Had a weird uncomfortable thing happen

[ksdnfkfr]

Spent the last 2 days mostly with my aunt uncle and cousins I never met much up until now. so that's a strange adjustment for me right there. anyways, I was on the couch watching the LEGO movie i've already seen and fell asleep and had a wet dream right there in the living room with everyone around. i woke up from it as my penis was pulsing in my pants and I was cumming like mad. I think i was grunting a little while it was happening. I make funny sounds and movements with my autism, so I think they thought it was just that. I got up and went into the bathroom real fast and cleaned myself up best I could and started crying. not a question i know, but needed to talk about it and this is the only place I can.

[deregisterme]

Spent the last 2 days mostly with my aunt uncle and cousins I never met much up until now. so that's a strange adjustment for me right there. anyways, I was on the couch watching the LEGO movie i've already seen and fell asleep and had a wet dream right there in the living room with everyone around. i woke up from it as my penis was pulsing in my pants and I was cumming like mad. I think i was grunting a little while it was happening. I make funny sounds and movements with my autism, so I think they thought it was just that. I got up and went into the bathroom real fast and cleaned myself up best I could and started crying. not a question i know, but needed to talk about it and this is the only place I can.

If you want to PM with me, you can, I'm here to talk. Were your family OK afterwards or has this just happened

[Coolguy2067]

Chill out. Wet dreams are normal and your family will understand that. Plus for a boy your age they wouldn't expect for you not to. So don't worry about it, you ll be ok.

[overobsessiveteen]

It's okay, man. Things happen. That's puberty. Honestly, they shouldn't give a damn about it. They should know that guys cum while they are asleep sometimes.

[ksdnfkfr]

If you want to PM with me, you can, I'm here to talk. Were your family OK afterwards or has this just happened

i don't think they know what happened. i mean i was disorientated while it was going on and got in the bathroom real fast. after i cleaned up and finished crying, i just went back in the living room the same as if i had just gone to the bathroom. my uncle asked 'everything ok?" but he asks me that a lot anyways. the whole thing just really shook me up. was just so unexpected. its like i'm sitting here with my 'new' relatives uncontrollably cumming in my pants in front of them. i mean i'm weird enough for them as it is without something like that going on. I'm afraid they could smell it.

[deregisterme]

i don't think they know what happened. i mean i was disorientated while it was going on and got in the bathroom real fast. after i cleaned up and finished crying, i just went back in the living room the same as if i had just gone to the bathroom. my uncle asked 'everything ok?" but he asks me that a lot anyways. the whole thing just really shook me up. was just so unexpected. its like i'm sitting here with my 'new' relatives uncontrollably cumming in my pants in front of them. i mean i'm weird enough for them as it is without something like that going on. I'm afraid they could smell it.

It is just one of these things that has happened. If they've not noticed, then it's just been one of those things. If they've not really said anything, then you're OK. It's not something that's easily controlled, hopefully, if it happens again, it will be at night when U in bed

[fast8]

I'm sure your uncle would understand what happen if he knew he would not say anything to make u feel in comfortable wet dreams happen to a lot you are fine

[jelly3000]

Yeah the body can be annoying at times. I guess the best thing I can say is don't beat yourself up over it - or in this case maybe the pun would have limited the possibility of this happening. You also need to remember that your brain is changing a lot at the moment which means your much more likely to get upset compared to when you were a kid or older - even if it's a big or small problem. Do you mind if I ask if you have autism or aspergers??

[bbwolf26]

Wow Ezra, I feel bad that happened to you. Don't worry as there is nothing you can do about it. At least you were with family, but they probably don't know what happened. When they saw you hurry to the bathroom they probably thought you were sick or something.

[itsthat0n3kid]

Hey don't even worry about it. That happens. I doubt they noticed. It doesn't have the most prevalent smell so you're probably good. Just dont worry about it and if it ever happens again just act like its nothing and your family wont worry either. If you have any more questions just message me!

