like my stomach it tight) and for some reason it feel odd for me saying she likes someone else. But when I tell my self she likes me, I feel like I have butterflies in my stomach and feel more comfortable.

So, is this my gut feeling telling me she likes me back?

Anyone able to help...


I actually didnt read any of the other posts.. so sorry if mine is irrelevant.

In my opinion, no. its the feeling of satisfaction from a fantasy that holds the thought of you two being together.

As its been said a million times before, the only way to find out is if you confront her.