so uhm i was naked...

[Remora]

...after we had been swimming with my school (last PE lesson is always swimming) all the "private" changing rooms were occupied so i -had- to go to the public one. this was not really a problem because at first it was just me and my crush (i am only realising right now how much of a missed chance that was) but then two other people from our clique walked in and some other, much younger guy. i still didnt really care though, normally i'm really uncomfortable with getting naked and shit but i -had- to change into a dry pair of underwear, so i -had- to get the wet ones off and beeing the retarded piece of shit i am i forgot that i could just have covered it with a towel.

Oh well, got the wet underwear off ASAP and right as i toiled to get the dry one on (dry fabric + wet skin = friction) another guy from my class, a small, annoying guy, walked in and decided to be a dick saying "teveel informatie" (dutch for TMI) and just walking trough the changing room to leave on the other side.

This was awkward as hell.
I mean- of course it was. I was naked, i was a 14-year old kid with a 2 inch long flaccid penis and i'm not sure wether to be glad or sad it wasn't erect at the time (that is when it grows to 7.2 inch), and my crush alongside two people that know my VT profile (and so, my darkest secrets) plus a complete stranger beeing the only ones in the room all assured that this experience be as awkward as possible.

Oh well. After half a minute -although it semt like an hour- i managed to get the damn boxer shorts on and the jeans and shirt went on swiftly after that. I waited for my crush because he took so damn long and he did use his towel to cover up (another missed opportunity). We went outside, laughed at the fact i hadn't gotten the third swimming certificate yet and the fact that some clown guy had nearly drowned him while he got his. After the other two guys came out i just jumped onto my bike and gtfo'd (the three of them live on the other side of the school... >.<)

Okay. The point of this thread. i know it's really detailed but not so much in sexual stuff, okay, not at all, so it should be fine.

Should i be happy that i finally got over my intense fear of having exposed skin? My limbs (arms, that is) and face are exeptions, of course.
Should i have acted differently than i had? I feel like i acted wrongly and my classmates think i'm a creep now ;0

[itsthat0n3kid]

doesnt sound like much of a problem, its good that you got over your fear! If youre comfortable being naked around people dont even worry about it. If you feel like you shouldnt have, just cover up with a towel next time! I doubt your classmates feel any different about you. they were probably just playing around.

[Remora]

doesnt sound like much of a problem, its good that you got over your fear! If youre comfortable being naked around people dont even worry about it. If you feel like you shouldnt have, just cover up with a towel next time! I doubt your classmates feel any different about you. they were probably just playing around.

How do you mean, they were playing around?
I know the one that walked trough and mentioned TMI is a genuine bag of dicks, i mean, he thinks the universe revolts around him and stuff...

[CcRoder]

How do you mean, they were playing around?
I know the one that walked trough and mentioned TMI is a genuine bag of dicks, i mean, he thinks the universe revolts around him and stuff...

Oh don't you worry about him! He's not going to be thinking about this after it happened (unless he likes what he saw haha).

You will be fine. It's good to get over a fear like that and awkward things are bound to happen in these situations. We're all still growing up with a whole life ahead of us, and this little incident will fade away into your past as quick as the future will come.

[Coolguy2067]

It's whatever. All guys have penises and that clown was just being immature

[Remora]

Oh don't you worry about him! He's not going to be thinking about this after it happened (unless he likes what he saw haha).

You will be fine. It's good to get over a fear like that and awkward things are bound to happen in these situations. We're all still growing up with a whole life ahead of us, and this little incident will fade away into your past as quick as the future will come.

I hadn't even experienced it as an incident yet, hehe, i just thought that there was a different, better way i should have acted in. :c

[Dennis98]

If that annoying , little guy say that really , why didnt you beat him up ?! I mean , I would never act like you ...

[pjones]

my guess is you really weren't prepared for what happened and were a bit embarrassed. don't worry, everyone goes through that. i bet your friends hardly noticed. as for the TMI guy, just ignore him. notice he didn't change in the open? you may be braver than he is about it.

[AlisterPSG]

next time swimming and you need to change just act like its normal not to have a towel over your self and if the TMI or whoever comments about its (stupidly) ask why there been so immature. Im sure after a bit if you keep not using a towel no one would bother (I know how you feel)

:)

[Jim1]

It was not so long ago that there were no private changing facilities and all the guys changed in
one big room. So this shyness about being nude among ones peers is a fairly recent phenomenon.
The TMI guy is just being immature - if he repeats it you can ask him why he is looking. Heck,
it was not so long ago that swimming was nude at the YMCA and boys clubs and maybe schools
too.