[Dennis98]

I understand everything you wrote , I understand that you have autism , but why the hell did you cried ?! Come on you are male , guy , I could never understand males that cry , goddamn ... And even you had really good reason to cry , you had wet dream and you cried because of that ?! Or you cried because something else ???

[cudo2]

I understand everything you wrote , I understand that you have autism , but why the hell did you cried ?! Come on you are male , guy , I could never understand males that cry , goddamn ... And even you had really good reason to cry , you had wet dream and you cried because of that ?! Or you cried because something else ???

So males aren't allowed to cry? I have cried many times in my life. All genders have emotions, you know. I think he was crying because he was embarrassed that he had a wet dream in front of other people.

[Dennis98]

Well , in my country it is considered shame to male cry ( except kids ) , that kind of males are considered weaklings or coward .. Anyway , last time I cried was 5 years ago , maybe for that contribute fact that I am cold blood person ( psychopath with known diagnosis ) and I dont have feelings for others and myself too . But anyway , it really look shameful when you see some boy in puberty ( you can say adult , from moment you can ejaculate , you can considere yourself as adult person ) that cries . I can understand autism and everything but there is no reason to cry , because wet dream , that is stage that every male had , so he should be proud because that ...

[Connormann]

It's perfectly fine man, everybody has them. Even if they had noticed what was happening, they have enough respect to keep quite about it. Just let it go, nothing will come of it. Promise :)

[beenthere]

Hey Dude, I've seen a few of your post, your an inteligent guy, I totally understand your reation to what happend, pretty embarassing, but no one will hold that against you. I think you would tell any other kid not to let it bother them. You're fine Dude, Don't even give it a second thought, could happen to anyone.

[hockeyfan]

Plz dont feel badly and dry ur tears. That can happen to anyone.

[ksdnfkfr]

I feel better about it now and am even laughing a little about it some now. I told my cousin and he laughed his head off and kept saying funny stuff to make me feel better. I don't know why I cried, it's not like something I planned on. Just a freaky situation and I was really disoriented too. And in a strange place with ppl i don't know all that well, which is really difficult when you're autistic.

Well , in my country it is considered shame to male cry ( except kids ) , that kind of males are considered weaklings or coward .

wow that sounds awful. fucking glad i don't live there tbh.

[Urban]

Just that remember that all your male family members have been there, went through it all when they were your age and that the female family members probably had a laugh about this with the males in their lives at that age too. Adults, out of all people are most understanding about these things! Hope it's going okay with ya! :)

[ChaseDakoda]

Joe, I honestly do not think a person can smell cum as it happens, Only if you have not cleaned in a week.

[shinodas]

what a close-minded, silly thing to say, it is completely okay to cry, it's healthy and natural

[Second Chance]

I can understand how you felt, and it definitely would be embarrassing to have a wet dream out there in the open. There was nothing wrong with crying especially being exposed like that. With that being said, it is pretty clear no one realized what happened and that they just attributed your behavior to your autism. In other words, you are totally clear, and there is no way your family would have figured out you had a wet dream. After all, it is not like you did anything wrong, and you cannot control your dreams and what happens in your unconscious mind.

My only suggestion is that if you have a lot of wet dreams, then it might be best not to sleep in public areas and to stay in your bedroom so that just in case you have another wet dream it will happen in private. Once you are done with puberty, then you should be fine, and I'm guessing you are just having a surge in hormones which caused this situation.

[niceguy44]

Just forget it & put it behind you. These things happen. Look at this way . No body knows what happened excep you. Things could have been far worse.

[pjones]

[QUOTE=Ezra;2866092]I feel better about it now and am even laughing a little about it some now. I told my cousin and he laughed his head off and kept saying funny stuff to make me feel better. I don't know why I cried, it's not like something I planned on. Just a freaky situation and I was really disoriented too. And in a strange place with ppl i don't know all that well, which is really difficult when you're autistic.



Hey Ezra, so happy to hear you're feeling better and able to laugh about it. And that your cousin sounds understanding about the situation. I would have freaked some myself if that happened to me.

Hang in there, you have lots of friends here that support you.

[bigp0599]

It will be all good man