Parents with different ideas

[Curious.kid]

Do your parents have different ideas about masturbating? My mom hates that I masturbate. She always knows when I do it because I do it in my room always with the door closed. It's a long story but she always knows after I do it and she doesn't like it. She tells me to wash my hands and wipe my face when I come out which is embarrassing. She sayys it hurts her and that it's a naughty thing to do since it's against the church. My dad thinks it's ok and knows what it's like to have feelings. So I was wondering if you have one parent who let's you and one parent who wants you to not do it like me?

[justin2567]

I dont have parents like that but just do it if you want, thats an awkward situation though...

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

My mom probably realizes that I masturbate often, because when she comes to my door,she will often tell me to "Stop playing with yourself" because she doesn't want to see my twig n' berries. However, my dad may not even know that I masturbate, and because he's such a religious nut, I don't think he would be okay with it.

[maritimer]

Find the compromise in the deal, and i sure there is one
Keep with what making you happy and doesnot
doesn't hurting your mum as well

[mychalo]

My parents have discussed masturbation with us and the main this is being private when we do it. They understand boys do this and it's natural. We don't go to church every week.

[BoomBounce]

I always have my door closed and I masturbate at random moments. So they wont notice im masturbating, however I always have my tin full of toilet paper since I do it daily lol but they might know it already.

Every mum or dad masturbated when they were young too (probably), so if they think its wrong ask that! Because its logic

[JustAnotherTeen]

My parents know and don't care haha

[Ethe14]

My parents have luckily never caught me nor said anything. But I suspect they know because I always seem to have tissues and they leave me in peace.

[PinkFloyd]

My parents have not once confronted me about it. The closest my parents have come to talking about something like that with me would have to be when I first got a girlfriend, my mom told me this:

"If you and her are going to do anything, it's both of your choices and not mine. If I tried to make it mine, it wouldn't change a thing. That being said, just be safe and use birth control."

We're not what you'd call a religious family, so that's why.

[SillyShyGuy]

Do your parents have different ideas about masturbating? My mom hates that I masturbate. She always knows when I do it because I do it in my room always with the door closed. It's a long story but she always knows after I do it and she doesn't like it. She tells me to wash my hands and wipe my face when I come out which is embarrassing. She sayys it hurts her and that it's a naughty thing to do since it's against the church. My dad thinks it's ok and knows what it's like to have feelings. So I was wondering if you have one parent who let's you and one parent who wants you to not do it like me?

Some parents are different. For example my parents do not want me to jerk off, but they would not mind if I make love with a girl. They even bought be condoms and told me to be safe. My friend's parents do not mind if he jerks off because it is better than risking getting a girl pregnant.

[CrazyPerson101]

Do your parents have different ideas about masturbating? My mom hates that I masturbate. She always knows when I do it because I do it in my room always with the door closed. It's a long story but she always knows after I do it and she doesn't like it. She tells me to wash my hands and wipe my face when I come out which is embarrassing. She sayys it hurts her and that it's a naughty thing to do since it's against the church. My dad thinks it's ok and knows what it's like to have feelings. So I was wondering if you have one parent who let's you and one parent who wants you to not do it like me?

Ummmm well I don't masturbate but It sounds like he did and/or does it so he understands what a teenage guy is going through but the way your mom treats you is not cool, if mine did, Id say its either this or going out and having ... well you know, so Id talk to your dad about it and try to get it through her head that its not cool how she treats you ( masturbating wise )

[Body odah Man]

Do your parents have different ideas about masturbating? My mom hates that I masturbate. She always knows when I do it because I do it in my room always with the door closed. It's a long story but she always knows after I do it and she doesn't like it. She tells me to wash my hands and wipe my face when I come out which is embarrassing. She sayys it hurts her and that it's a naughty thing to do since it's against the church. My dad thinks it's ok and knows what it's like to have feelings. So I was wondering if you have one parent who let's you and one parent who wants you to not do it like me?

My mom's against it, I think, dunno dad's opinion. It sucks when parents have conflicting opinions huh :(

[jelly3000]

It's an odd question to ask - but has your mother moved her opinion at all since you started masturbating?? I mean like not letting you do it to not approving...

[Antagonist]

My parents don't care... They know it's apart of growing up and being an adult. Regarding what you're mom is doing and saying... It's none of her business. As soon as I read what she does, I got mad lol. She can't dictate what you do to pleasure yourself, or if you do it at all. Unless she's going to tie you down and put a Chasity belt (or however yo spell it) on you, she can't do or say shit.