[ksdnfkfr]

You should be happy you got over your fear of being exposed.
The little guy's comment was harmless. From what you said he probably makes little comments about anything and everything. Plus maybe he liked what he saw and just said that as a reaction. I like the philosophy "when in Rome do as the Romans do", so if others wear a towel while changing then do that. being exposed in a locker room but acting normal is not the least bit creepy, especially for it being your first time.

[CrazyPerson101]

Well congrats on getting over being shy :) , The TMI dude is immature and you should just ignore him ( or do what Jim1 said ) either way works :)

[fast8]

Glad u feel more comfortable with ur body for the othe younger kid well he will grow up sometime to seems like no one else care so you act fine

[CcRoder]

I hadn't even experienced it as an incident yet, hehe, i just thought that there was a different, better way i should have acted in. :c

I think you acted normally, no different to how I would in the same situation.

[hockeyfan]

I don't understand ur problem.

[pconnor2001]

We all change naked out in the open in our school. It would look strange to change under a towel in our class. But maybe other gymn classes are different.

[Remora]

If that annoying , little guy say that really , why didnt you beat him up ?! I mean , I would never act like you ...

Yeah, one problem, this is the real world. Actions have consequences (cant spell worth shit).

I don't understand ur problem.

My problem is that i think i acted wrongly. :)

[ksdnfkfr]

My problem is that i think i acted wrongly. :)

Yeah but it was your first time. its just a 'next time you'll know better' thing. lots of people mess up their first time. lots of people learn from mistakes. no big deal.

[Remora]

Yeah but it was your first time. its just a 'next time you'll know better' thing. lots of people mess up their first time. lots of people learn from mistakes. no big deal.

Thing is, i don't know what i could do better, what was the whole point of this thread .-.

[Dennis98]

Floof - One thing you must know ... Never but never , give someone chance to offend you , because you didnt reacted right . That is first time , that guy will do things like that few times because he knows that you dont react . So , I would beat him up until he start to pray to stop , and than I would beat him more and more . You must build your own authority in school because of jerks like that , so they could know that no one can offend you , and go unpunished ... I am writing this , because I had some jerks like your in school , so I beat up them once , and from that day , they are scared to look me in eyes , even if it passed about 4 years since that event ...

[Remora]

Floof - One thing you must know ... Never but never , give someone chance to offend you , because you didnt reacted right . That is first time , that guy will do things like that few times because he knows that you dont react . So , I would beat him up until he start to pray to stop , and than I would beat him more and more . You must build your own authority in school because of jerks like that , so they could know that no one can offend you , and go unpunished ... I am writing this , because I had some jerks like your in school , so I beat up them once , and from that day , they are scared to look me in eyes , even if it passed about 4 years since that event ...

But beating people up has consequences! I'll get problems and stuff and i don't want to be hated by the school :c i could of course just grab him by his shoulder and be all like "aint nobody got time for dat" but that wouldn't be so effective...

[Dennis98]

That consequences are better than k coward label ... Anyway , you can beat him after school , when you are going home , out of school yard and school teritory , or to hire some guys to beat him up ... If your parents are important figures , than you can do it in school ... My father is very very important meber of governmental party in my country and their important financier ... So , I can do everything I want , without fearing of any consequences , but that is only in my case , and no one even tried to offend me , because , it is not good combination when strong guy with 192cm and 105kg attack someone , so basicly many of them know that school staff would be on my side because of my father ... Anyway , grabing for shoulder is not nothing special ... :D

[Remora]

That consequences are better than k coward label ... Anyway , you can beat him after school , when you are going home , out of school yard and school teritory , or to hire some guys to beat him up ... If your parents are important figures , than you can do it in school ... My father is very very important meber of governmental party in my country and their important financier ... So , I can do everything I want , without fearing of any consequences , but that is only in my case , and no one even tried to offend me , because , it is not good combination when strong guy with 192cm and 105kg attack someone , so basicly many of them know that school staff would be on my side because of my father ... Anyway , grabing for shoulder is not nothing special ... :D


W-what!? Hiring someone to beat someone else up? Why do i need to beat everyone up? Why do they need to be beaten up? How do i have a coward label for not replying to a single word which you cant even call a word? It makes no sense!

[Dennis98]

Well , that is your opinion about coward status ... Hiring someone to beat him up , if you dont have status like mine , is good because of not "dirting" your hands ... Like my people says , "Eye for eye , tooth for tooth" or "Everything is going to come back one day , everything is going to be payed one day" , so , forgiving is not in my nature , everything bad that someone did to me will pay 100 times more ... Forgiving people is maybe in your nature ...

