The perfect date

[SillyShyGuy]

Last December I asked a girl named Ruby to go on a date with me and she said yes. I met her in science class and wanted to get to know her. She has bright orange hair and I decided to sit next to her one day. It was a huge risk because I was super shy and did not know what to say. I wore my best cardigan sweater and sat besides her. I asked her on the date one month after we met.

I was very excited for the date, but nervous as well. I wore a red checkered button shirt under a gray vest under a blue hooded- sweater. She wore a pretty blouse under a heavy brown jacket. We caught a bus downtown and along the way we talked about movies, actors, and actresses. I asked her if she had been to the boardwalk by the beach, when she said no I told her we should get off at the bus stop near it. I opened the door for her and we looked around. The rides were closed since it was late, but we played miniature golf. We asked each other a lot of questions while we played, we did not care for the score. I remember I told her that her smile was bright because her teeth glowed in the neon lit room. It was cheesy. I tried very hard to make her laugh and it worked.

After golf we went to get fries and I offered her star burst I brought. I asked her about family and which parent had colored eyes. Afterwards we went to grab coffee. We continued to talk about a number of things. I asked her many times if she was cold and offered her my sweater. When we returned I walked her home. When we were at her door I asked if I could kiss her, she said I could on her cheek. I thanked her for the date and told her I had fun. She smiled and we hugged.

That was my perfect date. How would you describe your perfect date?

[Cognizant]

Awh that sounds really fun! :D

I suck at dating, just being realistic with myself. My first date with my first partner was just chilling at Golden Gate Park, and we sat there and talked for a while until things got awkward. Then we took a bus to go to a mall, which muni being muni took like an hour. That part was fun, especially since he got to learn alllll about my obsession with buses and trains :P We ditched the idea of going to the mall once we got there, though, and just got food and went our separate ways.

It probably wasn't the most fun thing ever compared to others dates, but I had a lot of fun. For me, it's better to just sit and relax with the person on first dates before doing anything, cause you get to know the person really well and focus your attention on them. It challenges me to talk more than I normally would if I was at dinner or a movie per se.

But as like a second date, I would definitely just want to go spend the day with them doing whatever we please :)

[mrmee]

The first date I went on wound up with her dad catching us making out behind the house, and later her mom walking in just as she was about to mention sex. I cant blame them for checking in like that, seeing as they are her parents, but that was miserable timing. Definitely not very ideal.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I've never had a date before and I don't really see myself having a date before age 20 or so.
My perfect date would be going out to eat first, not anywhere exorbitantly fancy, it might just be some pizza place, but we would talk to each other over dinner, and I would get to stare at him.
The next part could be anything as well, a romantic walk through the park, holding hands, a movie, some ice cream or something. We'd talk some more and as the evening progressed we'd end up at one of our houses.
We would talk about ourselves, and cuddle, flirt, and if I'm lucky, we'd make out. We'd drink some and by the end of the night, we'd fall asleep spooning.

[Cygnus]

A salsa club, because that could be a defining factor in a relationship.

[CharlieHorse]

That's adorable and sweet. :)
are you two still together?


I've never been on a date, and i never will.

[rondynash]

There is nothing called perfect date as far as i was concern.