Has anyone else had this thought?

[Thatoldtruck]

IMO, girls have it way harder than guys both physically and emotionally. Something that I've never considered before came into my head the other day. If a guy has a small dick, 99% of the world will never know or see that. If a girl has really small boobs, the world will see that no matter what she's wearing. If a girl has small boobs, she is seen as no fun and nobody wants any of her. If she has big boobs, she is tagged by society as a slut. In this way, I think girls have it harder in life.

Thoughts?

[Hudor]

That is too stereotypical actually. I don't agree with the generalisation you make. Everyone has different preferences. A girl with small breasts may be appealing to some and not to others and there is no reason for tagging a girl with big boobs as a slut until she behaves like one which holds true for any girl for that matter.

All things said, I understand the point you want to make and I believe girls have it harder than guys which is why they have my respect.

[anrigirl]

I agree with Hudor, that is very stereotypical. I have a girl friend with really small boobs and she got very loving and caring boyfriend, and most boys have very much respect for her. Guys who discriminate against us for having small boobs don't deserve us!!

[JamesSuperBoy]

I agree with Hudor, that is very stereotypical. I have a girl friend with really small boobs and she got very loving and caring boyfriend, and most boys have very much respect for her. Guys who discriminate against us for having small boobs don't deserve us!!

well said.

Got to add of course girls like guys have what they have.

[Rocketsnail]

I would have to agree with Hudor, if anything, I think guys have it much harder than girls do. Of course that's just what I think.

[Elysium]

I would have to agree with Hudor, if anything, I think guys have it much harder than girls do. Of course that's just what I think.
I disagree. On both social and physical levels, I believe girls have it harder. While I'd like to say that the struggles are equal, to say so would be to efface the harassment and double standards many women face on a daily basis - just for being female. I think the only area you could argue equality for men and women would be politically.

Men are not as frequently sexually harassed or raped; men are paid more on average; men aren't slut shamed; men don't get pregnant; men don't have menstrual cycles; and the list goes on. So, how embarrassing is it, popping an accidental boner in class, versus bleeding all over the seat while your hormones are wreaking havoc with your ability to even cope with an embarrassing situation?

OP, while I do believe you're right, I also don't think it's for the reason you stated. Although women are often sexualized and objectified, it's not just based on their breast size - and what other people think of you shouldn't determine your worth.

[Hudor]

I would have to agree with Hudor, if anything, I think guys have it much harder than girls do. Of course that's just what I think.

I think you misunderstood my statement. I believe that girls have it harder than guys.

I disagree. On both social and physical levels, I believe girls have it harder. While I'd like to say that the struggles are equal, to say so would be to efface the harassment and double standards many women face on a daily basis - just for being female. I think the only area you could argue equality for men and women would be politically.

Men are not as frequently sexually harassed or raped; men are paid more on average; men aren't slut shamed; men don't get pregnant; men don't have menstrual cycles; and the list goes on. So, how embarrassing is it, popping an accidental boner in class, versus bleeding all over the seat while your hormones are wreaking havoc with your ability to even cope with an embarrassing situation?

For all these reasons and more I respect the women-folk.

Although women are often sexualized and objectified, it's not just based on their breast size - and what other people think of you shouldn't determine your worth.

Brilliantly said. This is going to be my favourite quote.

[SillyShyGuy]

Breast size does not make you a bad person. I know nice people with large breasts and fun people with small ones. Personally, I enjoy small breasts. You should not judge based on size because what if a girl made fun of your size? Be nice

[LitBlackRose]

Well I do agree but everyone is a fetish to someone

[cjto]

idk in my friend group we have a girl with really small boobs and a girl with huuuge boobs and both are looked at as equally hot and sometime we make fun of them (all in good humour nothing mean) but theres also this guy who parentally has a really small dick in our group and he's constantly teased so in that sense the girl has it better...also girls kind of own us sexually like for the most part if they want some they are bona get it, not always true for guys :/

[Taryn98]

You're formulating a theory that one sex has it more difficult than the other based on penis/boob size. This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Your size or anything that has to do with looks in general has absolutely nothing to do with a gender's standing in society.
The fact that you even suggest such a thing shows how little you know about people, relationships, and society.

[Thatoldtruck]

That's my point. People make things so stereotypical. I dont tag people like that,it's just something I've noticed. My girlfriend, for example, has very small boobs and is one of the most fun people I know and I care for her very much.

[chrisawesome]

So what is a guy with a big dick? A slut?

[Karkat]

I feel like there's a BIT of truth to this- women are made to feel self-conscious about their bodies no matter what in today's society. By someone. Always.

Are men? To some extent, but if a girl states that she's proud of her body, or reveals any weakness, there will always be someone out there to tear her down.

I feel that in a lot of ways, girls do have it harder than guys, but in some ways have it easier, and so on. I'd say that it LARGELY depends on what the situation is, or what it is we're even talking about. This is actually a fairly broad statement.

[Denon]

Actually i don't care if a girl has small or big boobs, just as long she is nice.