[bigp0599]

It will be fine I never did it but always wanted to

[Remora]

Well , that is your opinion about coward status ... Hiring someone to beat him up , if you dont have status like mine , is good because of not "dirting" your hands ... Like my people says , "Eye for eye , tooth for tooth" or "Everything is going to come back one day , everything is going to be payed one day" , so , forgiving is not in my nature , everything bad that someone did to me will pay 100 times more ... Forgiving people is maybe in your nature ...

But he hadn't done anything? I mean, he wasn't trying to insult me or anything? he just sucks at making joked and he's annoying because hes small :c and besides, even though there is no such thing as status in the Netherlands, his family is richer than mine. :V

The original point of this thread was me having been naked in front of my crush and 2 guys that know everything about me.

[Pulp501]

Why is it weird to be naked in a locker room?

[christo17]

Why is it weird to be naked in a locker room?

I got the same question...

[Remora]

Why is it weird to be naked in a locker room?

I got the same question...

Because it's awkward! i really dislike being seen naked and can't stand it and this is the Netherlands ;_;

[Bmble_B]

Yeah doesn't sound like you're a creep ;O
I'd say that you should be happy that you're comfortable being exposed, erm, in that special suit you wear. But as someone else said, why not put on a towel and while wearing it slip on your underwear under the towel?

[Remora]

Yeah doesn't sound like you're a creep ;O
I'd say that you should be happy that you're comfortable being exposed, erm, in that special suit you wear. But as someone else said, why not put on a towel and while wearing it slip on your underwear under the towel?

yeah, okay....

[Bmble_B]

yeah, okay....
Haha, what's wrong? Is it something I said? :(

[Remora]

Haha, what's wrong? Is it something I said? :(

no! its fine, you helped out! its just that im a bit confused now because some people are saying it was good that i got over my fear and wouldn't be a "coward" anymore (i prefer calling it careful) while others keep on telling me to be all sneaky and stealthy and idk.. D:

[Reg_]

Too many missed opertunities and yes you should

[xTropicDomx]

...after we had been swimming with my school (last PE lesson is always swimming) all the "private" changing rooms were occupied so i -had- to go to the public one. this was not really a problem because at first it was just me and my crush (i am only realising right now how much of a missed chance that was) but then two other people from our clique walked in and some other, much younger guy. i still didnt really care though, normally i'm really uncomfortable with getting naked and shit but i -had- to change into a dry pair of underwear, so i -had- to get the wet ones off and beeing the retarded piece of shit i am i forgot that i could just have covered it with a towel.

Oh well, got the wet underwear off ASAP and right as i toiled to get the dry one on (dry fabric + wet skin = friction) another guy from my class, a small, annoying guy, walked in and decided to be a dick saying "teveel informatie" (dutch for TMI) and just walking trough the changing room to leave on the other side.

This was awkward as hell.
I mean- of course it was. I was naked, i was a 14-year old kid with a 2 inch long flaccid penis and i'm not sure wether to be glad or sad it wasn't erect at the time (that is when it grows to 7.2 inch), and my crush alongside two people that know my VT profile (and so, my darkest secrets) plus a complete stranger beeing the only ones in the room all assured that this experience be as awkward as possible.

Oh well. After half a minute -although it semt like an hour- i managed to get the damn boxer shorts on and the jeans and shirt went on swiftly after that. I waited for my crush because he took so damn long and he did use his towel to cover up (another missed opportunity). We went outside, laughed at the fact i hadn't gotten the third swimming certificate yet and the fact that some clown guy had nearly drowned him while he got his. After the other two guys came out i just jumped onto my bike and gtfo'd (the three of them live on the other side of the school... >.<)

Okay. The point of this thread. i know it's really detailed but not so much in sexual stuff, okay, not at all, so it should be fine.

Should i be happy that i finally got over my intense fear of having exposed skin? My limbs (arms, that is) and face are exeptions, of course.
Should i have acted differently than i had? I feel like i acted wrongly and my classmates think i'm a creep now ;0
Ehhh, doens't sound like too big of a deal, just forget about it

[peyton2000]

He's probably jealous

[deltadart]

You are lucky, I don't know how many times I have tried changing naked and then chickened out with a towel. As for the TMI guy, forget him. As stated above, he is just being immature, after all everyone there is a guy.

[Aletheiaphile]

I don't think there's anything you should worry about. I also was a bit insecure about changing in public locker rooms and with time I learnt not to mind it, and you seem to be already doing well in that aspect.

[Telkanis]

So first,you didn't do anything wrong. The TMI dude is just a jerk, ignore him. Don't beat someone up for a stupid comment. If you want say something witty back. Like"sorry I'm bigger than you" I'm also been really nervous being naked around people but I've been getting better about it. Good luck.