[Cognizant]

My parents act like they're completely oblivious about me doing it and I don't have a "strong" enough relationship with them to ask them about their opinions on it, so i don't really know.

[fast8]

I don't have that issue but your fine keep doing it I u want

[hockeyfan]

My parents don't know when I do it.

They know I have done it . My dad doesn't care about that. Mom thinks its dirty but guys do it and she got over herself.

[ksdnfkfr]

They are very down to earth and practical about stuff like that. They never bring it up, but I know they know the same as they know I go to the bathroom. Boys in puberty masturbate, it's just part of life. I've never needed to, but I'm certain I could talk about it with my dad fairly comfortably.

[Curious.kid]

Ummmm well I don't masturbate but It sounds like he did and/or does it so he understands what a teenage guy is going through but the way your mom treats you is not cool, if mine did, Id say its either this or going out and having ... well you know, so Id talk to your dad about it and try to get it through her head that its not cool how she treats you ( masturbating wise )

She treats me this way because she knows when I'm masturbating and after I come out my face is a little red and sweaty so she tells me to wipe my face and wash my hands even though I try to hide it. She expects me to be a perfect little boy and not masturbate but it's so hard to go a long time and not have to do it. And she will not let me have sex at all.

It's an odd question to ask - but has your mother moved her opinion at all since you started masturbating?? I mean like not letting you do it to not approving...

The first time she caught me and found out she said I wasn't allowed to masturbate AT ALL. And that was really difficult and a horrible time. I didn't get a chance to finish it when she caught me so it was like I was left there hanging and it started to hurt! you know? So I obeyed her and I lasted 10 days without masturbating. But afterthat I finally couldn't handle the pressure and I just had to release it in the bathroom on the tenth day. When she caught me again I got in huge trouble but afterwards Im pretty sure my dad talked to her and now I can masturbate but only in my room when the door is closed. And my mom won't let my little brother come in which is a nice thing to do. But now she just hates when I do it. Like to hurry it up and stuff even if I'm still in the middle of it because she thinks it's wasting time.

My parents don't care... They know it's apart of growing up and being an adult. Regarding what you're mom is doing and saying... It's none of her business. As soon as I read what she does, I got mad lol. She can't dictate what you do to pleasure yourself, or if you do it at all. Unless she's going to tie you down and put a Chasity belt (or however yo spell it) on you, she can't do or say shit.

She tried to stop me before. She said I wasn't allowed but I could only take it for 10 days until I broke the rule.

[Catholic Guy]

Well there are two options, wank in bed, wake up a little earlier and do it then to wait until you go to bed at night and then do it. Your other option is to do it in the shower, your mum is going to be mad because she isn't a guy and doesn't understand the reasoning

[Kyle14]

I dont think they care.

[Kyle14]

But one time my mom knocked on my door and asked me to turn down my porn.

[diddykong53]

for me both my parents hate that i did it. it's a long story but basically I had an accountability partner who I lied to so now my parents think i've stopped... I'm starting to do it more like once every day.

[Jim1]

Seems like you could discuss the situation with your dad privately and ask him to discuss it with
your mom.

[HSJock206]

First of all, women in general don't have a clue about mens responses to an erection. Your dad does and that's why he doesn't make a fuss. Also parent's grew up in a different era so things today are much different than they were 15-20 years ago or when they were our age. Do whats right for you and just don't do it when your mom is around.

[AlisterPSG]

But one time my mom knocked on my door and asked me to turn down my porn.

... ok... so when you watch porn and your mom is in the house you have the volume up? why?

[bigp0599]

8 mean one time a videoed my self and sent it to some other people but she found the video but she said not to send them no more but no more then just that

[Curious.kid]

8 mean one time a videoed my self and sent it to some other people but she found the video but she said not to send them no more but no more then just that

I think my parents would kill me if I took a video of my penis and sent it to people! I can't believe you didn't get in any trouble for that.

[bigp0599]

I think my parents would kill me if I took a video of my penis and sent it to people! I can't believe you didn't get in any trouble for that.
Yeh but they just took my phone away but gave it back to me. And Yeh lol

[bigp0599]

But one time my mom knocked on my door and asked me to turn down my porn.
Headphones or don't have it up

[Connormann]

Both of my parents know, they have too, there's no way they're that stupid lol. And neither one seem to give a shit. My dad will make funny comments when I'm in the shower for long periods of time, but it has recently stopped. But if they had a problem with it I'm sure they would say something.